Tanya Jones
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Scorpio & Sagittarius
Posted by dontgetmewrongPrivate actually.
Aren't Scorpios secretive though?
My friends only know my SO's first name and that took 6 months to get out of me. The only person that needs to know about my relationship is the person I'm in the relationship with. My partner is the same way. He's not a "secret" he's my business.
No, not a good match
Posted by PhoenixRising+1. It even takes a long time for me to tell family and friends about who I'm seeing. I think one thing Scorps and us have in common is belief in intergrity in relationships. The less attention, influence, or pressure you have from the outside; the better the both of you are able to flow and solve problems together.Posted by dontgetmewrongPrivate actually.
Aren't Scorpios secretive though?
My friends only know my SO's first name and that took 6 months to get out of me. The only person that needs to know about my relationship is the person I'm in the relationship with. My partner is the same way. He's not a "secret" he's my business.click to expand
I think sadge and Scorpio make awesome friends. I tried to date a couple of my Scorpio male friends and the vibe totally changed to secretive and withdrawn. So disappointing our friendship didn't translate well to romance
I have seen scorpios can bond with every sign. How's that possible when they are secretive and don't trust easily?
The scorpio girl i was talking about has total
9-10 best friends from different sign. Is it that scorpios can act to be a good friend or a partner to any sign but is totally opposite on the inside?
I don't think sagittarians are secretive. My friend's husband who's a sagittarius, as i have mentioned earlier, haven't uploaded any photos where they are seen together.
Is there something wrong with their marriage?
The scorpio girl i was talking about has total
9-10 best friends from different sign. Is it that scorpios can act to be a good friend or a partner to any sign but is totally opposite on the inside?
I don't think sagittarians are secretive. My friend's husband who's a sagittarius, as i have mentioned earlier, haven't uploaded any photos where they are seen together.
Is there something wrong with their marriage?
Posted by Tanya Jones1) Who is defining these people as her best friend? Her or you? I ask because I find it hard to believe. Sort of like having 2000+ FB "friends" and you've only interacted or laid eyes on a dozen of them within the last year. Scorps rarely have more than a few close friends. Everyone else is just "cool" to hang around with.
I have seen scorpios can bond with every sign. How's that possible when they are secretive and don't trust easily?
The scorpio girl i was talking about has total
9-10 best friends from different sign. Is it that scorpios can act to be a good friend or a partner to any sign but is totally opposite on the inside??
2) Huh? How does one "act" as a good friend or partner and not feel it on the inside?
Posted by Tanya JonesDepends on the chart. As beautifulsoul posted above he doesn't share info with family or friends without some time begin him and he's all Sag.
I don't think sagittarians are secretive. My friend's husband who's a sagittarius, as i have mentioned earlier, haven't uploaded any photos where they are seen together.
Posted by Tanya JonesPlanning to interfere? Why so curious?
Is there something wrong with their marriage?click to expand
@ PhoenixRising.
1) Of course my scorpio friend told me that those 9-10 girls were her best friends. She considers me as one of her best friends. I am one of those 9-10 girls. Lol.
Do you know every scorpio girl?
2)People can pretend to be friends duh! Isn't it? Not everyone is pure. Maybe they just need lots of attention from others.
If i would have planned to interfere, i could have asked her directly or have asked her husband. But i am asking here. Is there any problem in being curious? She's my childhood friend afterall.
1) Of course my scorpio friend told me that those 9-10 girls were her best friends. She considers me as one of her best friends. I am one of those 9-10 girls. Lol.
Do you know every scorpio girl?
2)People can pretend to be friends duh! Isn't it? Not everyone is pure. Maybe they just need lots of attention from others.
If i would have planned to interfere, i could have asked her directly or have asked her husband. But i am asking here. Is there any problem in being curious? She's my childhood friend afterall.
Posted by FrostAndBitehmm...i see.
There might be something wrong with their marriage. There might not. It'd take a lot more than posts or lack thereof on social media to even make an educated guess at that. Who knows maybe keeping private works for them. Half of marriages fail these days anyways, so maybe they have their own way of doing things.
And just because someone has a lot of friends doesn't mean they trust all of them deeply. I have a ton of friends, only about three really know me, two really understand me and only one has put in the work, time and grit to gain my deepest trust. Even then there are still some things that are just for me, no one else needs to know them.
Posted by Tanya JonesStating that I find something hard to believe is not the same as saying I know every female Scorp doesn't have 9-10 best friends. While my question was attempting to clarify, your question was an attempt at what exactly? Moving on....
