@Axelle
6 Years
weird Scorpio man behaviour
Understanding Scorpio Men Who Send Mixed Signals
Scorpio men often exhibit intense and mysterious behavior, sometimes withdrawing then seeking connection through others. This may reflect their emotional depth and desire for control. Their actions can seem confusing but often stem from their need for privacy and emotional security. Recognizing these patterns can help decide whether to wait or move on based on your feelings.
if you dunno for sure then reach out to scorp, or just leave it alone.
I know it sounds a bit strange, but when he has an issue with a person he communicates with a third party, to check if it's safe or not
He did the same with me before when he had issues with people, and I kind of had to be the mailman for him, which is actually the conflict and the reason we not talk
@ Hearttoftopazz haha no, he's a cool bro and happily with his pisces chick
@peachy06 one time we didn't talk for a month or so because he disappeared and said:
"Yeah you didn't care about me etc etc"
In the same conversation, while I asked how he's doing before. I mean... Pfff what do you want 🤨
@thatlibralife maybe im being too hopeful indeed and needed a push to move on
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
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Nope. Not at all. I can do that myself thanks to the limitless security flaws laden in Android phones and autonomous sign-in super cookies.
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
Nope. Not at all. I can do that myself thanks to the limitless security flaws laden in Android phones and autonomous sign-in super cookies.
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Does anyone find it in ill-taste to regard yourself as more powerful than your planetary influences?
tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
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My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
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he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
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Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
It feels like a chess game to me
You don't treat your close relationships like a game
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
It feels like a chess game to me
You don't treat your close relationships like a game
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
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You are correct. It is not good behavior. Nobody should even enter a relationship in the context of a game.
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
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don't. let it be.
ve been times he apologized and knew he was acting like a child
But now this again and thinking:
Ok you haven't learned anything.
How will I know from a scorpio his apologies and intentions are sincere after this behaviour
It feels like a chess game to me
You don't treat your close relationships like a game
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
You are correct. It is not good behavior. Nobody should even enter a relationship in the context of a game.
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My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
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Ok I will🙂
I know it sounds a bit strange, but when he has an issue with a person he communicates with a third party, to check if it's safe or not
He did the same with me before when he had issues with people, and I kind of had to be the mailman for him, which is actually the conflict and the reason we not talk
Sounds like cowardly behavior 😕
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
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Get a friend to call him lol 😑
ill not stoop to his level hahaha
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
Get a friend to call him lol 😑
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No thanks. Will not stoop to his level hahaha
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
Get a friend to call him lol 😑
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I was joking 🙃
Seriously though he does sound cowardly
No thanks. Will not stoop to his level hahaha
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
Get a friend to call him lol 😑
I was joking 🙃
Seriously though he does sound cowardly
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He used to be very confident and he changed when many things happened to him and became insecure
I told him I don't know this Scorpio
Only the old Scorpio and that I hoped the old Scorpio would come back
He got mad one time I said that and replied the old Scorpio will never come back, but he also one time said he's working on himself and hope he finds his old self again
It's like I was talking to a Gemini:S (sorry i love you guys)
So that's why I'm wondering when will I knowthis behaviour is really over and his apologies and intentions are real
No thanks. Will not stoop to his level hahaha
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
Get a friend to call him lol 😑
I was joking 🙃
Seriously though he does sound cowardly
He used to be very confident and he changed when many things happened to him and became insecure
I told him I don't know this Scorpio
Only the old Scorpio and that I hoped the old Scorpio would come back
He got mad one time I said that and replied the old Scorpio will never come back, but he also one time said he's working on himself and hope he finds his old self again
It's like I was talking to a Gemini:S (sorry i love you guys)
So that's why I'm wondering when will I knowthis behaviour is really over and his apologies and intentions are real
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Sounds like he needs some help and you’ll know when he finds the courage to call you direct ... until then I would give him time and space and leave the ball in his court.
