Slept with a New Scorp...

FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp


The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢

Oh yea and a pisces moon

Did you think the sex would be good? that's the worse feeling when you think it will be good and it's not.........

That sucks. But I usually give it a second try unless it was just plain awful. I'm always so nervous the first time, it always less than thrills me.

Posted by Sagittarius89
FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp


The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢

i hate when the sex isnt good. its such a waste of a mile. more mileage down under and nothing to show for it

Posted by THEKingofLibra
I wonder if there are chicks who committed suicide after disappointing sex? Yes, I know I'm opening myself up for a joke, but unless you want me to rebut using your mom and a plunger, I won't go there 😄

its like buyers remorse....

Posted by Mebs
That sucks. But I usually give it a second try unless it was just plain awful. I'm always so nervous the first time, it always less than thrills me.

if she sleeps with him a second time, the scorp is going to think that she has feelings for him or something crazy..

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Posted by THEKingofLibra
I wonder if there are chicks who committed suicide after disappointing sex? Yes, I know I'm opening myself up for a joke, but unless you want me to rebut using your mom and a plunger, I won't go there 😄

its like buyers remorse....

Are we talking about.. no orgasm at all? What is your definition of 'bad sex'

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i cant speak for the rest of the ladies but...

i need a man who loves a womans body. grabs, pulls, smacks, tastes, etc. i need a man to fuck me like the world is about to end and this is the last piece of pussy he will ever get. i also need to orgasm repeatedly. i need to be objectified and treated like im his plaything. i am here for his enjoyment.

bad sex to me is just me sucking you off, you putting your dick in me and coming. that shit is for the birds. i need an active, inspired, and motivated lover.

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by THEKingofLibra

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Posted by THEKingofLibra
I wonder if there are chicks who committed suicide after disappointing sex? Yes, I know I'm opening myself up for a joke, but unless you want me to rebut using your mom and a plunger, I won't go there 😄

its like buyers remorse....

Are we talking about.. no orgasm at all? What is your definition of 'bad sex'

Pump, pump, blow?

Kind of like an attempt at CPR but you'd rather just die.

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you got it!

Posted by DazedScorp
Treat her body like a full course dinner. Save the pussy for dessert.

yes! a dude who takes his time working up to the prize. i do have other regions that can provide euphoria.

HAHAHAHA thanks for your replies everyone!


Yes, the reason why I think it was bad was cause I had too high of expectations. Mars in scorpio I tend to fanatize about amazing sex with someone I find " Sexy " and it usually is never what I built up in my head.

Once in a while I luck out! That was just not one of those times....


As just a person he's sexy as fuck. Like from a distance. You know? There is all this chemistry between us. But when it started happening it just wasn't clicking. Plus he was bigger and it hurt so bad!!! I almost started crying. Ugh.


I told him after that and he just started laughing at me. He was like don't feel bad, because I kept apologize because I was embarrassed I couldn't handle it or whatever.

He was like no one has ever said that to me ur funny. I was like great now he probably thinks I am weird. Whatever.


I've never had a good time 1st sex with anyone. Except when I lost my virginity. So I think it's something you have to build up to right? Or is the 1st time suppose to tell you everything you need to know?

i fucked a sag guy and the first time was like a dream come true.

Posted by DMV
i fucked a sag guy and the first time was like a dream come true.

Yea??

yea.

dec 2.

Posted by DMV
i fucked a sag guy and the first time was like a dream come true.

I couldn't agree more..........

Also my sagg has mars in Scorp and he is like the best just overall good at everything he does, and speaking of euphoria in other regions Mr.Sagg did something to my knees that I had never experience before and I was thinking my knees WTH....

Posted by THEKingofLibra
No such thing as too tight of a pussy.. Lack of lubrication is your problem. Which is really lack of foreplay.

speak on it

Posted by THEKingofLibra
No such thing as too tight of a pussy.. Lack of lubrication is your problem. Which is really lack of foreplay.

I think your right. But I don't like really big ones.

"But I don't like really big ones."

Sag89 on behalf of pencil dicks everywhere, I salute you. And wish there were more women like you.

Normally I would advise giving him a second go in the sack. But Im guessing he's around your age, plus a scorp, so run like hell. Unless you find an older scorp with a lot air or at least sag in the chart, only open your gates of eden once with those guys.

Im blessed in the sense that it takes more than hot sex for me to fall. Loathe the expression, but I need a mental connection with a girl for falling in love. I think that's due to my mom's venus in virgo. Even still, I go more for personality than intelligence perse.

Anyway Sag, just cut it off. Young dudes get extremely attached with what they think is good sex

The only time I recommend older dudes for 20ish gals is for FWB. Not always, but most of the time they can handle it better than young guys. But I think that's just due to being weary and jaded.

