
Sagittarius89
@Sagittarius89
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Posted by ZenArcade
Sag89,
Do what works for you. Contrary to what some people state on here, there's nothing wrong with being single and having casual sex. As long as you're being careful, who's to judge?
I'd rather be with a girl who stayed single, experimented and sowed her oats over a girl that hasnt. Girls that stay "pure" only for relationships end up being the bigger heartbreakers.
Cause at some point when they get older the urge to scratch a different sexual itch happens. After that, either the gal dumps dude or cheats on him.
I think once you get out of a relationship during the twenties, stay single. Cause you're going to change so much as a person. Your wants and needs will evolve constantly. Relationships are doomed because of that.
I've yet to see people who settled down in their twenties last with the same person into their late 30's or 40's. If they did, its not out of love. Usually they're staying together for the sake of kids or because it would be a major inconvience financially to get divorced.
When you get into thirties and forties, there's more of a groundedness so to speak. You're more clear and definate about what you want out of life and love.
So stay single Sag89 and dont get into any relationships during the 20's. You'll be better off in the long run relationship wise hitting 30. Because you were able to sow oats, travel, experience and learn new things. Ive seen people that were single during 20's who pursued dreams, learn new things, and sow oats have much better long term relationships in the long run.
BTW I lucked out that the women Ive slept with had small vaginas. So they werent size queens. Smaller vag is better for the guys with small packages.

Posted by Gemini78
This is just my opinion men need 2 have RAPPORT with women if he doesn't
have that you can forget about it RAPPORT is very important!


Posted by AybLynk
i wish monogamy was cool again. Females have no morals anymore. Smh


Posted by DazedScorpPosted by AybLynk
i wish monogamy was cool again. Females have no morals anymore. Smh
Scorp still got you steaming huh?click to expand

Posted by AybLynk
i think all females shud be looked at as porno stars, not grown women.

Posted by DMVPosted by AybLynk
i wish monogamy was cool again. Females have no morals anymore. Smh
monogamy still is cool. females do have morals.
just because someone has casual sex doesnt mean that they dont believe in monogamy. i sleep with only one person when im in a committed relationship.
do you feel like women shouldnt be having casual sex?
arent you an aqua?click to expand


Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by Gemini78
This is just my opinion men need 2 have RAPPORT with women if he doesn't
have that you can forget about it RAPPORT is very important!
Whats that?click to expand

Posted by AybLynkPosted by DMVPosted by AybLynk
i wish monogamy was cool again. Females have no morals anymore. Smh
monogamy still is cool. females do have morals.
just because someone has casual sex doesnt mean that they dont believe in monogamy. i sleep with only one person when im in a committed relationship.
do you feel like women shouldnt be having casual sex?
arent you an aqua?
i do feel that women shouldn't have casual sex, just off diseases and from a moral standpoint.
I guarantee that more than half of you females on dxp dont use condoms.
And every girl i've been with didnt seem to mind when i asked them to throw the condom away smh.
And yes im an aqua. But i will never be monagomous. Im just saying how things should be.click to expand

Posted by Gemini78Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by Gemini78
This is just my opinion men need 2 have RAPPORT with women if he doesn't
have that you can forget about it RAPPORT is very important!
Whats that?
Sagittarius89: Rapport means
A close and harmonious relationship in which the people or groups concerned understand each other's feelings or ideas and communicate wellclick to expand

Posted by AybLynkPosted by DMVPosted by AybLynk
i wish monogamy was cool again. Females have no morals anymore. Smh
monogamy still is cool. females do have morals.
just because someone has casual sex doesnt mean that they dont believe in monogamy. i sleep with only one person when im in a committed relationship.
do you feel like women shouldnt be having casual sex?
arent you an aqua?
i do feel that women shouldn't have casual sex, just off diseases and from a moral standpoint.
I guarantee that more than half of you females on dxp dont use condoms.
And every girl i've been with didnt seem to mind when i asked them to throw the condom away smh.
And yes im an aqua. But i will never be monagomous. Im just saying how things should be.click to expand

Posted by ZenArcade
Ayb,
What's wrong with a girl in her twenties staying single and just having safe no strings sex? I've said this before, but I'd rather be with a girl who stayed single for a long time and already had different sexual experiences.
Over some girl who did not that ended up dumping or cheating on me years down the pike because of wanting to sample different flavors out there.
Responsible gals who stay single to be promiscious like we guys do are a lot more stable for a relationship down the road than ones who didnt. I consider those young Samanthas to have morals.

