WHAT IS GOING ON HERE SAG?

Ok I am writing this while I'm angry. I'm a Taurus girl and a few months ago I met a sag guy. We became friends and we both don't want a relationship currently cuz he just came out of a 6 year relationship and claims he wants a break. Which is fair enough. Currently I'm focusing on my last year of architecture studies so I'm also taking a break this year. First of all he used to talk to me everyday and I can totally tell her likes me. He even said I'm too pretty! Anyways not like I took that seriously but the serious part is that he asked me to join his family on a boat cruise and I met his mom and cousins. But I went with my sister to make it less awkward.

Everything was so cool and we continued to be friends. Seeing each other occasionally with my sis or other people. No dating.
Now he talks lessa which I don't mind that much. But what's really bothering me is that he followed a friend of mine on Instagram and when he found out she's my friend, a girl that I had a little problem with in the past he told me listen if it's bothering u I can remove her immediately. At first I said no fine keep her. Then I had a thought about it and I really don't like her so I told him listen remove her now and if things get better between me and her then u can re add her. He got so angry about me changing my mind and we had an argument but eventually I said ok fine whatever keep her! DONE! Argument was over and we were back to normal.

However now I feel he changed towards me he doesn't talk to me at all. He only replies if I talk to him. He doesn't like my pics at all instead he's liking that other girls pic all the time. Like what the hell she doesn't even know him. WHY IS HE LIKING ALL HER PICS AND NOT MINE?
Like at least like both of our pics. I just don't get the sudden change. He even stopped using my nick name and calls me with my normal formal name. This change is bothering me so bad!

I dunno what to do—? I just feel like I should disappear from his life and stop speaking to him. God knows if he will ever attempt to speak to me again. It's not like I've done a crime. I even apologised. Seriously I dunno if I should even gave him and ask him why suddenly he changed. But I'm afraid things will get worse. I really don't Wana lose him as a friend. And btw he changed a little even before that argument took place. So I'm not sure what's going on.

I've stood by his side a lot and listened to all his issues and gave him advise and I'm still standing by his side and I want to. But he changed! And he used to tell me I'm his closest friends and that I mean a lot to him. And after he changed I asked him if he wants me to back off and not speak to him and he said r u crazy if I don't Wana know u I would directly tell u and I wouldn't be speaking to u in first place. So again we r back to the same point Why the sudden change? Why does he seem to care less and why he's not liking my pics anymore

it's sad. If I were you, I would feel sad. And I would try to distract myself. And do good things.

nobody knows what the future brings.

I know I cannot force feelings. If somebody likes me, I have to check the situation. If somebody does not like me, I'm out.
Still for the sake of knowledge I might ask him a few questions. just in case I got it wrong.

Don't forget you are a friend so you should have no reason to be...... jealous that he is giving his likes to someone else..

Understandable you have some feelings there.. but aslong as your just a friend..

And its not that he has changed he is jus fixated on another girl... for now

If that is too much for you..

I guess the easiest thing is to let go..

stating how you feel could get far complicated...

Ok, I know what it feels like to have a good time with someone and all of a sudden they start acting real different; especially on Facebook.

So that means YOU start acting real different.

Un follow him and go live your life.

Way too little information to know exactly what happened.

Thank you all for the replies. But no I'm not jealouse of this girl and I have no problem With him liking other girls pics. His Instagram friends list is like 90% girls. So I don't mind that.
What bothers me is why he's not acting himself like before and why suddenly from liking most of my pics he stops? He's liking every girls pic but y not mine—
It's not about that girls specifically. And when I ask him if he has a problem with me he says no if I did I would tell u or I would stop knowing u.
I'm confused.

I care about him and I want things to go smooth like before and to be good friends and not rush things. I am patient with him and im ready to support him.
I just wish I could know why he changed towards me.
Right now I took the decision to not contact him. Not to like his pics. To just let go for now. And see what he's Gona do next.

