Sag and Scorpio

What you think of the paring? I want to boil in your water😉

oooooOOOOooooo, well ... I let others comment first 🙂 I've had a Scorpio boyfriend but I'm only part Saggie and not full so I don't count lol

Ashley answered all my concerns and what I meant, I can now hide my post. lol

*cappy shakes head*

Read Ashley's post Cappy!

Sagittarius and scorpios can have some great fun in bed. They can persuade us at first very easily, than we stop and go... Hold tha phone! This is becoming a control thing I feel like I'm his bird in a bird cage! Were there pretty pets but us sagis can't stand that position. Not only that they hate our flirting with the opposite sex and sometimes it leads them straight up being supicious of us! And that (as stupid as this is going to sound) only makes us want to get away with more LOL and holy shit they will alway catch us! LOL

Freedom is importnt to us sagis, possesing love and commitment is what a scorp wants. It's difficult but oh sooooooo rewarding! No matter who... If you date a Scorpio you DO NOT come out the same person! That is if you come out alive :p LOL I should stop with the silly one liners I seem to only be funny when I'm not trying or when I
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ROTFL!!!!! Oh boy, I can't comment on this one, no one would believe me lol

Ashley answered all my concerns and what I meant, I can now hide my post. lol

HAHAHAHA, I read it Ray 😄

Hmmm, I have four planets in saggie along with being on the cusp ... I wonder was that my problem with my ex-scorpio lol—??

No way ... I hope not lol

Sagittarius and scorpios can have some great fun in bed. They can persuade us at first very easily, than we stop and go... Hold tha phone!

lol @ "at first ...."

Yep, in the beginning, I did whatever he wanted ... until I realized ... I was doing whatever he wanted HAHA!!!

Scorpio needs to let go, Sagittarius needs alittlt more tact in certain things and be open minded to a whole new perspective and give alittle without thowin in the towel.

Oh dear ... well ... lol, this is funny. I remember when I was trying to breakup with him, he caught me once and kissed me along with asking, "Why are you avoiding me?" Well,I wasn't trying to but breaking up with a scorpio isn't easy at all ...

Maybe its because I really didn't want to break up with him ... I think I did it because I was scared lol, of many things. I knew what I wanted but I didn't know how to express it. He could actually "Get me" to express and that scared me to death ...

Actually Ray's Heart, here are the scorpio and/or the cusps that work well with me -- I'm posting November lol

(For Love and Friendship): Nov. 5, 8, 15

(Benefical- I think this means possible marriage): Nov. 3,6,12,23

(Soul mates): Nov. 4, 16

a female scorp friend of mine loves sags. i think it's the whole they-go-along-with-anything thing. i think a male scorp with a female sag wouldn't last forever as sags do need to be free to roam (i have one of my own, so i know) and we all know a scorp male is not having that.

Great as friends...not as long term partners. Well I haven't seen any Scorp/Sag couples in all honesty.

hmm... a "spineless twat". they'd probably take it as a compliment. spineless = flexible. a twat is a comforting place to go. they can justify anything.

I don't understand sags. For all the crap they say about "freedom" they sure do well to get themselves caged.

HAHAHAHA!!!! Very true! and often they get themselves caged to someone that aren't even sure about. I think they can be really nice people and then just find it hard to deny anyone who they know really cares about them or whatever. As a result, they can stuck lol

Friendliness is their biggiest curse I tell you 😉

I know this Saggie girl who is with this guy and she's always ranting about how ugly she thinks he is and how his social skills are not that great ...

I asked her why is she with him, she says because he is sweet and gives her nice things *rolls eyes*

My Saggie boss is always bitching about her husband but when his ex-wife comes around, she gets all panicked lol

My Saggie best friend is in a relationship with a cancer right now for the silliest reason I could ever come with on my own. He cheats on her ... but that isn't fixing the problem. He bitches and moans about her all the time and cheats lol. Won't leave her because he is fearful of silly stuff *shakes head*

"If you date a Scorpio you DO NOT come out the same person!"

hahahaha, yes indeed. I would agree with that too -- thats why its important whether or not the scorpio is nice or mean 😉 You never really forget either experience.

I've also notice that if they really cared about you (even if they didn't show it probably) then they never really forget about you either :/

That's why they cheat and bitch about their SO to strangers?

hahaha, well, its a way of getting things off of their chest. Its easier to talk to a stranger because they don't really "know" you, see with I mean?

That's not "honest" ( something they are "famous" for) nor independent. That just makes them whiners.

HAHAHA!!!! I can't say too many negative things about saggies 😉 Being a cusp and all but I will say that when I Saggie is finally tired of whatever BS they are expressing, they will eventually leave ... but its at the oddest moments. Its soooo unexpected lol. Its like they just pack up and leave 😆!!!

sags have a hard time keeping their mouths shut (in more ways than one). i was at a party recently and someone was explaining the details of something that happened that i didn't know about and i asked "when did this happen?" and she said "oh, i told (the sag) so i figured everybody already knew about it". they really like other people's business.

sometimes i'm standing in line or on the train with my sag and later i get to hear about all the exploits of the conversations that happened around us, none of which i ever pay attention to. i think it's habitual for them to live their lives through other people. some may call this "adventure".

i guess this should be on the sag board. hmm...

My number one issue with Sag is that I feel that there is not a thing that they wouldn't do. So it keeps me from fully trusting them. I do have some Sag friends though, I rather just keep it at that.

