A Taurus guy and 2 Scorpio women problem.

Hi everyone.

I am a Taurus, and I am in a deep S. guys, everything that have been mentioned about the Scorpio woman and Taurus man is totally true, every word of it, it is the perfect relation especially when you have been through a lot together.

I have a huge problem now. We are married now for 6 years and we have 2 amazing kids, and we do still in love and she is also my best friend, and nothing wrong at all about our sexual life, it is so perfect.

Few days back I met another girl, we liked each other a lot. She knows that I am married, she is younger than me. Although all that, we just get going. We kissed for hours, and we made an amazing love.

This is exactly step by step the same that happen between me and my Scorpio beloved wife 6 years back, the exact same story when it comes to feelings and passion. The only difference is that I pulled out my wife through a huge battle, and she stood behind my back and supported me to face all these problems. But for the new story, we still have nothing to fight for, or even a common battle.

I found out that the new girl is also a Scorpio and there I get to know the reason of that huge attraction and passion.

As I told you my wife is my best friend, and also she knows that I am a womanizer, and I always tell her what I am doing. I told her about that girl, and she simply ask me "Have you fallen in love with her darling", and I replied "Love is not an easy thing to fall in that easy, do you think I can?"
She replied me "Love is love honey; no one can do anything about it".

Honestly, with her words she made me stronger, and for some extent she brought me back to neutrality.
But, I am still thinking of that girl day and night, and also she do. Yes, she is more cautious and hesitating than me, but I don't know, we can't run away. Every time I try to ignore that feeling, I found her calling. And Every time she tries to avoid me, I find myself calling her.
I really don't know is that love or not. I do love my wife, but I am still attracted to that girl so much.
When we are together we feel like knowing each other for a very long time, we are relax most of the time, we just get nervous when we think about tomorrow.

Can I marry both? Will that hurt my wife? Can they adapt that?
Please guys, Judge me, curse me, and say whatever you want, but please tell me what to do.
I can't sleep, and I feel like crying all the time, but tears can't be shed.
Tito

thanks a lot exoskeleton, for real.

Hell hath no fury like a pissed off Scorpio!

by the way exoskeleton, I wanna be with my wife only.
Thanks again

Posted by exoskeleton
idk if you'll even read this since surely your scorp wife is plotting your demise right now, but here goes:

grow the fuck up and decide who you wanna be with.

your fucking around is selfish and not fair to either of them.

and marry both? lol, 4real? i can't imagine any scorp woman would be down with that.

good luck.

What she said!

I don't care if a Scorpio gets pissed off, I just don't want to hurt my wife cuz we do love each other and we have been through a lot together.
I was just a true A.H. and selfish when I got myself into that new relation.

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Posted by exoskeleton
idk if you'll even read this since surely your scorp wife is plotting your demise right now, but here goes:

grow the fuck up and decide who you wanna be with.

your fucking around is selfish and not fair to either of them.

and marry both? lol, 4real? i can't imagine any scorp woman would be down with that.

good luck.

What she said!

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She just slap my face back to reality, and I needed that.

Trust and loyalty are 2 of the most important things to a Scorpio. You just crushed that for her. It feels like death to us. She's either gonna be very depressed over this or seek revenge or both. You can expect a reaction of sort!

Don't be surprised BikerCh1ck. I have asked myself all those questions. and I just needed some one to hit me strongly to wake me up.
I agree with every word you have said, and Yes, what you have suggested is the ideal solution for an A.H. like me but I am not going to do it. Because I do love my wife, and no one in this world will fill any tiny needle open (not even a gap) that she leave behind.

Thanks BikerCh1ck for your advice

Posted by Greggo
Trust and loyalty are 2 of the most important things to a Scorpio. You just crushed that for her. It feels like death to us. She's either gonna be very depressed over this or seek revenge or both. You can expect a reaction of sort!

Thanks for your advice Greggo, and don't worry, everything will be ok, We have been through a lot more than this together and we will pass this as well. It was only me who needed to get spanked at the moment.

Yes, now I know Kalin. I knew it when the fellows here face me with reality.
So, thanks Kalin, and thank you all

Does your wife fuck other men?
You seem to have a open marriage.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Does your wife fuck other men?
You seem to have a open marriage.

lol, no she is not. she is way better than I am.

is anyone else not buying this?