I'm just wondering if that's a normal thing for Sagittarius people to do? Btw he's birth date is 30 Nov 1989

Posted by Nouran20
Thank you all for the replies. But no I'm not jealouse of this girl and I have no problem With him liking other girls pics. His Instagram friends list is like 90% girls. So I don't mind that.
What bothers me is why he's not acting himself like before and why suddenly from liking most of my pics he stops? He's liking every girls pic but y not mine—
It's not about that girls specifically. And when I ask him if he has a problem with me he says no if I did I would tell u or I would stop knowing u.
I'm confused.

Alot of, guys do that. Either hes not interested and moved on OR he doesnt want to appear too thirsty liking your pics.


So strange how the liking of pics has become thr new guage of attraction.

Its normal for a sag to be oblivious to others feelings at times...
Although in this world of facebook its alot worse.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Nouran20
Thank you all for the replies. But no I'm not jealouse of this girl and I have no problem With him liking other girls pics. His Instagram friends list is like 90% girls. So I don't mind that.
What bothers me is why he's not acting himself like before and why suddenly from liking most of my pics he stops? He's liking every girls pic but y not mine—
It's not about that girls specifically. And when I ask him if he has a problem with me he says no if I did I would tell u or I would stop knowing u.
I'm confused.

Alot of, guys do that. Either hes not interested and moved on OR he doesnt want to appear too thirsty liking your pics.


So strange how the liking of pics has become thr new guage of attraction.

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No basically when someone keeps liking your pics for a year and u have a stable sort of connection with a person for a while and then something breaks off and changes it becomes so obvious. Hence, the not liking the pics and so on. So u start to wonder what on earth is going on.
Ummm why would he not be interested anymore. If he's not why still know me.

I do have another question for Sagittarians. Why is it when they are mad at something they take aaaaaages to get over it and they sort of isolate themselves for like ages could take months. Why can't they just get over problems and perhaps speak to a close person and resolve everything sooner. Why live in misery for too long.
I don't Wana sound judgmental I'm pretty sure not all Sagittarius people r like that. But I'm just saying this guy is a bit like this. And I've read a few sagittarians r like that.i don't mind if u take some time off on your own I personally do that. But u can't be upset from a friend of a family member forever

That's too much.

Hes got quite a bit of capricorn in his chart. I also know as a venus in Capricorn, I dont like to play the fool. So I wont like any pics if I feel as tho I could be on the losing end of something. Also if the other person is starting to be inconsistent, im not liking any pics.

Also, I could be just extremely shy and cautious. I can be cold at times and pay my love interest no mind. I pay everyone else attention but none to them. In hopes, they charge in and sweep me off my feet.

Posted by Nevermore
But I do hope you'll cool it off before you'll write it again with the rage going on. Because while in angry you cannot think at all and will be pretty much stubborn that we won't help you for that.

Also, fixed signs + rage = unable to listen.

This

Im so very sorry for you

http://seventhlifepath.com/numerology/life-path-number-5/

Posted by DMV
Hes got quite a bit of capricorn in his chart. I also know as a venus in Capricorn, I dont like to play the fool. So I wont like any pics if I feel as tho I could be on the losing end of something. Also if the other person is starting to be inconsistent, im not liking any pics.

Also, I could be just extremely shy and cautious. I can be cold at times and pay my love interest no mind. I pay everyone else attention but none to them. In hopes, they charge in and sweep me off my feet.

Ok first of all I am listening. I'm not angry now I'm disappointed. I'm a Taurus and my moon is in sag. So I can understand some things. I'm born on 18/May/1992
Anyways I dunno what u mean by on the losing end of something.
He was never shy with me. He used to talk to me a lot. We had a great time. He still replies to me but like you said in a cold-ish way. No more jokes no more fun. I'm afraid he's bored of me or he doesn't like me anymore. We had literally like 2 arguments since we knew each other but it's no big deal. And that doesn't seem like lots of arguments to me.

I feel helpless. I guess there is nothing I can do. I wish there could be a way to improve things. Cuz I don't have the courage to go and ask him hey u seem like u changed and y r u being cold and y r u not liking my pics anymore while u liking everybody else pics. It sounds soooo stupid.