Posted by AybLynkPosted by ZenArcade
Ayb,
What's wrong with a girl in her twenties staying single and just having safe no strings sex? I've said this before, but I'd rather be with a girl who stayed single for a long time and already had different sexual experiences.
Over some girl who did not that ended up dumping or cheating on me years down the pike because of wanting to sample different flavors out there.
Responsible gals who stay single to be promiscious like we guys do are a lot more stable for a relationship down the road than ones who didnt. I consider those young Samanthas to have morals.
I just cant wrap my mind around the thought of dating a girl who's f#ckin other men. Sorry, cant do it.
And i rather have a "pure" bitxh. Im tired of "experienced" girls. I think i need a virgin just because..
Imma control that bitxh after i marry her and thats it. And if she cheats, she cheats.click to expand


Posted by DMVPosted by Gemini78Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by Gemini78
This is just my opinion men need 2 have RAPPORT with women if he doesn't
have that you can forget about it RAPPORT is very important!
Whats that?
Sagittarius89: Rapport means
A close and harmonious relationship in which the people or groups concerned understand each other's feelings or ideas and communicate well
lol, i think she knows what the definition is....she maybe looking for elaboration...click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by AybLynkPosted by DMVPosted by AybLynk
i wish monogamy was cool again. Females have no morals anymore. Smh
monogamy still is cool. females do have morals.
just because someone has casual sex doesnt mean that they dont believe in monogamy. i sleep with only one person when im in a committed relationship.
do you feel like women shouldnt be having casual sex?
arent you an aqua?
i do feel that women shouldn't have casual sex, just off diseases and from a moral standpoint.
I guarantee that more than half of you females on dxp dont use condoms.
And every girl i've been with didnt seem to mind when i asked them to throw the condom away smh.
And yes im an aqua. But i will never be monagomous. Im just saying how things should be.
thats very close minded in the box thinking for an aqua. im surprised. whats the rest of your chart look like?
maybe your just attracted to loose women with bad morals.click to expand

Posted by AybLynk
and my ego has gotten bruised before. But thats when i was 14. And thats a whole nother story.
Im doin my thing tho...Im just saying things from my perspective.
And even if i know puts in work in the bed and i kno i got it on lock, i still wouldn't want to "share" (which is what you guys are really doing)
Sharings caring and all but im greedy and selfish. I dont share.







Posted by DazedScorp
Men who want virgins are the ones who don't know what they're doing and don't want to be embarrased because of it.


Posted by ZenArcade
DMV,
That's cause a person's up bringing and background help define a person. I think Astrological charts can only define someone in the most basic sense. It's a person's level of maturity and up bringing that ultimately shapes one's self.
My parents were very liberal thinking and their attitudes helped define how I view dating and relationships. I wish more people mainly guys had parents like mine.

Posted by DazedScorp
Men who want virgins are the ones who don't know what they're doing and don't want to be embarrased because of it.

Posted by WynterBournePosted by Sagittarius89
FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp
The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢
Ugh, a one night Scorp. Yeah, it starts off so sexy and ends so.....bleh. Afterward I didn't even want to look at him, it was so disappointing.click to expand

Posted by WynterBournePosted by Sagittarius89
FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp
The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢
Ugh, a one night Scorp. Yeah, it starts off so sexy and ends so.....bleh. Afterward I didn't even want to look at him, it was so disappointing.click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by WynterBournePosted by Sagittarius89
FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp
The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢
Ugh, a one night Scorp. Yeah, it starts off so sexy and ends so.....bleh. Afterward I didn't even want to look at him, it was so disappointing.
He has been texting me all day. I don't know what to say, really. He's cool though. But I am afraid of his parts....click to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by WynterBournePosted by Sagittarius89
FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp
The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢
Ugh, a one night Scorp. Yeah, it starts off so sexy and ends so.....bleh. Afterward I didn't even want to look at him, it was so disappointing.
He has been texting me all day. I don't know what to say, really. He's cool though. But I am afraid of his parts....
for him, it was good. you may have a problem...just get really clingy if u want him to leave you alone.
Or tell him you want him to have a threesome with you and a male Libraclick to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by WynterBournePosted by Sagittarius89
FUCK! He has a scorp sun scorp rising mars in scorp
The sex wasn't all that either. I hate myself right about now. 😢
Ugh, a one night Scorp. Yeah, it starts off so sexy and ends so.....bleh. Afterward I didn't even want to look at him, it was so disappointing.
He has been texting me all day. I don't know what to say, really. He's cool though. But I am afraid of his parts....
for him, it was good. you may have a problem...just get really clingy if u want him to leave you alone.click to expand