You are giving a very bad impression on us Taurean. Watch out for their long lasting revenge.. She won't show it now but she will slowwwlyyy burn you down into pieces before you even realised. It is not too late to make things right again.. Appreciate your wife.. Your forever best friend who you can grow old with... Rely on ... Speak about anything to.... Ask yourself if it's worth it ?!?! Think about it.. Taurus is better than that !!!! Sorry I'm so angry !!!!!

Posted by CreepyPants
is anyone else not buying this?

No. Which is why I am not wasting my time.

From two to nought, 101....

Posted by SunTauVenGem
You are giving a very bad impression on us Taurean. Watch out for their long lasting revenge.. She won't show it now but she will slowwwlyyy burn you down into pieces before you even realised. It is not too late to make things right again.. Appreciate your wife.. Your forever best friend who you can grow old with... Rely on ... Speak about anything to.... Ask yourself if it's worth it ?!?! Think about it.. Taurus is better than that !!!! Sorry I'm so angry !!!!!

I do appreciate your anger SunTau, and don't worry guys, I already have made up my mind, or in other words you made me realize what I am putting on the stalk here.
The story is over now, at least from my side. and my wife will never revenge as you all claim, cuz we have more than just marriage here, we have a true friendship, long history, and huge plans, and the bottom line here is that, We Never Give Up On One Another.

Thank you all guys

Posted by MilkySoft
This is bullshit. You've only known some new girl for a couple DAYS and you feel conflicted about whether or not you want to be with her or the woman you made vows to, have 2 kids with and has been by your side for 6 years? Think of your kids for gods sake.

I think you're a troll, or the most selfish, foolish, stupid ass.

Probably a troll.

I agree with you Milky, but this selfishness has to stop now.

Posted by scorpintensepassion
i feel bad for your wife..
my scorp sun is hoping she has enough selfrespect to sting the fuck out of you

but a part of me understands that lust can be a tricky thing that messes with your mind, especially since you've been in a relationship for a long time and well, you're a man

Maybe you can try to figure out what the other scorp has to offer more than what is currently missing in your relationship, and try to work it out.

Posted by seniormontana

Can I marry both? Will that hurt my wife? Can they adapt that?

i was thinking it would be nice to have a room with several doors that led to different parrallel universes that would show you the different outcomes of the decisions you make. Where you can just decide to go through this door today and the other tomorrow.. aaah love..

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Thanks scorpintensepassion, I don't need to think of whatever any other one in this world might offer me, cause they will offer notion compared to what my wife offered. And I will never allow anyone no matter how strong I feel toward to take anything that belongs to my wife from now on.
I am her's and she is my life. And I was not myself specially that my wife is not with me at the moment but she is coming back.
by the way, I never told her that I have cheated on her, I just told here that I was attracted to that girl.

Thanks again

Keep your hair down Aguardiente. Yes my English is broken, but you don't need to be angry because of a selfish troll like me. Anyways, the storm inside me has settled down, and sure it is because I have got beaten by all of you guys here.
and everything will be ok 😉

Posted by ellessque
she's doesn't know you are sleeping with other women?

you neglected to share that to the end. you made it sound like she was okay with it, as if you were in an open relationship.

you are asking for trouble, mr. bullpin

can we see your chart...I have a funny feeling you are probably going to do it again and again and again...........

is that really fair?

if you can't be faithful, why get married? It's really that simple. Save people some grief, while doing you....everyone wins.

That was a mistake, and it has to stop now.
I will do whatever I can to be faithful, not because I want to be better, It's because she deserve to be faithful to.

Posted by ellessque
meh, I don't believe you. You are only trying to convince yourself and you sound a bit douche when you do that.

next pair of boobs that walk by that are a different shape, you'll be all over it.

chart!

Ok guys, you are not helping here (sure not all of you) but maybe you might understand me better if you read my chart.
I was born on 27 April 1976, 4:30am, Cairo, Egypt
I am reading my chart now and thanks to ellessque to bring that to my mind.

Posted by seniormontana
Hi everyone.

I am a Taurus, and I am in a deep S.

You do not sound like someone even in a wee bit of S.

Posted by seniormontana
Hi everyone.

As I told you my wife is my best friend, and also she knows that I am a womanizer, and I always tell her what I am doing.

I don't buy this.