Posted by Weeds
Im so very sorry for you

http://seventhlifepath.com/numerology/life-path-number-5/

What a life path and what's mine please?
And is a number 5 really that bad?

Posted by Nouran20

Posted by Weeds
Im so very sorry for you

http://seventhlifepath.com/numerology/life-path-number-5/

What a life path and what's mine please?
And is a number 5 really that bad?

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In numerology it is essentialy the qualities one plays in their life
Yours is
http://seventhlifepath.com/numerology/life-path-number-8/

Too some yes.. its like befriending indiana jones.. which SOUNDS like fun.. but its just too much for some.

Posted by Nouran20
I do have another question for Sagittarians. Why is it when they are mad at something they take aaaaaages to get over it and they sort of isolate themselves for like ages could take months. Why can't they just get over problems and perhaps speak to a close person and resolve everything sooner. Why live in misery for too long.
I don't Wana sound judgmental I'm pretty sure not all Sagittarius people r like that. But I'm just saying this guy is a bit like this. And I've read a few sagittarians r like that.i don't mind if u take some time off on your own I personally do that. But u can't be upset from a friend of a family member forever

That's too much.

Fixed signs giving advice on how to move on. Classic

Posted by Nouran20

Posted by DMV
Hes got quite a bit of capricorn in his chart. I also know as a venus in Capricorn, I dont like to play the fool. So I wont like any pics if I feel as tho I could be on the losing end of something. Also if the other person is starting to be inconsistent, im not liking any pics.

Also, I could be just extremely shy and cautious. I can be cold at times and pay my love interest no mind. I pay everyone else attention but none to them. In hopes, they charge in and sweep me off my feet.

Ok first of all I am listening. I'm not angry now I'm disappointed. I'm a Taurus and my moon is in sag. So I can understand some things. I'm born on 18/May/1992
Anyways I dunno what u mean by on the losing end of something.
He was never shy with me. He used to talk to me a lot. We had a great time. He still replies to me but like you said in a cold-ish way. No more jokes no more fun. I'm afraid he's bored of me or he doesn't like me anymore. We had literally like 2 arguments since we knew each other but it's no big deal. And that doesn't seem like lots of arguments to me.

I feel helpless. I guess there is nothing I can do. I wish there could be a way to improve things. Cuz I don't have the courage to go and ask him hey u seem like u changed and y r u being cold and y r u not liking my pics anymore while u liking everybody else pics. It sounds soooo stupid.

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But you dont even like him like that

I certainly don't know how I like him
All I know is that at this stage we are only friends getting to know each other more and more. I like him but not strong enough to commit to him. Plus I can't commit to a guy that says he's not ready to start a new relationship. In addition he sent me mixed signs by making me meet his mother and asking me to hang out over and over again during the summer.

I also don't Wana lose him. So I'm the back of my head I don't mind committing to him one day, ONLY if he matches what I want. At this stage I can't tell yet I'm just giving us a chance to be friends and exploring each other's personalities without attachments. Perhaps we will remain friends perhaps more than friends. God knows.

Guess we r both confused.

I WANT TO KNOW how many encourage me to speak up to him and ask y he's changed and how many don't advise me to do that—??

Thank u.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Nouran20
I do have another question for Sagittarians. Why is it when they are mad at something they take aaaaaages to get over it and they sort of isolate themselves for like ages could take months. Why can't they just get over problems and perhaps speak to a close person and resolve everything sooner. Why live in misery for too long.
I don't Wana sound judgmental I'm pretty sure not all Sagittarius people r like that. But I'm just saying this guy is a bit like this. And I've read a few sagittarians r like that.i don't mind if u take some time off on your own I personally do that. But u can't be upset from a friend of a family member forever

That's too much.

