Scorp/Sagg Love Story

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First I will start out with our charts.
Me
Sun: Scorp
Moon: taurus
Venus: Scorp
Mer:Sagg
Mars: Sagg
Rising: Sagg

Him
Sun: Sagg
Moons: pisces
venus: sagg
Mer: Scorp
Mars:Scorp
Dont know his rising

We meet in Jan of this year actually we talk on the phone for two weeks at first and had great conversation, he actually told me my conversation alone had him hook. he took me out for a fabulous date around valentine day it was funny cause when we intially met he thought I was going to be stuck up for some reason so I kinda flirted with him at first just playing with him then I got his attention. So we are dating at this point and things are going good we talk on the phone frequently and we see each other when we can due to his and mine work schedule also I kinda like to got out and I am bery specail and sometimes he just wanted me to stay in the hse. So initally in meeting I wasn't totally honest with him about something and I knew I should have told him anyway he found out and he was upset with me needless to say. We still keep in touch even thought he was very upset with me but he said that he already had feelings and he wish I would have just been honest to him. I said I was sorry and I thought he accepted that but still acted funny to me so one night I went out with the girls and he text me and said so you dont really care do you I said honey I do really care and I told you I was sorry so we meet up that night and had amazing sex and ofcourse this was not the first time and by this time this June. So that night I left my shoe in his car and we were joking like I didnt want to loose him so I left my shoe in the car and so forth so about two days later he said he was about too bring me my shoe so he did and I told him on the phone to come say hi but he said he was going to leave it on my car which he did and this really piss me off so once he did that I let him know I was upset and he were texting back and forth and he was just saying shit to piss me off and I told him to delete my number and forget about me but I really didnt mean it just when I get upset I say things and I already have foot in the mouth snydrome I dont think before I speak. So he deleted my number and change his I came to find out I text him like two weeks later and got no response so I figure this is what he did.

TO Be Continued
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So I just let it go and call it a lost who cares I am a Scorp I get over men easily whatever, well not this men I started thinking about how much of a good man he really was hardworking, romantic, great listener and talker, could keep up with my mouth and my attitude so I started to miss him and what we could have had. So fast forwarded to Oct I decided to send him a message on a social site that I knew he was on (I for oncce had too break my pride and say Hi how are you doin,
he says "Didnt know you care but thanks for asking I am doing good" so I left it at that. THen about two days later on Oct 14 I seen him the store Menards of all places I was so nervous I didnt know what to say so I said hi and I just kept on walking. It was crazy to actually see him again. So after that, that next day he send me a message like "Oh you couldnt even look at me but thats okay with your mean self but I guess we are the same". I replied I seen you were with your mom taking care of business so I didnt want to bother you and I said hi but you didnt respond " He said I sais hi but you look away so fast you wouldnt have know. So once I caught him on the site we started chatting and we talk about stuff and I ask him did he think it was crazy we seen each other again at a store he said I would call it Faith. So then I ask him could we start over and I will give him my number again and its up to him to call me again so the next day he text me and we had a date this pass friday and everything just fell back in place and now we are texting everyday making plans and planning what we are going to do for our birthdays next month. So I will let you all know about our progress but I know this is real and I am so happy I even told him I am going to stop going out as much I would like to spend quality time with him and I want to be completley honest about everything from this point on.
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Hi saggs

I really need you all advice male or female, so my relationship with the sagg is still going well even thought sometimes it seems like we have communication problems which I think is his fault. I will tell him I will be calling you around this time sometimes he falls asleep or whatever so I am like okay, then I do my own thing but if I dare tell him I went out or did something he seem to get a little upset. I dont like to be bored I have an active social life yes I love you and you get me first but if you are busy or sleep or whateva time does not stop I will find something else to do and I shouldnt have to hide this from him. Also we were apart for two months and I told I went out on like on date and he was kinda upset I should have kept my big mouth close (thats all that sagg in my chart I have foot in the mouth snydrome bad) so he let me know he was upset but he will bring it up why, thats the past. Also he always tell me I am so non chalant and he needs to know my true feelings and I have been trying to express those to him I even told him I was falling and already possibly in love with him and he said he felt the same way about me. I am a scorp sun and venus but other than that I have a lot of fire in my chart espically sagg so you would think we would click but its like I am the Sagg more social, very outgoing, and less emotional we actually act a lot alike but he has the pisces moon and scorp im his mars and mer so I dont know if this changes how he acts cause he is such a home body and this another small issue he doesnt like to go out as much as me. so please read and just give me you all outlook on our relationship what should I do different or could I do different to maybe make him feel more wanted and that I am not acting non chalant.
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Like today we are suppose to go out to celebrate both of our bday mine was the 11/14 and his 11/23 but I went out last night so I think he is kinda upset at me, he only know cause he text me at 2 am joking saying that he was out and that he was having a good time and he ask was I. I had told him earlier anyway that I might go out so I said yes I am having a good time he he is like dont let me have to kick your ass and what not. I couldnt talk right then and there I told him I would call him when I got home but no answer now today I havent heard from him and I call and text him today are ewe still going out? no response. So its no problem if he doesnt want to go but he is so last min he will text or call me later probably saying no I am tired and he will want to come over. And also he keep saying I dont want to see his other side. what could he mean by that? he says this when I say I am going out or something he doesnt agree with. Okay I am done venting............. so other than our communication issue I love him to death and he know this time I am willing to really work to make this work. also he keeps asking about making room in my dresser area fo his clothes, about making me fat(pregnancy) so I wont go out and also that he keep saying what would you say if I ask you to marry me tomorrow I told him yes but the truth is I am really afraid of ccommitment but with him I really want to take a chance.
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I read that scorps and sags will often have a lot of trouble getting the relationship to work at first, but its that initial struggle that will make you a strong couple in the end. And I think with you both having some of the others signs in both of your charts makes you two very similar.
I'm talking to a scorp right now whos very similar to me...so much so it's scary o.o So it makes me wonder if he has a lot of sag in his chart since I have a lot of scorp in my chart.

Don't give up on this one. As a scorp you wont be one to give up when most will so don't lose heart. I've heard a lot of people say sags are keepers. I'd like to think I'm a keeper 🙂
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@happykitsune I agree that Sagg are keepers I think the thing two with Scor/Sagg relationship and I also have read this is that is start out very strong and fast and then fizzle, this could be a little true since we were like that but I think now that we are slowing down a little and getting to know each other for who the other person is, is helping a lot. also just your love interest probably has a lot of Sagg in their chart like me so you all might be so similar but yet so opposite but I think it could work. LIke I said before I lost him once so if this doesnt work out which I hope it does I still want him as a friend now and always....... he's a keeper for life and I dont want to loose him ever again that was the worst two months of my life.
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@happykitsune I agree that Sagg are keepers I think the thing two with Scor/Sagg relationship and I also have read this is that is start out very strong and fast and then fizzle, this could be a little true since we were like that but I think now that we are slowing down a little and getting to know each other for who the other person is, is helping a lot. also just your love interest probably has a lot of Sagg in their chart like me so you all might be so similar but yet so opposite but I think it could work. LIke I said before I lost him once so if this doesnt work out which I hope it does I still want him as a friend now and always....... he's a keeper for life and I dont want to loose him ever again that was the worst two months of my life.



Yeah, slowing down is good. I planned on going slow myself, but my passion got the better of me and I kinda reversed the order I was suppose to go in.. oops o.o

He still hangs out with me, but now I'm holding out on the kisses and sex until after were in a relationship. I think he'll respect me more if I do. Plus I'm pretty sure he's been having too much fun sniffing my hair. He said the scent is like ecstacy to him -.-