@ PhoenixRising.
1) Of course my scorpio friend told me that those 9-10 girls were her best friends. She considers me as one of her best friends. I am one of those 9-10 girls. Lol.
Do you know every scorpio girl?
Posted by Tanya JonesPerhaps. I guess I can't relate to that line of thinking. It seems like a waste of energy and time. If I don't like you, I'm not going to pretend I do.
@ PhoenixRising.
2)People can pretend to be friends duh! Isn't it? Not everyone is pure. Maybe they just need lots of attention from others.
Posted by Tanya JonesNow who's not being pure? Childhood friend yet you can't ask her what's up with her relationship and don't know who she is as a person. If you asked any one of my real friends "hey why doesn't Phoenix ever post pics on FB, or talk about _____" (both true stories) they'd know exactly what to say.
@ PhoenixRising.
If i would have planned to interfere, i could have asked her directly or have asked her husband. But i am asking here. Is there any problem in being curious? She's my childhood friend afterall.click to expand
The running joke amongst my besties is "we'll know Phoenix is in a relationship when we get the invitation to the wedding in the mail". In other words, they know I'm private. Although their joke is a bit of an exaggeration, it isn't that far from the truth. Point is, they don't have to asked random strangers why I may act the way that I do. No looking for trouble in my relationships because I don't yap about my business. As my friends they know.
Seem you've answered point 1 and 2 without even realizing it.
Posted by Tanya JonesTanya...I'm not trying to insult you, but that Virgo "trying to find a problem to fix" is showing. Most Sags are secretive about their relationships regardless of what you see or hear...especially on social media and for the exact same reason you're asking...it really doesn't pertain to you because you're not in it. Most relationships fail because of an undercurrent of outside influences. For example, I won't date a woman who's opinions are swayed by others. What that means is, if she has a problem with me, I want her to address me with it based upon how she feels purely and not mixed with what her mother/bestie/similar situations on FB have to say before she even talks to me about it. Simply, I'm not going to fight her and her army...and I'm not going to put her through that. I'm not saying she can't have friends or a life...but "us" is "us" and nobody's else's business.
@ PhoenixRising.
1) Of course my scorpio friend told me that those 9-10 girls were her best friends. She considers me as one of her best friends. I am one of those 9-10 girls. Lol.
Do you know every scorpio girl?
2)People can pretend to be friends duh! Isn't it? Not everyone is pure. Maybe they just need lots of attention from others.
If i would have planned to interfere, i could have asked her directly or have asked her husband. But i am asking here. Is there any problem in being curious? She's my childhood friend afterall.
I should say easily swayed
@PhoenixRising.So if i ask a question here, instead of asking my friend it means i am not pure. Where is the logic? Lots of people ask questions here about their partners and about their friends. Does that mean they are impure? Lol.
My friend is not secretive. She shares everything with me. She talks about her husband and also talks about her having sex with him. She even told me many times to come and stay in her house where she and her husband stays. If she'd have been secretive or private, she would have never told me that.
You started showing your doubts about me from your first answer, asking why i am curious and do i want to interfere?
Why you need to know that even?
You should just answer my question instead of doubting on
me. Others answered my question without any issue.
My friend is not secretive. She shares everything with me. She talks about her husband and also talks about her having sex with him. She even told me many times to come and stay in her house where she and her husband stays. If she'd have been secretive or private, she would have never told me that.
You started showing your doubts about me from your first answer, asking why i am curious and do i want to interfere?
Why you need to know that even?
You should just answer my question instead of doubting on
me. Others answered my question without any issue.
Posted by beautifulsoul74Well i am not trying to find a problem to fix. I was just taking other's opinion. Are you sitting in my mind that you are telling me that?Posted by Tanya JonesTanya...I'm not trying to insult you, but that Virgo "trying to find a problem to fix" is showing. Most Sags are secretive about their relationships regardless of what you see or hear...especially on social media and for the exact same reason you're asking...it really doesn't pertain to you because you're not in it. Most relationships fail because of an undercurrent of outside influences. For example, I won't date a woman who's opinions are swayed by others. What that means is, if she has a problem with me, I want her to address me with it based upon how she feels purely and not mixed with what her mother/bestie/similar situations on FB have to say before she even talks to me about it. Simply, I'm not going to fight her and her army...and I'm not going to put her through that. I'm not saying she can't have friends or a life...but "us" is "us" and nobody's else's business.
@ PhoenixRising.