Fixed signs giving advice on how to move on. Classic

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Hahaha ok I know I know I'm a person who really can't handle breakups. I would only invest in real commitments I wouldn't do casual short term relationships. So I know but when it comes to being mad or upset about something it usually takes me an hour and I'm all bubbly and happy again and I forgive people in like seconds. I can't stand not being ok with people I love.i would never stop talking to my mom for example for months just cuz I'm angry at her. I would rather speak to her and resolve the robl
In like 10 mins.
Get over this or you'll end up with diabetes.

I suggest you give him back what he gave you. I was involved with a sag guy once. It was long distance, we never got to meet physically. We had a few arguments. The first time I was the one that initiated contact after the argument. But the last one that broke the Camel's back, He goes "you know what, talk to you next week. I'm out." Insinuating that he wasn't going to talk to me for whole week when I believe he was wrong. So I told him I never wanted to speak to him again. Peace! And I totally iced him out.
He returned after a few months, pleading and wanting to start all over again. But I had moved on already.
Moral of the story, you gotta be strong honey. You guys are just friends. If he wanna be cold over silly arguments, give him cold back so he knows how it feels but then again I'm a Scorpio with Taurus rising & sagg Venus. That's how I operate, lol.

Posted by scorpioinlust
I suggest you give him back what he gave you. I was involved with a sag guy once. It was long distance, we never got to meet physically. We had a few arguments. The first time I was the one that initiated contact after the argument. But the last one that broke the Camel's back, He goes "you know what, talk to you next week. I'm out." Insinuating that he wasn't going to talk to me for whole week when I believe he was wrong. So I told him I never wanted to speak to him again. Peace! And I totally iced him out.
He returned after a few months, pleading and wanting to start all over again. But I had moved on already.
Moral of the story, you gotta be strong honey. You guys are just friends. If he wanna be cold over silly arguments, give him cold back so he knows how it feels but then again I'm a Scorpio with Taurus rising & sagg Venus. That's how I operate, lol.

I agree with "give him cold back".

But that guys and girls come back after a few months is really nothing new. Also not specified to one sign or a few. This can come from everybody. And it can unfortunately have two very different meaning: they've noticed they were idiots and have learned how important you are for them and where were their mistakes. Or: they try it just because they have nobody new in their lives. And there you are again with checking the situation. Who said it would be easy?

Like his friend's photos. You know, THAT friend...

Posted by TheShire
Like his friend's photos. You know, THAT friend...

Lmao

I wish you a happy time with the Pisces guy. You seem to be positive despite all. I wish you get reward for your kind heart.

Not knowing what you want can be quite annoying to sagg guys, i certainly do find it annoying.

Dammit where's Ms BuzyCow? I'll just plus one what ever she writes/posts about the subject.

@OP:

You two got into a huge argument over him liking that girl's pics. In fact, you both probably argued about it twice with the second time being over how you changed your mind. But, you've probably "mentioned" it beforehand a few times and he finally caved when he said "if it's bothering you." We(but not just us) only say this after someone has addressed an issue multiple times. This is out of appeasement and not agreement.

Here is the issue. This man liked your pics for a year straight, brought you around his family and friends, was upfront and honest about you, only for you to try to control his behavior because of an issue you have with a girl you clearly don't like and he's probably not interested in. You tried to enforce consideration that is reserved for a relationship and not friendship. Let's be honest here, your issue with her is not his problem, it's yours. Instead of trying to control his interactions with someone whom he most likely has no interest in. You arguing with him and trying to force him to choose sides over something that's between you and her only to them change your mind which confuses the heck our him...so he bounced.

Essentially, either he's moved on or he's created space for you to figure it out. Good luck 🙂

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@OP:

You two got into a huge argument over him liking that girl's pics. In fact, you both probably argued about it twice with the second time being over how you changed your mind. But, you've probably "mentioned" it beforehand a few times and he finally caved when he said "if it's bothering you." We(but not just us) only say this after someone has addressed an issue multiple times. This is out of appeasement and not agreement.