"Is that a fact Ray? Hmm, I'm off to find a sag then, thanks for the heads up."

You have to consider that statement of mine in every aspects of life SSP, not just one. That's if you're thinking long term but not every one is fully their sun sign anyway. Make sure you assess the individual instead of just their zodiac.

"No I don't. Its one thing to come and say it on an anonymous board, for which I don't fault them, but its another to cookiemonster in front of people who have actually met your wife."

I wholeheartedly agree with that. That's what I'm talking about. It's just basic principles.

I know, which is why I said that. 😉

"If you date a Scorpio you DO NOT come out the same person!"

Do they change for the better or for the worst?

"its a way of getting things off of their chest. Its easier to talk to a stranger because they don't really "know" you, see with I mean?"

No I don't. Its one thing to come and say it on an anonymous board, for which I don't fault them, but its another to bitch in front of people who have actually met your wife.


OOOOHHHHH!!! See, I didn't know how talked about his wife in front of those who know her or who have met her. Yeah, thats different. I've complianted about my ex-bf but it was to those who didn't know him. Well .... my Scorpio friend ended up meeting him by accident ... and I still bitched about him 😆!!!!! *shrugs* Such as life, I can't totally deny my Saggie side 😄 But I usually don't do that, thats makes people uncomfortable for you to talk about those you have met.

Do they change for the better or for the worst?


This depends on your situation with the Scorpio involved after breaking up.

Posted by cappysweetie
Actually Ray's Heart, here are the scorpio and/or the cusps that work well with me -- I'm posting November lol

(For Love and Friendship): Nov. 5, 8, 15

(Benefical- I think this means possible marriage): Nov. 3,6,12,23

(Soul mates): Nov. 4, 16

Hey cappysweetie! Where did you get these dates? I wanna know for myself =)

I really would like more information here. I am a 42 year old Scorpio woman who is crazy about a 48 year old Sag man. We have been dating casually but just started a sexual relationship. Here's the deal:

When he realizes I go out w/ someone else, he pouts. But 24 hours later this is the text message I get:

*When we kiss, I notice you pull away. (and the man can REALLY kiss)

Me: *Maybe I'm trying to be careful.

*Do you feel like you need to put your guard up?

Me: *Do you think I need to keep my guard up?

*I guess that is a smart thing because I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now.


Okay guys, 24 hours before this message, he was upset to find out I went out w/ someone else. So how do I keep a sag going w/out freaking him out? Should I just say goodbye? (I don't want to especially since we just started having mind-blowing sex) I honestly thought the best way to get a sag in a relationship was to just keep seeing them and not let them know they were in a relationship. lol


HELP!

lol! well im a sag and i can tell u im VERY independent and i love when im single, but when im in love im exagerated in love
i dont know if its cos im a pisces moon and i have venus in capricorn but i never cheted and i take my relationships very seriously
usually what attracts a sadge is acting cool and having ethics or values or any word related to laws vocabulary lol
i mean showing u have values and a social conciouness, that u care for the world and that u have a life besides ur emotional world
what probably pissed him off is that he was trying to be direct and honest with u and u were aswering with another question
''*Do you feel like you need to put your guard up?

Me: *Do you think I need to keep my guard up?''

or at least that would sound like bs if boy answered that to me, cos im meaning ''hey im trying to reach u, what r u feeling about us, im trying to understand ur actions'' we honestly dont play games or at least not in a super deeper level like scorpios, we r very here and now this is what i think and am, no secret nature for us
i know scorps have the need of keeping their feeling hidden cos they dont wanna get hurt but if u were able to show what u want and feel and act like ''im here i want this, do u want it too? cos if u dont ill move on'' he would feel more attracted to u, even if u want just to take slow
u dont have to act like u r developing a relationship w him but he cant be aware of it
if u can show him u want him but hes not the center of ur universe i think that would be cool
well im speaking for myself, honestly i dont have many sadge male friends cos i think they r annoying hehehehhe
i hope i could help u a bit =)

^^^ I agree 100% I'm a sag girl dating a scorpio boy

Baby, I really appreciate your response. My confusion lies w/ this: I thought if I told him I really liked him, it would scare him away.

i understand.. well if a boy tells me he likesme and i like him too i would love to hear that
i would feel in heaven
what scares me its to lose my freedom not to love someone
so if i see the one i like as a partner not as someone whos trying to seduce me only, i would feel authomatically commited to him (and happy to be)
i wish u the best luck =)

I ended it. I kept a door open in case later we could try again. But it was too exhausting. Scorpio women like attention. Sag men don't give enough. And if he made a sentimental remark (I miss you), it was always followed w/ a joke. I need something intense.

I guess I don't have anything to lose. I wrote him and told him if he ever wanted to talk seriously (without the jokes) I would welcome the idea. He immediately wrote me back and told me his schedule next week. I thought this was a good sign.

Question: HOw do I tell him when we talk face-to-face that I really like him and would welcome the idea of a relationship after he wrote "I'm not looking for a serious relationship"? I thought Sags were scared of being tied down and don't want to have this "discussion."

^^ Use your scorpio powers of being in his life but not over the top. Your charm works on us🙂 Mine's did.

You want a Sag to be serious and puts the jokes aside....lol....goodluck. 🙂

Someone on the Sag thread gave me excellent advice. It was perfect. I just found this message board last week. I love it.