Ssasy
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What type of Sag do I have?
Correction: So My Sag is a Cancer Moon, and a Cap in Venus.
Do you work? What do u do? Is the money coming in even? Are the house duties even?
Posted by DMVYup I work 2 jobs and im in school.
Do you work? What do u do? Is the money coming in even? Are the house duties even?
Posted by Ssasydoes your money equal her money? venus in cap worries about financial stability, equality. if there is even a doubt of being broke, there is no time for lovin.Posted by DMVYup I work 2 jobs and im in school.
Do you work? What do u do? Is the money coming in even? Are the house duties even?
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I feel for you.. I have venus in cap, whether it's the culprit here or not. Your partner sounds a lot like me in my past relationships. It has happened to me twice in the past, moving in with someone and the sexy times ending there, no matter how hot it was before.
I've thought about it a lot. Perhaps my insights are too personal, but in case you might find any of it helpful, here they are:
- I need a lot of time alone to feel like myself, to deal with the world
- I need a lot of physical space. I'm thinking I might need my own floor if I'm to live with someone again, or at least my own room and a permission from my partner to spend a lot of time alone in there.. Without having to explain why
- When I don't get enough space and time alone, during the time together with my partner, I can't focus on enjoying it at all. Instead, I keep thinking about my lost freedom (I perceive it as loss of freedom)
- As a consequence, I begin to lose respect for my partner. It is a gradual process, but in a year or two, I end up resenting my partner to the point of feeling disgusted by them, for no apparent reason
- For sexy times to happen, I keep thinking everything else needs to be in order first. It is just an illusion though, but it is how I begin to feel when I need to juggle a lot of responsibilities (my partner being one of them) and my personal time & space get substituted with time spent together. When it gets to this point, I might need a week, even two weeks alone for my mind to be able to process everything and for me to realize again what my priorities and needs in life are
- For some reason, I easily tend to forget to respect my partner as much as they should be respected. Whenever my respect for them drops, I completely lose interest in engaging physically with them. I have yet to figure this one out, but for now, hate to admit it, a bit of relationship drama initiated by my partner every couple of months helps - it's a bit of a slap in the face to humble me and remind me of how important they are to me
- Last but not least, the more I am encouraged to open up to my partner about my issues (and they actively listen and really let me talk), the more I feel emotionally connected to them. I would like to have them talk to me as well, be able to help, it is not a burden. The more I feel this connection, the more I want to bed them and show them good time.. 🙂 Life can get so busy, it is very easy to forget how to have a real conversation with a loved one. Conversations are perhaps the best way display intelligence and wisdom - qualities, which I think most sags are deeply attracted to.
Good luck!
I've thought about it a lot. Perhaps my insights are too personal, but in case you might find any of it helpful, here they are:
- I need a lot of time alone to feel like myself, to deal with the world
- I need a lot of physical space. I'm thinking I might need my own floor if I'm to live with someone again, or at least my own room and a permission from my partner to spend a lot of time alone in there.. Without having to explain why
- When I don't get enough space and time alone, during the time together with my partner, I can't focus on enjoying it at all. Instead, I keep thinking about my lost freedom (I perceive it as loss of freedom)
- As a consequence, I begin to lose respect for my partner. It is a gradual process, but in a year or two, I end up resenting my partner to the point of feeling disgusted by them, for no apparent reason
- For sexy times to happen, I keep thinking everything else needs to be in order first. It is just an illusion though, but it is how I begin to feel when I need to juggle a lot of responsibilities (my partner being one of them) and my personal time & space get substituted with time spent together. When it gets to this point, I might need a week, even two weeks alone for my mind to be able to process everything and for me to realize again what my priorities and needs in life are
- For some reason, I easily tend to forget to respect my partner as much as they should be respected. Whenever my respect for them drops, I completely lose interest in engaging physically with them. I have yet to figure this one out, but for now, hate to admit it, a bit of relationship drama initiated by my partner every couple of months helps - it's a bit of a slap in the face to humble me and remind me of how important they are to me
- Last but not least, the more I am encouraged to open up to my partner about my issues (and they actively listen and really let me talk), the more I feel emotionally connected to them. I would like to have them talk to me as well, be able to help, it is not a burden. The more I feel this connection, the more I want to bed them and show them good time.. 🙂 Life can get so busy, it is very easy to forget how to have a real conversation with a loved one. Conversations are perhaps the best way display intelligence and wisdom - qualities, which I think most sags are deeply attracted to.
Good luck!
My Sag (male) has those placements. I need space so I give it to him. He is all over me when I give him that. We live together. He is so passionate towards me. Especially after we have long talks. He also needs to have quality time together. I'm all about balance so it works. Talk to her.. Maybe things will get better?
We both cook together too. He loves that... He loves to sit and talk during dinner...and then he cuddles with me, which leads to amazing time together afterwards... Haha
We both cook together too. He loves that... He loves to sit and talk during dinner...and then he cuddles with me, which leads to amazing time together afterwards... Haha
Posted by safireThank you for this. I can see this. and I understand it oddly enough.