Here is the issue. This man liked your pics for a year straight, brought you around his family and friends, was upfront and honest about you, only for you to try to control his behavior because of an issue you have with a girl you clearly don't like and he's probably not interested in. You tried to enforce consideration that is reserved for a relationship and not friendship. Let's be honest here, your issue with her is not his problem, it's yours. Instead of trying to control his interactions with someone whom he most likely has no interest in. You arguing with him and trying to force him to choose sides over something that's between you and her only to them change your mind which confuses the heck our him...so he bounced.

Essentially, either he's moved on or he's created space for you to figure it out. Good luck 🙂

Ok this reply is coming from a sag? Cuz this really raged me. Sorry but he also has a friend that he didn't like and I would never add that friend of his cuz I'm supporting him and I don't like how his friend treated him so clearly I would go add his enemy even if he said it's ok. So he can't be adding someone that treated me bad in return.
And let's say I made a mistake. I apologised for going angry in him which btw took 10 mins. If I went a little angry for 10 mins in a period of 6 months k believe as a friend your supposed to understand and not cling to that one incident for the rest of your life cuz people do lose it as some point. I still think he should have understood a little better. So what if I said yeah it's ok to keep her now and then changed my mind. I really thought deeply about it and realised I don't Wana share my good friends (I mean him) with her. AND PLEASE STOP SAYING IM JEALOUS EVERYONE he can add any girl but just he don't need to add the one person that treated me like crap. How would he feel if I added his enemy now? And he said he lost a friend that added his enemy.

And if he wants to bounce out like you said why is he not completely removing me from his space. Deleting me for example or not replying to me. Why is just being cold.
I want to know and pleeeeeeease help me prove to him that I'm not jealous cuz I'm not and that I want our friendship to go back to its normal place. How many times am I going to apologise. Seriously. It's been about 2 or 3 days now that we didn't talk. Please help me I don't Wana hear any there

...I don't Wana hear any there is no hope talk. I didn't stab him and I didn't cheat on him. I just frikin changed my mind cuz I had to think deeply.
There is no commitment here cuz I'm not even sure if we suit each other's lifestyle. I'm still studying. I just want our friendship to go back to how it started.
This is our conversation while we argued:
Me: I don't Wana lose u over this silly thing feel free to keep her. I didn't Wana tell u to remove her in the beginning cuz I didn't Wana control ur life even though u asked me if you should remove her or not. But I thought deeply and changed my mind. However u can still not remove her if u don't like my final decision.
Him: I would have preferred u being more direct from beginning. And also not have spoken to me that way when u were angry it was disrespectful. However what we have is deeper and bigger and ofcourse I won't lose u over something like this.
Me: I'm sorry I didn't mean to maybe next time I won't talk till I calm down. I hope u do realise that if I didn't care I wouldn't have reacted this way

Ps: he always used to tell me that I mean a lot to him and that I'm his closest friends. And what i said to him when I was angry was "shush stop mentioning this girl to me I don't Wana hear it, u barely understand my feelings now"

What should I dooooooo

Posted by LittlePieces62
I am sorry you are going through this but if he is sun sag cap moon and venus cap like I am too. I am afraid there is not much hope. Unless this are not the placements. You could give him an ice cold back like
He does you. But if there is I think one moon that could make hell freeze over it is a capricorn one 😢.

Facebook is lime a meat auction for appearances. Especially that age range I think.
If you guys are just friends then maybe you reacted too jealous.

How could u say I acted too jealous if he's adding girls every single day and I never say anything over that. It's his life. I'm not his gf and I don't want to be at this stage. I even joke about the large number of girls and commented he gets from them all the time cuz he claims he's heartbroken and single and I always tell me oh come on most of your friends r girls I'm pretty sure ur Gona be fine. Just cuz that ONE TIME that I tell him I prefer if he didn't have that specific girl in the current time cuz she's not a good friend. I even told him in the summer if things improve between me and her and she starts to act better then maybe we could all hangout and hen he could add her. But just not in the mean time.
Anyways eventually I told him do whatever u want. I have the freedom to keep her and since then we didn't talk about it again.
But he's acting cold. He only talks to me when I talk. And he doesn't joke with me like before.

