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well...i had just ended it with a cancer boy. since i've started my job (just last month), there has been an aries boy lurking around my desk. i hate it because i'm strangely attracted to him even though he seems a little full of himself. he acts like the girls just love him (an aries? nnooo..haha) but he's also very sensitive. he's already gotten mad at me for being too short through a text message. we've only hung out a couple times.

anywhooo...i want to hear some experiences with the whole sag-aries relationship because i hear plenty of good things about it. so spill it!

"I will not advise long run here.... we are basically meant to be friends only"

True. I really dont know if Sag females fit into the Aries idea of "sex". Till this date I havent completely understood how one can be "playful" in sexual matters. To me it has to be a hot, hot battle !..Itz supposed to be serious, intense and creative...but not funny at any cost.


As companions and friends, yes itz an amazing combination with each having the capacity to elevate and uplift the other. Both dont hold grudges for long and have the ability to forgive and move on without any trace of permanent damage. A Sag would have that practical wisdom which an Aries will definitely benefit from. Sags are definitely more world-wise and hands-on kind of people. They have a quick grasp over things which they see and can help Aries get rid of confusion. Perhaps Archer can shed light on what Sags stand to gain from Aries.

Problems - Sags are habitually insensitive/forgetful/ungrateful....and they cant help it. Plus at times they are dismissive as well.

Going by what Uve described about him in the past - Dont think he can be trusted again. My gut-feel is that hez lost out on some relationship and is badly in need of a shoulder to rest upon. Aries frequently fall flat on their faces and then they are beset with all the weaknesses U might have heard of. Ask him what was he doing during all those months ?

BTW about that "standing up for him" act - I ,personally have a deep dislike for such reactions. Take a stand on what is right and whatz wrong and never on individuals. If U are trying to eulogize those stances, then to me it would seem that U were actually in love with Urself and Ur choice. In the end when the dust settles, its Ur stand on what was principally true, will see U through.

I know U must be feeling perturbed at the moment and hence wont aggravate it further.But I will assume that even in the time of stress U wud be objective in what U listen and how U interpret it.

i'm kind of confused about the aries right now. i don't want to do anything with him because i tend to love really hard once i give in (i guess it's the scorpio in me) but i feel attracted to him. i'm trying to enjoy it, though, but just thought that it wasn't gonna last long as you guys have said. gotta take steps to get over the cancer guy, though, who had hurt me very badly.

thanks for sharing your story archer! hope the new guy is treating you well! 🙂

and thanks kunoichi and guarav for your input!

haha archer...they don't? haha jk.

no i really thought to give him a chance. so far it has been pretty fun and hes been surprising me with every time we talk. i guess i just wanted a reason not to think too seriously about it and just enjoy him.

well that's another one that got marked off the list...

he got mad at me for not going home with him after a night at the bars and for not calling him back when he asked me to a casual dinner. he already treats me like his property and that's a big NO-NO. blah..

ha...so aries boy used me, sort of, after realizing i wasn't gonna give him the attention his ex-girlfriend gave him. he told her that i was trying to get with him to make her jealous. and when i saw him at the bars, he definately didn't say hi or anything to me.

i'm getting a little fed up with boys lately...