I feel for you.. I have venus in cap, whether it's the culprit here or not. Your partner sounds a lot like me in my past relationships. It has happened to me twice in the past, moving in with someone and the sexy times ending there, no matter how hot it was before.
I've thought about it a lot. Perhaps my insights are too personal, but in case you might find any of it helpful, here they are:
- I need a lot of time alone to feel like myself, to deal with the world
- I need a lot of physical space. I'm thinking I might need my own floor if I'm to live with someone again, or at least my own room and a permission from my partner to spend a lot of time alone in there.. Without having to explain why
- When I don't get enough space and time alone, during the time together with my partner, I can't focus on enjoying it at all. Instead, I keep thinking about my lost freedom (I perceive it as loss of freedom)
- As a consequence, I begin to lose respect for my partner. It is a gradual process, but in a year or two, I end up resenting my partner to the point of feeling disgusted by them, for no apparent reason
- For sexy times to happen, I keep thinking everything else needs to be in order first. It is just an illusion though, but it is how I begin to feel when I need to juggle a lot of responsibilities (my partner being one of them) and my personal time & space get substituted with time spent together. When it gets to this point, I might need a week, even two weeks alone for my mind to be able to process everything and for me to realize again what my priorities and needs in life are
- For some reason, I easily tend to forget to respect my partner as much as they should be respected. Whenever my respect for them drops, I completely lose interest in engaging physically with them. I have yet to figure this one out, but for now, hate to admit it, a bit of relationship drama initiated by my partner every couple of months helps - it's a bit of a slap in the face to humble me and remind me of how important they are to me
- Last but not least, the more I am encouraged to open up to my partner about my issues (and they actively listen and really let me talk), the more I feel emotionally connected to them. I would like to have them talk to me as well, be able to help, it is not a burden. The more I feel this connection, the more I want to bed them and show them good time.. 🙂 Life can get so busy, it is very easy to forget how to have a real conversation with a loved one. Conversations are perhaps the best way display intelligence and wisdom - qualities, which I think most sags are deeply attracted to.
Good luck!
But us moving into this place was her idea and it was great because she kept saying I need my own s
Thank you for this. I can see this. and I understand it oddly enough.
But us moving into this place was her idea and it was great because she kept saying I need my own space.
Now that we got this place there is a bedroom for us to share, a room for herself to have a cvhouch a tv and her own walk in closet and I also have a room for myself which I made out to an offce. We just had a spat about money, and she said to me shes doing all of this for me, because she wants it but the whole working and having the beautiful apartment is her adjusting to give me that. I personally don't like that because I believe in burn out, and or resentment. She doesn't see it that way but last night I called her out on something and she wanted to watch tv together and later ended up cuddling. Its almost like she forgets Im her partner and not the person she lives with. IF I push too much to be seen she says Im getting soft and I need validation.
smh when we are good its soo good but as a cancer scorp moon I need that physical that chemistry....and I feel that because her music career isn't where she wants it shes unable to give me anything else. Guess I will have to shut down and go in my shell. 😢 Thank you for the insight and good luck with your challenges. First step is acknowledging it.
What are your placements?
Posted by sagiluvShe speaks on her legacy and empire often.
I'll share about me:
My sun sag Venus cap makes me a very busy person, hard working, always focused on taking care of my home
& being financially stable. I find myself sometimes drifting away & focused on what's important to me which is prosperity and reaching my daily goals. As far as sexual intimacy that is not my priority when I'm focused on my career: I do need a lot space & don't like to feel smothered or bothered when I have a goal in mind about something that is important to me. I don't like to be nagged either. & I also expect for my partner to do their part in building our empire.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16I am a scorpio moon and I forget my venus. rising is capricorn
What are your placements?
Posted by LittlePieces62Second thatPosted by sagiluvSounds like me also :-)
I'll share about me:
My sun sag Venus cap makes me a very busy person, hard working, always focused on taking care of my home
& being financially stable. I find myself sometimes drifting away & focused on what's important to me which is prosperity and reaching my daily goals. As far as sexual intimacy that is not my priority when I'm focused on my career: I do need a lot space & don't like to feel smothered or bothered when I have a goal in mind about something that is important to me. I don't like to be nagged either. & I also expect for my partner to do their part in building our empire.click to expand
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And I noticed that She is a very one thing at a time type of person.
She decided lets get our own place together, so we did.
She got a new job, she is doing her part as a partner to contribute and still cooks and does those things.
But the recreational part, the sexy time, the passionate part....WHERE IS IT!
Its like shes so focused on the bills, the home, going to work I barely get a kiss. She does say I love you when leaving the house.
But She was more fun and exciting when she wasn't working and goodness she was far more into sexy time when we didn't live together.
I feel bad about complaining because the supportive part shes doing her part...But I feel like she doesn't know how to multi task. 😢 Anyone experienced this?