How can we make u sag sun cap moon to realise that we care and we make mistakes so get over whatever bad things happen and enjoy time with your friends the way they r. Nobody is perfect. Y cling over every tiny little quarrel and turn cold. How can we move on with u. Please how can I improve this. I don't want there is no hope as an answer. Should I wait a week and then if he didn't speak maybe I should confront him. Ask him what's changed.

Everything enrages fire moon lol

Posted by bnr7013
I couldn't get through all of this once we hit the sobby OMG mylifeisendingicantgoon posts in the beginning.

Listen to DMV...he changed up so YOU change up. Pull it together, flip the bitch switch, & move around. The only chance you have is if you switch it up. A sob story or a "let's talk" won't do jack. We are easily annoyed..& remember he is a sag so emotions don't play into his choices. That's important info when dealing with a sag...subtract the emotions & you'll know what to do.

Exactly. Saggi probably wont give a shit anyway.

Smh. *calmly speaking*

With some of the comments on here, I understand why some of my bretheren and sisters are commitment phobes. All this nonsense about liking pics equating to interest is foolish.

With that being said, OP, it is noble that you wouldn't like the pics of someone he doesn't like but this is not a one to one ratio. You only told him you didn't like her after the fact. I don't see it as you being jealous. Others on here will rant and rave about Sags being inconsiderate when they often fail to see how their own words and actions come across. Look at it this way, you jumped down his throat and have been inconsistent on the issue yourself. So what happens if it's a chick you don't like that he works with? Is he not to associate with her at all? While it sounds crazy that you'd asked him that of him, that's how it comes across. He's thinking, where does it end and this is before you even get into a relationship...and all over a random woman who he has no interest in. The point being, your issue is with her...not him as I said before. The even deeper issue is that you're letting your issues with her control your friendship with him and that ain't cool in anyone's book. Like I said before, he was loyal to you and it's unfair to ask him to cut off liking pics of a woman you simply don't like. Yes...its controlling.

I'm all for considering someone's feelings but there comes a point where that person needs to address the issue and resolve it rather trying to constantly control their environment and being unreasonable.

Whats your venus sign OP?

Posted by Nouran20
Ok this reply is coming from a sag? Cuz this really raged me. Sorry but he also has a friend that he didn't like and I would never add that friend of his cuz I'm supporting him and I don't like how his friend treated him so clearly I would go add his enemy even if he said it's ok. So he can't be adding someone that treated me bad in return.
And let's say I made a mistake. I apologised for going angry in him which btw took 10 mins. If I went a little angry for 10 mins in a period of 6 months k believe as a friend your supposed to understand and not cling to that one incident for the rest of your life cuz people do lose it as some point. I still think he should have understood a little better. So what if I said yeah it's ok to keep her now and then changed my mind. I really thought deeply about it and realised I don't Wana share my good friends (I mean him) with her. AND PLEASE STOP SAYING IM JEALOUS EVERYONE ...... Seriously. It's been about 2 or 3 days now that we didn't talk.

She not jealous. She's actually very possessive. The man isn't a burrito where you get to pick and choose who gets a "piece" of him.

Btw, you clearly have issues with anger if beautifulsoul's comment caused you to "rage". Like seriously? I could only imagine how you went off on the Sag, which may be your problem----not the fact that you were only "little" angry for 10 minutes in a span of 6 months. It all depends on what was said when you expressed your anger, which I'm guessing is what his response is about. Certain words can't simply be apologized away. Get it sorted.

Posted by DMV
Whats your venus sign OP?

I'm not sure but my date of birth is 18 May 1992

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Smh. *calmly speaking*

With some of the comments on here, I understand why some of my bretheren and sisters are commitment phobes. All this nonsense about liking pics equating to interest is foolish.