1) Of course my scorpio friend told me that those 9-10 girls were her best friends. She considers me as one of her best friends. I am one of those 9-10 girls. Lol.
Do you know every scorpio girl?
2)People can pretend to be friends duh! Isn't it? Not everyone is pure. Maybe they just need lots of attention from others.
If i would have planned to interfere, i could have asked her directly or have asked her husband. But i am asking here. Is there any problem in being curious? She's my childhood friend afterall.click to expand
I can also say that your messages on other threads shows many things about you.
You have already answered my question now you should not come again to give me advice and tell me about what i should do or not do.
I didn't ask your advice on that. You are not perfect yourself to give others advice about how others should be. My friend is not like other scorpios. She shares everything with others and she talks about her husband too. I am not able to ask directly to her because i think it might hurt her if there is really any problem. I was just concerned being a friend. You took it negatively and started giving me advice. Lol. I just don't like some o
Never said I was perfect love...but I definitely don't do what you're doing now and that includes playing victim. You created the thread in our forum asked our opinions but I also don't see any instructions by you that say "dont respond to comments and premises made by me that deviate from my original post."
But it's your thread 🙂
But it's your thread 🙂
I didn't create this topic so that some stupid people can pass their opinion on me. Some sags can be really negative.
Btw, the typical trying to flip it back on me that some Virgos do is a little stale.
beautifulsoul74, stop attacking me dear if you don't want me to be a victim. Well i definitely don't attack people, what you are doing.
You never said it but your attitude is like as if you are perfect. That'swhy giving advices on stuffs not being asked. You are so annoying.
I can post a question anywhere in dxp. If i start a topic here dosen't mean you can point out at me and talk negative about me.
When you dish it you should be able to take it from others.
You never said it but your attitude is like as if you are perfect. That'swhy giving advices on stuffs not being asked. You are so annoying.
I can post a question anywhere in dxp. If i start a topic here dosen't mean you can point out at me and talk negative about me.
When you dish it you should be able to take it from others.
Posted by Tanya Jones
I didn't create this topic so that some stupid people can pass their opinion on me. Some sags can be really negative.
A little thin skinned are we? My first introduction to you was a thread you created about a Sag guy you were seeing where you labeled a charge...what was it now..."Sag men are unintelligent blah blah" but then you create a thread asking OUR opinion??
...and that's not even what's fueling my comments as I'm used to hearing that. Through your own comments your true motives were revealed and now you sit here being pretentious. Nobody judged you as a person...what was said is your motives aren't pure. If you can't take the criticism you very readily deal to others then you're going to have a hard time.
@beautifulsoul74, since you have said i didn't give any instruction on something as if you would have followed that. Lol. So, now i am giving you instruction that don't ever reply my topics and reply on my posts. Let's see you follow it or not.
Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by Tanya JonesI will definitely ask for a sag's opinion but not your's from now on. As you are stupid and negative.
I didn't create this topic so that some stupid people can pass their opinion on me. Some sags can be really negative.
A little thin skinned are we? My first introduction to you was a thread you created about a Sag guy you were seeing where you labeled a charge...what was it now..."Sag men are unintelligent blah blah" but then you create a thread asking OUR opinion??
...and that's not even what's fueling my comments as I'm used to hearing that. Through your own comments your true motives were revealed and now you sit here being pretentious. Nobody judged you as a person...what was said is your motives aren't pure. If you can't take the criticism you very readily deal to others then you're going to have a hard time.click to expand
Haha..look who's talking, a person who can't take criticism himself and who love to fight with women.
beautifulsoul74, your id should be uglysoul74. Lol
You are the one who's pretentious. Not me. It shows in your comments. I won't reply you anymore. So you can bark like a dog if you want. I have blocked you. So won't see your disgusting messages.🙂
You are the one who's pretentious. Not me. It shows in your comments. I won't reply you anymore. So you can bark like a dog if you want. I have blocked you. So won't see your disgusting messages.🙂
Posted by FrostAndBiteThankyou dear for giving a positive opinion.
Maybe she is like other Scorpios though.
As a Scorpio, I learned a while ago that a little information goes a long way with most people. I've told people I close and a few even just good with about my sex life and relationships. Most of them still don't know or truly understand the depth of life though, good and bad. For reasons such as I know it's a fact people talk about others, I have accepted this fact, I give up enough information to form a bond but not enough to actually run risk the other person could hurt or betray me with such information down the line.
Many many people, if not almost everyone, would ever describe be as secretive. But that doesn't mean I don't have secrets.
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