WHAT IS GOING ON HERE SAG? (Page 2)

Posted by ashley1734

Posted by Nouran20
Thank you all for the replies. But no I'm not jealouse of this girl and I have no problem With him liking other girls pics. His Instagram friends list is like 90% girls. So I don't mind that.
What bothers me is why he's not acting himself like before and why suddenly from liking most of my pics he stops? He's liking every girls pic but y not mine—
It's not about that girls specifically. And when I ask him if he has a problem with me he says no if I did I would tell u or I would stop knowing u.
I'm confused.

Haha I posted about a similar thing recently. Dude I was seeing was liking other girls pictures and not mine. I had no problem with him liking the other chicks pictures, just odd that I wasn't one of them considering we were pretty much exclusively seeing each other. Men and their online behavior...I never know if they are oblivious or doing it deliberately. Try no to think too much about it or just unfollow him so you cannot see his activity.

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That's exactly how i feel. We are on same page. He likes all girls pics and not mine? Ok weird. And doesn't reply to my comments as well. Even though we r pretty close. Anyway I'm doing the same thing and I don't care. Childish behaviour is a not accepted in my life. Or just I consider it immature and I won't take it personal not serious.

I HAVR AN UPDATE TO MAKE.
But first sorry that I haven't been posting here much. But I let things cool and guess what everyone. He contacted me TWICE.
First time he contacted me he said he saw my pics bla bla. ( he liked just one out of like 4 or 5 I posted and he is still liking that other chick's pics like MOST if not all her pics) anyways I thought since he started contact that it's a good chance for me to confront him and ask him y he changed and if there's anything bothering him...he said no whatever argument we had he forgot about it and he wont lose our friendship for anything silly.
Second day he said good morning and we talked almost all day just making jokes and being silly. Which is great

I'm giving him lots of space and also I feel like I need mine. I don't feel like we should talk everyday every night. I have a life and he has his. We could talk occasionally. He's still acting weird about the pics and is paying more attention to that chick's more than mine but honestly it doesn't bother me. If it's meant to be then it'll happen if not then whatever.
My finally comment is I'm not sure how I feel about him anymore. I just can't take him seriously anymore. I dunno if he's too kind or too stupid. Literally, he calls everyone his "bestie" he posts pics with different girls and they r all his bestirs. LOL like it takes years and time to consider someone a best friend and usually u wouldn't have like 20 best friends. Normally u would have 2 best friends not 20!! And his female friends r like 90% of all his friends which I find strange. Like I dunno do guys hate him? God knows.
Maybe Sagittarius is not my thing anyway. Even though my moon is a sag I could sometimes act like one.

I just feel like he used to tell me that I'm closer than his closest friends. And he told me that only a few months from meeting. I thought i was special to him. And he repeatedly said that I meant a lot to him.
Now...I feel like he probably says the same thing to all these girls hence the whole bestie thing.
I dunno if this is a sag thing or if it's just him, but he tells people everythingggg about his private life like I advised him not to cuz people especially strangers shouldn't know everything about ur life.
What kinda person calls everyone a best friend.

Maybe I'm nothing to him anymore and he moved on and has a new "bestie" or even bestiessss

That sucks OP, sorry to hear it ended this way.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Nouran20
I just feel like he used to tell me that I'm closer than his closest friends. And he told me that only a few months from meeting. I thought i was special to him. And he repeatedly said that I meant a lot to him.
Now...I feel like he probably says the same thing to all these girls hence the whole bestie thing.
I dunno if this is a sag thing or if it's just him, but he tells people everythingggg about his private life like I advised him not to cuz people especially strangers shouldn't know everything about ur life.
What kinda person calls everyone a best friend.

Maybe I'm nothing to him anymore and he moved on and has a new "bestie" or even bestiessss

You need to decide if you view this sag as a "platonic friend" or a "potential relationship "?!

The sag males I am friends with I don't care what they do or who they hang out with or whether they "like" someone's pics more than mine etc.. This would only "bother " me if I were in a relationship with them as this is where they become part of my "possessions "!

I like you are taurus but with a Leo moon. Your idea of "possession" is the taurus part of you. You see this sag as part of your "possessions " from what I can gather!!! I am only this way if I am in a relationship with a person.

Taurus and sag have different view even on friendship. for example a person I would class as a mere "aqauaintance " a sag will view as a friend. Taurus is hot on loyalty. Sag idea is completely different when it comes to die hard ethics. You are conservative steeped in "old school tradition" sag is liberal in "live and let live"!

You have to ACCEPT the sag as he is. You must not change his nature. You accept him as he is or walk away. Accept his nature. If he is a platonic friend accept him as a platonic friend and keep your boundaries in check. He is not part of your possessions. Do not have a relationship with him. Your core values (even having a sag moon will make no difference) will be wasted on a sag!!!!

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You said I'm a Leo moon in beginning. Must be a typing error cuz yeah like u said at the end I'm a sag moon. 18/05/1992
Well I like him and I'm just seeing how well our friendship will go. I don't Wana Rush. But at the back of my head if he meets what I want then I don't mind being in a relationship with him. I like him but I don't love him.