It reminds me of a child “you do it for me mum, I’m too scared”
No thanks. Will not stoop to his level hahaha
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
Get a friend to call him lol 😑
I was joking 🙃
Seriously though he does sound cowardly
He used to be very confident and he changed when many things happened to him and became insecure
I told him I don't know this Scorpio
Only the old Scorpio and that I hoped the old Scorpio would come back
He got mad one time I said that and replied the old Scorpio will never come back, but he also one time said he's working on himself and hope he finds his old self again
It's like I was talking to a Gemini:S (sorry i love you guys)
So that's why I'm wondering when will I knowthis behaviour is really over and his apologies and intentions are real
Sounds like he needs some help and you’ll know when he finds the courage to call you direct ... until then I would give him time and space and leave the ball in his court.
It reminds me of a child “you do it for me mum, I’m too scared”
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He said he needed me and I helped, but wouldn't take it or gets mad
But when there are problems he wants to solve it by himself and pushes people away he loves the most. OK THEN 😩 ??
No thanks. Will not stoop to his level hahaha
My intuition tells me this is the case. There have been previous circumstances where I had to do it for him as well for his friends .
But now I'm questioning the intention
Nobody really ever knows. The intentions of these actions are covered in layers of obscurity by purpose or accident.
have you ever had a wingman check on a girl for you?
he's had you be his wingwoman before? messy. have you talked him since posting this thread?
Not really a wing woman. More a mediator for him and his friends when his friends were mad at him
I called but no answer. And I'm not sure if I should send him a message
don't. let it be.
Ok I will🙂
Get a friend to call him lol 😑
I was joking 🙃
Seriously though he does sound cowardly
He used to be very confident and he changed when many things happened to him and became insecure
I told him I don't know this Scorpio
Only the old Scorpio and that I hoped the old Scorpio would come back
He got mad one time I said that and replied the old Scorpio will never come back, but he also one time said he's working on himself and hope he finds his old self again
It's like I was talking to a Gemini:S (sorry i love you guys)
So that's why I'm wondering when will I knowthis behaviour is really over and his apologies and intentions are real
Sounds like he needs some help and you’ll know when he finds the courage to call you direct ... until then I would give him time and space and leave the ball in his court.
It reminds me of a child “you do it for me mum, I’m too scared”
He said he needed me and I helped, but wouldn't take it or gets mad
But when there are problems he wants to solve it by himself and pushes people away he loves the most. OK THEN 😩 ??
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So you stand back and hope he gets professional help
They play stupid games like that. I had one have his friend call me and hit on me to see if I would take the bate. When I told his friend to fuck off, 2 days later the Scorpio called and said I pasted his test. WTF! So yeah, he probably had his friend call to see if you would get chummy with him. It's a test.
They play stupid games like that. I had one have his friend call me and hit on me to see if I would take the bate. When I told his friend to fuck off, 2 days later the Scorpio called and said I pasted his test. WTF! So yeah, he probably had his friend call to see if you would get chummy with him. It's a test.
Kinda feel this happened also with me a long time ago. I just ignored it, really lame
What did say to Scorpio? And after? Are you with the Scorpio?
if you are prone to being mind fucked, avoid Scorpio at all costs...
It's like the devil stole my heart 😤
He might have problems he has to deal with, as you mentioned he keeps spiraling in his own drama.
So he might need some space to sort himself out. Just live your life and he might come back and explain everything when he's ready.
If not, then you know your place in his life and he's a waste of time.
You're right, I sooo need to move on
if you are prone to being mind fucked, avoid Scorpio at all costs...
It's like the devil stole my heart 😤
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it's not that serious. don't make him into something larger than life. 🙂
They play stupid games like that. I had one have his friend call me and hit on me to see if I would take the bate. When I told his friend to fuck off, 2 days later the Scorpio called and said I pasted his test. WTF! So yeah, he probably had his friend call to see if you would get chummy with him. It's a test.
That's twisted....hope you told him to go feck himself 😐
if you are prone to being mind fucked, avoid Scorpio at all costs...
It's like the devil stole my heart 😤
it's not that serious. don't make him into something larger than life. 🙂
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I really don't want to! 😢
But I've been in love with him since 2013, questioning if I will ever love someone else so deeply as him
if you are prone to being mind fucked, avoid Scorpio at all costs...
It's like the devil stole my heart 😤
it's not that serious. don't make him into something larger than life. 🙂
I really don't want to! 😢
But I've been in love with him since 2013, questioning if I will ever love someone else so deeply as him
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*light smack* girl, get it together! there will always be someone else.
