Scorp / Sag questions

Question for the Scorpio ladies!

I have a gf who's a sagi, shes been back and forth with a scorp chick for a long time. They dated at some point, then broke up n the scorp went back to her ex. the sag liked her a lot, but the scorp would never open up about her feelings, but she knew she liked back.

Now its 6 months to a year later, the two are speaking again, but my sag friend is a little ify. Do scorp ladies find it hard to open up to love? The scorp keeps telling her 'i feel like you're gonna close yourself off', which the sag has told her countless times shes never holding back. it's like she needs 'proof' that she cares and its coming to the point where the sag is fed up and tired of the push and pull (typical for a scorp). She feels like she has to give her heart fully open and the scorps heart isnt even up for consideration.

The scorp wants to meet up and give her a letter she wrote months back that she was going to mail her, but obviously never did. It contains a lot of emotional stuff or so she says, but she's worried about giving it, because she believes my friend will laugh. My friend has again reassured her that she wouldn't and that she wants to see this 'letter'.

Long story short scorp, sag and scorps friend hung out the other day and the scorps friend pointed out that the scorp enjoys the sag's hair down. Sag went on to ask 'well what else does she like about me', in front of said scorp. The scorp seemed shocked and nothing else happened. Can any ladies shed some light on this subject?

Scorp and Sag never work. I was married to a Sag man. I had a Sag girlfriend. They are better off as friends.

If a Scorp tells a Sag how she feels, the Sag WILL laugh in thier face. My ex made fun of my sex faces!!!

RUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNN!

Just be friends. Tell the Scorp to save the heartache for someone worth it.

"I think a Sag woman would be too blunt for a sensitive Scorp
man"

Only for a scorpio man ? I might add here that I have been stumped a number of times by Sag women's rather ruthless streak of making fun of emotions. I think what a Sag woman actually desires for ( sub-conscious ) is a forceful retaliation and intimidation and fortunately an Aries can summon his brute strength to achieve exactly that.

A Sag woman is a wild one at that ( and why suddenly I can conjure up an image of a wild horse )and is up for some much needed domestication exercises.

lol@Garav, a horse needs a fine whip from Mr. Ram.

A lot of sag girls are sluts.


I have also noticed women with Venus in Sag to be skanks too.

They are kind of gullible at times too and get easily gassed up by men.

yes, a lot of sag girls are borderline sluts. my sag friend would go to a club and just make out with a total stranger for no reason. also, they make promises and rarely deliver and have a tendency to be manipulative. but they can be a lot fun around if you're willing to do what they want to do. she'd latch on to anyone who'd promise to give her what she wants. whether it's a man or a friend

Yeah they are.

Fun sluts 🙂

My boyfriend is on the cusp of Sag/Scorp too.

November 20th.

They are cool.

My dad's a November Scorp as well...close to Sag. I'm not sure my mom would describe him as cool though...lol.

I've never known a man so controlling...um...ok...maybe I have...lol...but he'd come home from work, look at mom and go, with no hello or anything "You're hair's grown too long. Get it cut."

He probably has Aries or Capricorn in his chart lol.

"He probably has Aries or Capricorn in his chart lol."

Wow...you're good. Turns out his moon is in Capricorn. 😉

I hate Scorpio's with Moon in Capricorn ughhh.

So high maintainence and sexist.

Reminds me of my cousin's boyfriend.

But she is a Cancer so she stays quiet and obeys his command.

Luckily my boyfriend had a Taurus Moon like me.

has*

My brother has his moon in Capricorn with Aries Sun --- ohmygod!! I feel
sorry for the girl that has to live with HIM!! He's sooooooooooooooooo frigging
anal!!!





That's my cousin LOL. Scary part is she has Hitler's birthday ahahahahaha.

"Anal!"

LOL...aren't virgos anal? I dont know...my dad's not anal...just dark and brooding and wants to friggin control every living thing.

And he decides to hook up with a bull....BIG mistake...lol.

"My ex made fun of my sex faces!!! "

lol that made me laugh

"2 sheets of bounce in the dryer"

LOL.