With that being said, OP, it is noble that you wouldn't like the pics of someone he doesn't like but this is not a one to one ratio. You only told him you didn't like her after the fact. I don't see it as you being jealous. Others on here will rant and rave about Sags being inconsiderate when they often fail to see how their own words and actions come across. Look at it this way, you jumped down his throat and have been inconsistent on the issue yourself. So what happens if it's a chick you don't like that he works with? Is he not to associate with her at all? While it sounds crazy that you'd asked him that of him, that's how it comes across. He's thinking, where does it end and this is before you even get into a relationship...and all over a random woman who he has no interest in. The point being, your issue is with her...not him as I said before. The even deeper issue is that you're letting your issues with her control your friendship with him and that ain't cool in anyone's book. Like I said before, he was loyal to you and it's unfair to ask him to cut off liking pics of a woman you simply don't like. Yes...its controlling.

I'm all for considering someone's feelings but there comes a point where that person needs to address the issue and resolve it rather trying to constantly control their environment and being unreasonable.

Let me just correct you. I never told him to stop liking her pics. He can like her pics and other girl's pics freely that's not what bothers me. What bothers me is why stop liking my pics— Out of everybody else why me? It may sound stupid but it's strange behaviour to me cuz I got used to him liking my pics for like a year and suddenly he just stopped and for your info he stopped liking my pics even before the argument about the girl. And there was no arguments before that. So I'm confused here.

But i never asked him to stop liking her pics. I was going to introduce them anyway so we all hangout. But after me and her clashed I took a step further away from her till we cool off again. All I wanted is for him to support me and use his brain to remove her on his own without me asking. Cuz if I was in his place and he insisted to keep his enemy on my list I would have still removed his enemy. I am loyal to my friends.

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Posted by Nouran20
Ok this reply is coming from a sag? Cuz this really raged me. Sorry but he also has a friend that he didn't like and I would never add that friend of his cuz I'm supporting him and I don't like how his friend treated him so clearly I would go add his enemy even if he said it's ok. So he can't be adding someone that treated me bad in return.
And let's say I made a mistake. I apologised for going angry in him which btw took 10 mins. If I went a little angry for 10 mins in a period of 6 months k believe as a friend your supposed to understand and not cling to that one incident for the rest of your life cuz people do lose it as some point. I still think he should have understood a little better. So what if I said yeah it's ok to keep her now and then changed my mind. I really thought deeply about it and realised I don't Wana share my good friends (I mean him) with her. AND PLEASE STOP SAYING IM JEALOUS EVERYONE ...... Seriously. It's been about 2 or 3 days now that we didn't talk.

She not jealous. She's actually very possessive. The man isn't a burrito where you get to pick and choose who gets a "piece" of him.

Btw, you clearly have issues with anger if beautifulsoul's comment caused you to "rage". Like seriously? I could only imagine how you went off on the Sag, which may be your problem----not the fact that you were only "little" angry for 10 minutes in a span of 6 months. It all depends on what was said when you expressed your anger, which I'm guessing is what his response is about. Certain words can't simply be apologized away. Get it sorted.

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Ok first of all my anger comes when people keep saying I'm jealouse and misinterpreting me. And now your saying I'm possessive. Let me tell u something he got so mad at a friend of his that started following his enemy and kept liking his enemy's pics. And now he's doing the same thing with me. Which means he is not as loyal as me. Cuz I could simply go now and follow his enemy too. But I would never do that no matter what.
Let me get this straight I don't Wana control him I don't want him to cut contact with any girl nor stop liking their pics. I just want him to go back to normal with me and I want to know the real reason behind his sudden change. I don't want our friendship to end. I'm not a bad person and I'm not possessive. I'm someone who loves my personal freedom too just I case u haven't noticed I have a sag moon. I find it hard to commit too and I'm scared of heart breaks. So please don't look at me as just a Taurus cuz most of what's written on Taurus traits doesn't even suit me. Like I'm crazy about travel and adventure and they never say Taurus is adventurous it's always Taurus is the lazy one sitting at home.

