Scorpio men Help

I'm having this scorpio who got on to an argument with me. He was jealous of something. I asked for some official work to be done. At the time of argument, he said he will not do it and is not angry with me. But, as time passed now he doesn't respond to me at all. He sees my messages but doesn't reply. I have to continue pre agreed project with him. I'm feeling so hateful to work with him now, as he never responds and it's hard to continue with the work. Why does he do this? What can I do about it?

Please help me. I don't understand him. he acts so unprofessional.

Thank you for the abundance of information needed in order to offer feedback. Unfortunately, the information is useless. Below are questions that can provide me further insight into the actual problem you face.

1. Is this work or school related?

2. What was the argument about?

3. What was he jealous of?

4. What did you ask him to do and what is your relationship with him that enables you to ask him to complete such a task?

5. Why didn't you complete the task yourself?

6. Are you a Gemini?

This is a work related training program in my career. He was my mentor. I need his feedback at certain stages in the training. When I sent him the work I did for his approval and feedback he ignores me. The argument was about, I asked him for a recommendation. It was for a project. I started doing it with some other. He expected that I would come and do it with him. But as I chose another I felt he is jealous about it. I'm a sag.

Posted by _Dazed

Thank you for the abundance of information needed in order to offer feedback. Unfortunately, the information is useless. Below are questions that can provide me further insight into the actual problem you face.

1. Is this work or school related?

2. What was the argument about?

3. What was he jealous of?

4. What did you ask him to do and what is your relationship with him that enables you to ask him to complete such a task?

5. Why didn't you complete the task yourself?

6. Are you a Gemini?

This is a work related training program in my career. He was my mentor. I need his feedback at certain stages in the training. When I sent him the work I did for his approval and feedback he ignores me. The argument was about, I asked him for a recommendation. It was for a project. I started doing it with some other. He expected that I would come and do it with him. But as I chose another I felt he is jealous about it. I'm a sag.

Posted by Pulsy

The argument was about— Asking for a recommendation—

I needed his recommendation. He was dragging the thing. THen I said I need it quickly and he started to lashing on me, like he cannot be faster the way I expect him to be. What I felt was that, he didn't want to give it to me. He didn't have a reason to reject. So he was dragging the work. When I was asking him for it, he made it a point to reject giving me the recommendation.

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Posted by WhatTheFuck

Posted by _Dazed

Thank you for the abundance of information needed in order to offer feedback. Unfortunately, the information is useless. Below are questions that can provide me further insight into the actual problem you face.

1. Is this work or school related?

2. What was the argument about?

3. What was he jealous of?

4. What did you ask him to do and what is your relationship with him that enables you to ask him to complete such a task?

5. Why didn't you complete the task yourself?

6. Are you a Gemini?

This is a work related training program in my career. He was my mentor. I need his feedback at certain stages in the training. When I sent him the work I did for his approval and feedback he ignores me. The argument was about, I asked him for a recommendation. It was for a project. I started doing it with some other. He expected that I would come and do it with him. But as I chose another I felt he is jealous about it. I'm a sag.

Have you at any stage swiped left on him with your eyes?

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what do you mean?

Posted by LuneDeClair

Spray him with a hose💧

Wish I could. I'm so hateful of him now

Anyone who has similar experience or a scorpio himself, can you help me to figure out what he is upto? If he can't do this anymore he can leave it. Is he taking revenge from me? He said he is not angry and suddenly act like this.

Posted by jammyjam

"I'm feeling so hateful to work with him now" ditto. When I worked with this scorpio dude I was feeling so hateful I tried everything to figure out what he was up to, I never could, so I requested and got transferred departments! You have to help your yourself

After having some self thoughts I decided to explain my situation to the trainer and have another mentor. I did some googling and it says they are deeply hurt and takes long time to recover. It's better leave him as he is and move away.

Posted by WhatTheFuck

Posted by Pulsy

The argument was about— Asking for a recommendation—

I needed his recommendation. He was dragging the thing. THen I said I need it quickly and he started to lashing on me, like he cannot be faster the way I expect him to be. What I felt was that, he didn't want to give it to me. He didn't have a reason to reject. So he was dragging the work. When I was asking him for it, he made it a point to reject giving me the recommendation.

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Did you deserve the recommendation?

Sounds like he's resentful your sending him additional work to add to his plate expecting his input. He sounds overworked and underpaid. Then you copped an attitude and put the pressure on him to respond. So he said hell no to your request for a recommendation. That's my take on the info you've shared.

The take away here is not everyone is gonna be your bestie. And. Thats. Ok.

No need to try and get everyone to love you. Its a waste of time and energy.

Also trainers are not mentors. Trainers are doing a job 9-5 following the company handbook of procedures and honestly dgaf after hours because "not my monkey, not my show". Mentors are someone who provides guidance, emotional support, and just advice and information... throughout the years to help you not only advance through your career, but balance and win at life.

A mentor is not someone who is assigned to train you by the company. They are someone who choses you, not is chosen for you.

So ideally stop having mentor expectations of your trainer. He's just trying to get in, do his shift, and get out.