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89
What?
What do you mean what? Don't you think that'd have him running for the hills? I mean, unless he has an Aqua mars...click to expand

Posted by DazedScorp
The strip club is great foreplay. Take the Scorp. That's almost a sure fire way to get your sausage holder warmed up.

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89
What?
What do you mean what? Don't you think that'd have him running for the hills? I mean, unless he has an Aqua mars...
Oh I see. You think I should scare him off? Do you think he is being clingy? His mars is in scorp like mine
Actually, I think you should give it another go. Just tell him how you want it. Make sure your bodys warmed up. The vag can be very forgiving when it comes to big slingers.click to expand

Posted by Sagittarius89
Typical venus in pisces.
I am so sensitive. I'm such a good guy. Woman are always screwing me over. If she was with me she would be treated right.......
" HEY BITCH GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN!!! "

Posted by DMVPosted by AybLynk
and my ego has gotten bruised before. But thats when i was 14. And thats a whole nother story.
Im doin my thing tho...Im just saying things from my perspective.
And even if i know puts in work in the bed and i kno i got it on lock, i still wouldn't want to "share" (which is what you guys are really doing)
Sharings caring and all but im greedy and selfish. I dont share.
but you do share....you share yourself with other women if you have no plans on being monogamous...click to expand

Posted by happykitsune
How is a virgin not realistic? I know a lot of them

Posted by DMV
@AYB,
i see your chart and i dont get it 🙂
we both have a cancer rising and the rest of the house placements. but i dont feel the way you do in regards to ownership.
all that aqua ll and a venus in pisces to boot. no can really pin YOU down.
by the way, venus in pisces is known to produce a very attractive person 🙂

Posted by DazedScorp
Men who want virgins are the ones who don't know what they're doing and don't want to be embarrased because of it.

Posted by DMVPosted by DazedScorp
Men who want virgins are the ones who don't know what they're doing and don't want to be embarrased because of it.
or they have serious control issues.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by AybLynkPosted by ZenArcade
Ayb,
What's wrong with a girl in her twenties staying single and just having safe no strings sex? I've said this before, but I'd rather be with a girl who stayed single for a long time and already had different sexual experiences.
Over some girl who did not that ended up dumping or cheating on me years down the pike because of wanting to sample different flavors out there.
Responsible gals who stay single to be promiscious like we guys do are a lot more stable for a relationship down the road than ones who didnt. I consider those young Samanthas to have morals.
I just cant wrap my mind around the thought of dating a girl who's f#ckin other men. Sorry, cant do it.
And i rather have a "pure" bitxh. Im tired of "experienced" girls. I think i need a virgin just because..
Imma control that bitxh after i marry her and thats it. And if she cheats, she cheats.
Well you don't date them, you fuck them like all the other guys do .click to expand

Posted by ZenArcade
Ayb,
Then you have no business being in a relationship period. Control? Sorry that word screams to me, Chris Brown. Yikes, if anything every woman needs to stay away from you if they want to live.
BTW Im a guy in case you think these types of responses come from a woman. Real men respect sexually confident women period.

Posted by exoskeleton
ayb - instead of fucking around don't you try actually being in a committed (and sexually exclusive) relationship? it's easier to express to your partner what you like, what you don't like, your fantasies, what you want to try. you'd be much more satisfied.
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THANK YOU!
I do really agree with what you are saying!
Of course I understand being pure and innocent. What a beautiful thing. So are relationships.
Yet when reality sets in it doesn't quiet work. Though of course there are the exceptions.
But yes "Girls that stay "pure" only for relationships end up being the bigger heartbreakers." I couldn't agree with that more. I've seen it happen a million times too.
Your 20's are hard. There is that pressure you feel to grow up and get serious or to just party all your angust out! I guess you need a balance.