Posted by ZenArcade
"But I don't like really big ones."

Sag89 on behalf of pencil dicks everywhere, I salute you. And wish there were more women like you.

Normally I would advise giving him a second go in the sack. But Im guessing he's around your age, plus a scorp, so run like hell. Unless you find an older scorp with a lot air or at least sag in the chart, only open your gates of eden once with those guys.

Im blessed in the sense that it takes more than hot sex for me to fall. Loathe the expression, but I need a mental connection with a girl for falling in love. I think that's due to my mom's venus in virgo. Even still, I go more for personality than intelligence perse.

Anyway Sag, just cut it off. Young dudes get extremely attached with what they think is good sex

The only time I recommend older dudes for 20ish gals is for FWB. Not always, but most of the time they can handle it better than young guys. But I think that's just due to being weary and jaded.

HAHAHA! Why is that?


That is true what you saying about attaching over good sex. You know it's like most of the time it's way better for them than it is for me.

I often wonder what it would be like with an older man or a female. I'd like to see what works for me. I'm starting to find what I am " Attracted to " isn't always what I want in " Sex "
if you get what I mean....

Yes mentally connection is so important. So hard to find.

Posted by DazedScorp
So Sag, can you explain why it was bad? Besides being painful?

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I didn't like how much he was kissing me and stroking me for someone who I was sleeping with for the first time.

Like that sort of stuff it needs to build up. Otherwise it just feels so fake and it turns me totally off.

With the first time I feel like it should be really primal and extremely lustful. Like you both want to get off from eachother so bad because it's all you've been thinking about.


If that makes any sense at all.



Than if you continue to sleep with eachother over time get to know what the other one likes and doesn't. Intimacy builds up and it becomes great. That really comes with time though to me.

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Intimacy builds up TO sex, so cuddling and affection builds TO sex, you don't start WITH sex and build to intimacy.. ROFL am I the crazy one here?

It's always gone the other way around for me.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Depends really, different strokes for different folks.
At least if you get the sex out of the way first it's easier to bail on someone ?

Is it?

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Oddly enough, the Internet has Sag89's picture and knows she has a tight pussy. Its sort of like being a porn star without stripping 😛

Yes laugh it up...

Posted by THEKingofLibra
And Sag89, your previous post - I can't even believe you said that shit. Just plain weird. You are weird. There, I said it.

😢

I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

Posted by Sagittarius89


As just a person he's sexy as fuck. Like from a distance. You know? There is all this chemistry between us. But when it started happening it just wasn't clicking. Plus he was bigger and it hurt so bad!!! I almost started crying. Ugh.


I told him after that and he just started laughing at me. He was like don't feel bad, because I kept apologize because I was embarrassed I couldn't handle it or whatever.

He was like no one has ever said that to me ur funny. I was like great now he probably thinks I am weird. Whatever.


I've never had a good time 1st sex with anyone. Except when I lost my virginity. So I think it's something you have to build up to right? Or is the 1st time suppose to tell you everything you need to know?

Yeah I'm not into the big ones either. They hurt like a bitch. Guys like that they tear you up, but the jokes on them because I just won't have sex with you if you're too big 😛

My first times have actually all be good. The best was with a cancer, but that's kinda a given 😉

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Intimacy builds up TO sex, so cuddling and affection builds TO sex, you don't start WITH sex and build to intimacy.. ROFL am I the crazy one here?

actually thats how i operate....sex then intimacy

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sagittarius89


As just a person he's sexy as fuck. Like from a distance. You know? There is all this chemistry between us. But when it started happening it just wasn't clicking. Plus he was bigger and it hurt so bad!!! I almost started crying. Ugh.


I told him after that and he just started laughing at me. He was like don't feel bad, because I kept apologize because I was embarrassed I couldn't handle it or whatever.

He was like no one has ever said that to me ur funny. I was like great now he probably thinks I am weird. Whatever.


I've never had a good time 1st sex with anyone. Except when I lost my virginity. So I think it's something you have to build up to right? Or is the 1st time suppose to tell you everything you need to know?

Yeah I'm not into the big ones either. They hurt like a bitch. Guys like that they tear you up, but the jokes on them because I just won't have sex with you if you're too big 😛

My first times have actually all be good. The best was with a cancer, but that's kinda a given 😉

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im into big ones...i got alotta ass

Posted by happykitsune
I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

imo, mars does mean alot. its action, agression, sexual passion. where venus is love.

Posted by THEKingofLibra

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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Intimacy builds up TO sex, so cuddling and affection builds TO sex, you don't start WITH sex and build to intimacy.. ROFL am I the crazy one here?

actually thats how i operate....sex then intimacy

To each their own. Oh wait, what was your longest relationship again?