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Taurus 6.57 Ascendant Aries 9.47
Moon Aries 11.30 II Taurus 15.52
Mercury Taurus 27.19 III Gemini 12.47
Venus Aries 23.03 IV Cancer 6.08
Mars Cancer 19.26 V Leo 0.22
Jupiter Taurus 7.29 VI Virgo 0.03
Saturn Cancer 26.51 VII Libra 9.47
Uranus Scorpio 5.02 R VIII Scorpio 15.52
Neptune Sagittarius 13.31 R IX Sagittarius 12.47
Pluto Libra 9.39 R Midheaven Capricorn 6.08
Lilith Aries 19.47 XI Aquarius 0.22
Asc node Scorpio 12.39 XII Pisces 0.03

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 0.32 568
Sun Opposition Uranus 1.55 -205
Sun Trine Midheaven 0.48 90
Moon Trine Neptune 2.01 82
Moon Opposition Pluto 1.51 -159
Moon Conjunction Ascendant 1.43 298
Moon Square Midheaven 5.21 -10
Mercury Sextile Saturn 0.28 149
Venus Square Mars 3.37 -18
Venus Square Saturn 3.48 -20
Mars Conjunction Saturn 7.25 11
Jupiter Opposition Uranus 2.27 -116
Jupiter Trine Midheaven 1.21 42
Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.07 43
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3.52 2
Neptune Trine Ascendant 3.44 11
Pluto Opposition Ascendant 0.08 -20
Pluto Square Midheaven 3.30 -4
1296 -552 744

27th April 1976, 4:30am, Cairo Egypt.
And I am not trying anything here, this is the first time I read my own charts or any charts.

Posted by Neurotoxin
Whoa whoa whoa...hold up!

You mean they make boobs in more than just one shape—

lOl that had me in stitches! ^_^

I doubt u came here for real insight. sounds like u wanted validation on what u already know *jerk alert* but that being said u will still carry on doing whatever ur doing unless u truly want to change.

Those who dont listen, feel.
and unfortunately that goes for everyone, hence s*itty experiences.

Posted by ellessque
I knew a taurus man with a chart like yours once. Except his mars was in libra. Casual friend over the years. He was married, had a couple kids. Put on the front his wife was his world.

Came across him on facebook awhile back thru a mutual friend. Messaged him and asked him how he was doing and to tell his wife hello for me. He told me they got divorced. She found him cheating. Kicked him out. He lost custody of the kids and ended up moving back to his native country to start all over again, in his late 40's.

I offered some supportive words..."keep your head up"...."It will be okay"....blah blah blah......

he then proceeded to message me again.....

This time to confess his undying love for me that had been unrequited for years. how he dreamed about me every night and that my eyes were like pools of oceans he'd like to swim in. Plus alot of other vulgar sexually explicit shit that I won't repeat.

I messaged him back and told him to go pound sand.

You know you are a womanizer, you shared that with us. You also know you are impulsive.

At some point you are going to need to choose your wife.....or to be a reckless playboy.

Either life would probably be fulfilling, but you certainly aren't going to be able to maintain both for very long and you owe it to your wife to make whichever decision works best for you.

In this kind of situation (scorpio/taurus) you really don't want to get caught with your pants down. It can get rather nasty. She's your best friend now, wait until she finds out the number of times you betrayed her because of your carelessly selfish whims.

I found myself agreeing with u 4 once 🙂

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Nah. He should get out now. Make sure you take care of your wife and kids. Your wife deserves that. Leave her alone for your own sake.

One simply does not put his penis in another woman when you are in a committed relationship with a Scorpio woman. This is a no go. You will be shut down and only realize it when she leaves you for a better man who truly loves her. Your days are numbered, Hun.

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no worries, tito. hope everything works out.

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Nice work Exo 😛

Honestly... This is ridiculous. You are a bad person, I'm tempted to call you a Taurus Turd but that is unfair alliteration to all the other lovely Tau's on here. If you ever marginally loved your wife and want her to be happy in the future own up to your douchebaggery, and leave her to allow her to find someone who can truly cherish her if you can't keep it in your pants!
That you have obviously cheated on her several times is way uncool... Your poor wife and children- I certainly hope they never learn your way of treating women.

🙂

Posted by ellessque
I knew a taurus man with a chart like yours once. Except his mars was in libra. Casual friend over the years. He was married, had a couple kids. Put on the front his wife was his world.