I HAVE AN ANNOUNCMENT TO MAKE: but I'm not sure if it's good or bad but hopefully it's good.
He just liked one pic of mine 🙂

To be honest I thought deeply and I won't contact him for a week or so. I'll give him his own space. And I'll take a break from his over sensitivity and dramatic personality. And then if he still didn't speak to me I'll speak to him and initiate a conversation about random things. Then if he's still cold I'll honestly say what's inside me and tell him that I feel he's been acting different and I want to know the reason behind that cuz I want to work things out between us and have overall peace so that our friendship continues smoothly. And that anything I said is coming from a caring friend not a hater.
And will take it from there and see how it goes. I dunno. But I feel I can't pretend forever. At the same time I don't Wana walk away now he still needs support. I was his support. I can't just let go now. He's already heart broken. I would let go if he was stronger.

Taurus female and Sagittarius males should be platonic friends. I attract them too. So don't be possessive they don't know that word at all.

They attract alot of woman too. So got to be strong and trust him. If not adios macho..

@ OP,

Your venus is in Taurus. You have a Sag moon and Aries Mars. Youre definitely possessive. I dont have a problem with that. Your earthy and so is he.

Give him time to decide if he likes your brand of "cray cray." Everyone is cray cray and we have to find ppl to accept our level of craziness.

With venus in caps, you will get that push pull, hot n cold behavior.

Im actually dealing with a venus in taurus. This relationship takes times.

Posted by Nouran20
I HAVE AN ANNOUNCMENT TO MAKE: but I'm not sure if it's good or bad but hopefully it's good.
He just liked one pic of mine 🙂

To be honest I thought deeply and I won't contact him for a week or so. I'll give him his own space. And I'll take a break from his over sensitivity and dramatic personality. And then if he still didn't speak to me I'll speak to him and initiate a conversation about random things. Then if he's still cold I'll honestly say what's inside me and tell him that I feel he's been acting different and I want to know the reason behind that cuz I want to work things out between us and have overall peace so that our friendship continues smoothly. And that anything I said is coming from a caring friend not a hater.
And will take it from there and see how it goes. I dunno. But I feel I can't pretend forever. At the same time I don't Wana walk away now he still needs support. I was his support. I can't just let go now. He's already heart broken. I would let go if he was stronger.

🙂

Just dont let his "likes" be a sole indicator of attractiveness of him towards you.

He may be just sorting through his own emotions. Men process so differently.

Posted by Nouran20
I HAVE AN ANNOUNCMENT TO MAKE: but I'm not sure if it's good or bad but hopefully it's good.
He just liked one pic of mine 🙂

To be honest I thought deeply and I won't contact him for a week or so. I'll give him his own space. And I'll take a break from his over sensitivity and dramatic personality. And then if he still didn't speak to me I'll speak to him and initiate a conversation about random things. Then if he's still cold I'll honestly say what's inside me and tell him that I feel he's been acting different and I want to know the reason behind that cuz I want to work things out between us and have overall peace so that our friendship continues smoothly. And that anything I said is coming from a caring friend not a hater.
And will take it from there and see how it goes. I dunno. But I feel I can't pretend forever. At the same time I don't Wana walk away now he still needs support. I was his support. I can't just let go now. He's already heart broken. I would let go if he was stronger.

He's returned to start a new. Lighten up and it should be ok 🙂

maybe he accidentally clicked liked. these smartphone nowadays.

Posted by Nouran20
Thank you all for the replies. But no I'm not jealouse of this girl and I have no problem With him liking other girls pics. His Instagram friends list is like 90% girls. So I don't mind that.
What bothers me is why he's not acting himself like before and why suddenly from liking most of my pics he stops? He's liking every girls pic but y not mine—
It's not about that girls specifically. And when I ask him if he has a problem with me he says no if I did I would tell u or I would stop knowing u.
I'm confused.

Haha I posted about a similar thing recently. Dude I was seeing was liking other girls pictures and not mine. I had no problem with him liking the other chicks pictures, just odd that I wasn't one of them considering we were pretty much exclusively seeing each other. Men and their online behavior...I never know if they are oblivious or doing it deliberately. Try no to think too much about it or just unfollow him so you cannot see his activity.