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3 years

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Posted by happykitsune
I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

imo, mars does mean alot. its action, agression, sexual passion. where venus is love.

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I've been with a mar in scorpio who was slow and softer with lusty things. He was also very controlled. I've also been with a mars in scorpio who was amazing with lusty things...or at least my version of amazing which is rough and fast. He was not controlled (in the ways of lust). Both were scorio suns and the rest of their charts are the same. Both had different moons so maybe that was what changed how they operated. The first has a cancer moon... the other a virgo moon. Idk you tell me why they are so different sexually cus I have no idea.

Posted by happykitsune

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Posted by happykitsune
I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

imo, mars does mean alot. its action, agression, sexual passion. where venus is love.

I've been with a mar in scorpio who was slow and softer with lusty things. He was also very controlled. I've also been with a mars in scorpio who was amazing with lusty things...or at least my version of amazing which is rough and fast. He was not controlled (in the ways of lust). Both were scorio suns and the rest of their charts are the same. Both had different moons so maybe that was what changed how they operated. The first has a cancer moon... the other a virgo moon. Idk you tell me why they are so different sexually cus I have no idea.

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i would look to see how their mars was aspected. also the synastry between the people having the sex.

Posted by Nights22
I say this a lot on dxp so excuse the broken record but...

Guys use love to get sex
Girls use sex to get love

End scene.

can you elaborate?

Posted by Nights22
I say this a lot on dxp so excuse the broken record but...

Guys use love to get sex
Girls use sex to get love

End scene.

I didn't sleep with him to get love. What a stupid thing to say. If I wanted to get love I wouldn't sleep with people so quickly. I'm trying to figure out what I like and don't like. I'm 21 years old for christ sakes.

Posted by happykitsune

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Posted by happykitsune
I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

imo, mars does mean alot. its action, agression, sexual passion. where venus is love.

I've been with a mar in scorpio who was slow and softer with lusty things. He was also very controlled. I've also been with a mars in scorpio who was amazing with lusty things...or at least my version of amazing which is rough and fast. He was not controlled (in the ways of lust). Both were scorio suns and the rest of their charts are the same. Both had different moons so maybe that was what changed how they operated. The first has a cancer moon... the other a virgo moon. Idk you tell me why they are so different sexually cus I have no idea.

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Hmm I think your right. His moon is in pisces.

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by Nights22
I say this a lot on dxp so excuse the broken record but...

Guys use love to get sex
Girls use sex to get love

End scene.

I didn't sleep with him to get love. What a stupid thing to say. If I wanted to get love I wouldn't sleep with people so quickly. I'm trying to figure out what I like and don't like. I'm 21 years old for christ sakes.

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Agreed. I'm the same way. Having sex with a man to be loved is just stupid... you're giving away the prize for goodness sake. If I have sex with a man without a relationship it's because I'm horny and I want some. If I wait to have sex with you then you're a keeper. Nuff said.

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by happykitsune

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Posted by happykitsune
I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

imo, mars does mean alot. its action, agression, sexual passion. where venus is love.

I've been with a mar in scorpio who was slow and softer with lusty things. He was also very controlled. I've also been with a mars in scorpio who was amazing with lusty things...or at least my version of amazing which is rough and fast. He was not controlled (in the ways of lust). Both were scorio suns and the rest of their charts are the same. Both had different moons so maybe that was what changed how they operated. The first has a cancer moon... the other a virgo moon. Idk you tell me why they are so different sexually cus I have no idea.

Hmm I think your right. His moon is in pisces.

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Oh no!...actually I've never been with a pisces moon before....

That sucks. But I usually give it a second try unless it was just plain awful. I'm always so nervous the first time, it always less than thrills me.

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by Nights22
I say this a lot on dxp so excuse the broken record but...

Guys use love to get sex
Girls use sex to get love

End scene.

I didn't sleep with him to get love. What a stupid thing to say. If I wanted to get love I wouldn't sleep with people so quickly. I'm trying to figure out what I like and don't like. I'm 21 years old for christ sakes.

Agreed. I'm the same way. Having sex with a man to be loved is just stupid... you're giving away the prize for goodness sake. If I have sex with a man without a relationship it's because I'm horny and I want some. If I wait to have sex with you then you're a keeper. Nuff said.

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Exactly!

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by happykitsune

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Posted by happykitsune
I've found that mars in scorpio doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sorry if I missed this, but what is his lillith and pluto?

imo, mars does mean alot. its action, agression, sexual passion. where venus is love.

I've been with a mar in scorpio who was slow and softer with lusty things. He was also very controlled. I've also been with a mars in scorpio who was amazing with lusty things...or at least my version of amazing which is rough and fast. He was not controlled (in the ways of lust). Both were scorio suns and the rest of their charts are the same. Both had different moons so maybe that was what changed how they operated. The first has a cancer moon... the other a virgo moon. Idk you tell me why they are so different sexually cus I have no idea.