They play stupid games like that. I had one have his friend call me and hit on me to see if I would take the bate. When I told his friend to fuck off, 2 days later the Scorpio called and said I pasted his test. WTF! So yeah, he probably had his friend call to see if you would get chummy with him. It's a test.
Kinda feel this happened also with me a long time ago. I just ignored it, really lame
What did say to Scorpio? And after? Are you with the Scorpio?
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Oh God no! That was a long time ago. I'm married now. I pretended I didn't know what he was talking about to make myself look even better. The dick was so good I didn't want to lose it at the time.
if you are prone to being mind fucked, avoid Scorpio at all costs...
It's like the devil stole my heart 😤
it's not that serious. don't make him into something larger than life. 🙂
I really don't want to! 😢
But I've been in love with him since 2013, questioning if I will ever love someone else so deeply as him
*light smack* girl, get it together! there will always be someone else.
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Yes I need a big reality smack
Thank you🙂
They play stupid games like that. I had one have his friend call me and hit on me to see if I would take the bate. When I told his friend to fuck off, 2 days later the Scorpio called and said I pasted his test. WTF! So yeah, he probably had his friend call to see if you would get chummy with him. It's a test.
Kinda feel this happened also with me a long time ago. I just ignored it, really lame
What did say to Scorpio? And after? Are you with the Scorpio?
Oh God no! That was a long time ago. I'm married now. I pretended I didn't know what he was talking about to make myself look even better. The dick was so good I didn't want to lose it at the time.
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That is a great move!
One time I didn't reply to him for an evening because I was just in my feels and didn't want to talk to anyone
Next day we talked and he had a "hunch" I was with someone else that evening
I couldn't even be bothered to correct it cause he will base his assumptions as fact anyway
May I know your Scorpio placements please?
My Scorpio man came back yesterday after 8/9 months. When he said he never wanted to talk to me anymore he regretted it and thought it was really stupid of him. He has been thinking for a long time to apologize, but couldn t find the words and then wasn t bothered anymore because he knew I didnt trust him and didnt want to waste my time. I only do not trust him for doing the right thing, but else I do trust him
I asked him if he doesnt think he is selfish, at first he said he didnt think hes selfish, then he was asking me for examples. I told him I could give him a whole list but that he would not agree with me anyway.
Eventually I said that when people invest time, energy and effort in him he ought to explain himself if something happens.
It was the first time ever he realized and acknowledged that he didnt care about how his actions effect people, and is going to reflect on it more for the people he cares about
He did ask his friends about me a while ago, and told me he has a cold relation with them now
How to go from here ? I have a bit of trust issues and he turned his back on me. i feel the bad is overlapping the good, and im not sure if he will be considerate of me in the future.
What do I look for now? How can i be sure of him as a friend and lover, but mostly as a friend first
I was ready to let him go for good and now hes here 😢
sit back and let him put in the effort if he wants to be with you. be honest about your reservations. try to reconnect and regain that trust.
sit back and let him put in the effort if he wants to be with you. be honest about your reservations. try to reconnect and regain that trust.
he kept asking if he should clarify more things and i said its all good now. but actually i slept on it and there are more things id like to know.
do i wait for him to make the effort and ask then or shall i contact him and ask it so i know where we stand with it all
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Hi I'm new and need some help please🙂
Why would a Scorpio guy say he doesn't want to talk to you anymore and then asking his best friend to call me and ask me how I'm doing?
Long story short:
We met a long time ago and has been a lover (not a bf/partner, but we've been talking about a future) and have kept in touch since until half year ago.
Fall out was basically him compromising my ethics by not taking responsibility for his actions towards his family/friends.
He got pissed at me because I wanted to choose what is right and then he ghosted??
Now one his best friends called me a few days ago "just" to ask how I'm doing etc..(we didn't talk about the Scorpio). He never ever called me in the 10 years I've known him, only texts. So I have a strong feeling Scorpio is behind that.
So what is this?
Any thoughts? Do I wait? Move on?
I tried to call him a half year ago and nothing... so I don't really want to hobble my ass over him.
It's happened before he just keeps spiraling in his own drama kind of.
Not sure if I'm making any sense. Sorry I feel weird, confused and sad