Came across him on facebook awhile back thru a mutual friend. Messaged him and asked him how he was doing and to tell his wife hello for me. He told me they got divorced. She found him cheating. Kicked him out. He lost custody of the kids and ended up moving back to his native country to start all over again, in his late 40's.

I offered some supportive words..."keep your head up"...."It will be okay"....blah blah blah......

he then proceeded to message me again.....

This time to confess his undying love for me that had been unrequited for years. how he dreamed about me every night and that my eyes were like pools of oceans he'd like to swim in. Plus alot of other vulgar sexually explicit shit that I won't repeat.

I messaged him back and told him to go pound sand.

You know you are a womanizer, you shared that with us. You also know you are impulsive.

At some point you are going to need to choose your wife.....or to be a reckless playboy.

Either life would probably be fulfilling, but you certainly aren't going to be able to maintain both for very long and you owe it to your wife to make whichever decision works best for you.

In this kind of situation (scorpio/taurus) you really don't want to get caught with your pants down. It can get rather nasty. She's your best friend now, wait until she finds out the number of times you betrayed her because of your carelessly selfish whims.

Thanks for the advice, I already have chosen My wife over my selfish playboy. and to get over that dirty part of me, I have some plans to start keeping my self busy with it. Thanks again

Posted by Impulsv
Your wife is a wise woman. She understands what true unconditional love is. Her question if u loved ur lover was a statement that she understand that love could never be possessed. not that she is condoning the behavior but she saying she ready to let u go if her is not what u want. despite the pain of having to so that she understand what most of us dont. love is free n u will set it free. Not that she accepts infidelity or will shr not be hurt by it.

Thanks a lot dear Impulsv, Yes you are absolutely right, and you bough back to my mind other situations that she was wise but also hurt, and I am really sorry about those moments. I have to make it up for her.
Thanks again, truly

Dear all fellows in here,
Thanks a lot for all what you said, ALL OF IT. Either you advice or curse or judge or didn't believe, this all came out with one result. that is all this is wrong.

I am going to get back to my life, spending the time keeping my self busy with work until my beloved wife and kids come back home (they are visiting family only for a month now). I think i have to make it up for her.

Sure I gonna need your advice later guys, but sure not in something emotional or related to love, but mostly about some other decisions, mostly business decisions.

However, Thanks again. And this is my last post here for this topic, since I already blocked that door.

Cheers guys and gals

Hi Dear Fellows,
I am not re-opening the topic, I am just want to tell all those who truly care and help me about the new beginning.
After my beloved wife and you guys helped me to make up my mind, I decided to openly speak to the other scorpion about our lust and that we can't do it anymore. The surprise was that she totally agreed with me and that was such a huge relief for both of us, as if an unbelievable burden have been left. We agreed to be friends when we need to talk, and since that meeting we are having so nice phone conversations joking and laughing, we spend one night together with our friends in a bar and it was such an amazing nigh, we blended in get to know each other friends and it was real fun without any emotional conflicts or anything, and its so cool now.
With regard to my beloved wife, few days back our son got really sick and I had to travel back home to be with them, he got better the same day I arrived, and give me the chance for me and my wife to spend some time together.
One of my wife dreams was that we drink together (because she stopped drinking when she was pregnant with our elder daughter 6 years back). So, we left the kids with my wife parents, and go out with her younger sister and brother. We drink together, we laugh together we dance together and it was amazingly awesome, and you know for sure how that night ends 😉 it was also amazing 😉
I told her about the confront with the other girl she feel blended happiness and sorrow at the same time, and she told me that it's her fault that she stayed away from me for such long time, and I replied her that she should never ever try to justify a selfish stupid mistake of mine by holding herself part of the responsibility, when I told her that she was so happy and no more pain was there.
the next couple of days was also amazing, we had so much fun together and with the kids as well.
I came back to work, and they will follow me in 3 weeks, and everyday we keep texting and chatting like a boyfriend and girlfriend and it's so sweet to have this refreshment of our relation again.
with respect to the other scorp girl, as I told you we are definitely not in lust anymore neither close friends as well but we like to text every couple of days or something.
Thanks again fellows, I am so happy and stable now, and I really wish that all of you to have such amazing relation with your partners like me and my wife -The love of my life and my shield-