I've never been around a Cap...I dont think, except my dad's moon sign. But then he's heavy laden with scorp...so that pretty much overshadows all other signs in his chart.

Have you noticed how we end up picking men like our fathers...or choose to be in an environment we're familiar with? I mean...I grew up in a taurus woman/scorp man household and witnessed all the dynamics.

Lo and behold, I create a similar household in marrying a man heavy laden with scorp...I guess this kind of dynamic is all I know....so I feel at home with it. Hmmmm...
:: ponders ::

"Yep, whether we want to or not."

Ooooh...baby sis...I knew you'd start talking to me again 😛

"I don't want to meet anyone like my father. If I remotely see anything like him, I run the other way."

LOL...what's your dad's sun sign? Believe me, I only realised the similarities between hubby and my dad a few years ago. It just sorta clicked. It was too late for me to run then...lol.

"VIRGO!!!! Scorp mother + Virgo father"

Oh my...Ferdy...we have scorp parents !

I couldnt survive with a virgo. No seriously...I can survive with a man with sun=moon=mercury=venus=rising=SCORPIO....but I could never survive with a friggin virgo...lol

"She tries to make it up now but god, all these years later and I still remember!"

What IS it with scorp parents? My dad was viciously cruel...I mean...yowzah. I was close to him when I was really young then when things were going bad with mom, he did a friggin 180 on me.

Those were the days I just ran off to be with hubby...climb through his bedroom window and he'd cuddle me as I switched from anger to tears, then back to anger...lol. How we managed to avoid his parents is still a wonder.

lol@elevator

Climbing was rough though. He always said I was insane...but I was always the tomboy.

"So, your dad was a Scorp, and your mom??"

Dad scorp and mom...wait for it.....wait for it...........................taurus...LOL

I learnt how to throw pots and pans at my hubby from watching her with my dad...she gave me the "How to Handle a Man with Too Much Scorpio - 101" crash course.

"Did they divorce?"

Yeah...my mom gave up after a number of years. My dad's never gotten over her though. He never met a woman after her that could curb his controlling nature. She knew how to put him in his place but the fights just got a little too much for her. She just wanted some peace and quiet.

"I think Roseanne Barr is a SCORP come to think of it"

Is she? Well...she DOES have that sarcastic humor.

"Ahh....did she meet anyone after that? Don't say another SCORP!"

She had a few relationships but nothing serious. After my dad, I dont think she could take it. She has a moon in aries which probably explains why she had no patience for my dad and his antics...LOL.

"Yeah, we are hard to get over aren't we?"

Damn right we are!

"lol@Garav, a horse needs a fine whip from Mr. Ram."

Indeed. And no other 😉

LOL another Sagi slut.






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Ok.... so, didnt get much info on the subject at hand, minus the fact that i got 51 responses.... which were based on our own conversations.

The relationship i mentioned at the begining of this post is a sagi -female, scorp -female relationship. The sag is how you've mentioned, very straight forward and honest. She doesnt understand why the scorp goes back and forth, and obviously if the sag is still around that should mean something.

They met up after work the other night (after my post), the scorp gave the sag the 'letter' in question. She read it and it seemed the scorp blamed herself for their relationship to have failed and apologized for making her upset. My sag friend hasnt talked to her on regards to the letter, because shes confused on how to respond. she figures it took two to tango, so its not exactly anyones fault, but notes that the scorp did walk away and is now returning. Yet at the same time, she returns, but does the same actions as before (the disappearing and keeping emotions distant). Yet sahe txt's the sags cell saying loving words, but in person its almost a complete 180.... hence the confusion.

Side note, i've got a couple sagi female friends and they dont appear to be slutty. Hilarious alcoholics, but they dont seem to mess around with just anyone and anything. one of them recently had a baby girl and shes become completely cool calm and collected (her baby's a little scorp too!). On top of that, my mothers never been flirty or slutty (then again shes my mom, so of course i'd say that). Either way as far as i know, shes a serial monogamous (married a couple times, 14 yrs each guy). Granted shes a little nutty here and there, but not a flirter, but always up for adventures. Eh otherwise from my knowledge of sag women, i've never met one who was slutty.