Hmm I think your right. His moon is in pisces.

Oh no!...actually I've never been with a pisces moon before....

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It was different

Posted by Mebs
That sucks. But I usually give it a second try unless it was just plain awful. I'm always so nervous the first time, it always less than thrills me.

Right! I'm sort of afraid to try again. It really hurt. But he is really sexy from a distance...

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by THEKingofLibra
And Sag89, your previous post - I can't even believe you said that shit. Just plain weird. You are weird. There, I said it.

😢

Aqua Venus for you 😛

Just had to do it backwards, didn't ya haha

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HAHAHA yes KOL

What do you mean by different?

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by Sagittarius89

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Depends really, different strokes for different folks.
At least if you get the sex out of the way first it's easier to bail on someone ?

Is it?

Well yeah, just another take on fwb with a lil splash of hope. That's my take on it anyways. Although it's kinda like making randiness too elaborate too, if you know what I mean ?

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I don't know if it will happen again though

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Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sagittarius89


As just a person he's sexy as fuck. Like from a distance. You know? There is all this chemistry between us. But when it started happening it just wasn't clicking. Plus he was bigger and it hurt so bad!!! I almost started crying. Ugh.


I told him after that and he just started laughing at me. He was like don't feel bad, because I kept apologize because I was embarrassed I couldn't handle it or whatever.

He was like no one has ever said that to me ur funny. I was like great now he probably thinks I am weird. Whatever.


I've never had a good time 1st sex with anyone. Except when I lost my virginity. So I think it's something you have to build up to right? Or is the 1st time suppose to tell you everything you need to know?

Yeah I'm not into the big ones either. They hurt like a bitch. Guys like that they tear you up, but the jokes on them because I just won't have sex with you if you're too big 😛

My first times have actually all be good. The best was with a cancer, but that's kinda a given 😉

im into big ones...i got alotta ass

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HAHA! You go. I wish I could handle bigger.

This is just my opinion men need 2 have RAPPORT with women if he doesn't
have that you can forget about it RAPPORT is very important!

Sag89,

Do what works for you. Contrary to what some people state on here, there's nothing wrong with being single and having casual sex. As long as you're being careful, who's to judge?

I'd rather be with a girl who stayed single, experimented and sowed her oats over a girl that hasnt. Girls that stay "pure" only for relationships end up being the bigger heartbreakers.

Cause at some point when they get older the urge to scratch a different sexual itch happens. After that, either the gal dumps dude or cheats on him.

I think once you get out of a relationship during the twenties, stay single. Cause you're going to change so much as a person. Your wants and needs will evolve constantly. Relationships are doomed because of that.

I've yet to see people who settled down in their twenties last with the same person into their late 30's or 40's. If they did, its not out of love. Usually they're staying together for the sake of kids or because it would be a major inconvience financially to get divorced.

When you get into thirties and forties, there's more of a groundedness so to speak. You're more clear and definate about what you want out of life and love.

So stay single Sag89 and dont get into any relationships during the 20's. You'll be better off in the long run relationship wise hitting 30. Because you were able to sow oats, travel, experience and learn new things. Ive seen people that were single during 20's who pursued dreams, learn new things, and sow oats have much better long term relationships in the long run.

BTW I lucked out that the women Ive slept with had small vaginas. So they werent size queens. Smaller vag is better for the guys with small packages.

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Posted by Sagittarius89


As just a person he's sexy as fuck. Like from a distance. You know? There is all this chemistry between us. But when it started happening it just wasn't clicking. Plus he was bigger and it hurt so bad!!! I almost started crying. Ugh.


I told him after that and he just started laughing at me. He was like don't feel bad, because I kept apologize because I was embarrassed I couldn't handle it or whatever.

He was like no one has ever said that to me ur funny. I was like great now he probably thinks I am weird. Whatever.


I've never had a good time 1st sex with anyone. Except when I lost my virginity. So I think it's something you have to build up to right? Or is the 1st time suppose to tell you everything you need to know?

Yeah I'm not into the big ones either. They hurt like a bitch. Guys like that they tear you up, but the jokes on them because I just won't have sex with you if you're too big 😛

My first times have actually all be good. The best was with a cancer, but that's kinda a given 😉

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SAME! Ugh. I would really have to pump myself up if I do it again. I don't know if it'll happen again though. It felt like something was ripping my insides apart. Than I couldn't sit down for an hour.

He's sexy though. I don't know...maybe just not sexually though.

if i think a guy is a keeper, i dont wait, i still sleep with him.

sex is just sex to me. love is something totally different.