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Affair with a Scorpio
*Stares* You're joking right? Going into the lair of a Scorpio while attached? Someone will get hurt and it's not going to be them it will be you. Just a fair warning. Doesn't really matter what sign someone is, the fact is that she is off the market. If she wants to do that hand her a card from an attorney and tell her to get her ass divorced. Why can't she leave him if she's miserable? Hum maybe because she wants her cake and to eat it too. Awe poor her she doesn't get any attention poor me the victim!
Oh wait LET ME GUESS probably cause she doesn't work and sits on her fat ass all day long and whines about her husband working while he brings home the money. Cry me a damn river. Guess what even if she does work hell get a hobby. And FUCKING isn't a hobby. Am I the only one that gets pissed off at this shit?
Oh wait LET ME GUESS probably cause she doesn't work and sits on her fat ass all day long and whines about her husband working while he brings home the money. Cry me a damn river. Guess what even if she does work hell get a hobby. And FUCKING isn't a hobby. Am I the only one that gets pissed off at this shit?
@Ever
Thank you for giving me your blessing, your majesty. *Laughs* Would you prefer me to curtsy now or later? *Muwahahaa*
Thank you for giving me your blessing, your majesty. *Laughs* Would you prefer me to curtsy now or later? *Muwahahaa*
+1 Xin. 🙂
Is it worth being the vehicle to aid in someone cheating? The answer is 'No'. Followed by 'Where the hell is your head out for even asking such a thing?' *cuffing back of head*
Posted by Xin
*Stares* You're joking right? Going into the lair of a Scorpio while attached? Someone will get hurt and it's not going to be them it will be you. Just a fair warning. Doesn't really matter what sign someone is, the fact is that she is off the market. If she wants to do that hand her a card from an attorney and tell her to get her ass divorced. Why can't she leave him if she's miserable? Hum maybe because she wants her cake and to eat it too. Awe poor her she doesn't get any attention poor me the victim!
Oh wait LET ME GUESS probably cause she doesn't work and sits on her fat ass all day long and whines about her husband working while he brings home the money. Cry me a damn river. Guess what even if she does work hell get a hobby. And FUCKING isn't a hobby. Am I the only one that gets pissed off at this shit?
you hit the nail on the head. that is proper trashy behaviour. ewww.
i had a similar thing when 'approached' by a scorp guy at work who is in a relationship. when he came on to me, he went from being very hot to hideously ugly in a nano second. these kind of people are USERS. anyone who gets sucked in by them deserves everything they get imo.
Well, I just want to have a good time honestly. You guys are right, it's just plain bad to be with someone who is already taken. I've never been with a married woman and it made me really curious with this proposition. Which is why I figured I'd ask, ya know. I've had f**k buddies in the past, and know how to distance my feelings from sex...just never with someone who was already in a relationship.
@elle I am worth more than being a dirty little secret, but at the same time, I've never been a secret, so it's tickling my curiosity. Can I keep a secret? Absolutely =)
@elle I am worth more than being a dirty little secret, but at the same time, I've never been a secret, so it's tickling my curiosity. Can I keep a secret? Absolutely =)
Posted by DeadRingerr
People do it all the time,,,,Facebook is crawling with cheating husbands and wives, thats why I deleted my account. Facebook is for unhappily married people looking for a cheap thrill. Its no place for a single woman!!
Oh my gaw! This is what I've been saying forever! First it was Myspace, now its Facebook. I swear that application ruins so many relationships it's not even funny.
Facebook is definitely full of all sorts of people, and it makes it way easier to keep in touch with distant friends and family. For cheaters though, it's way too open and lets everyone in your business; that's not good for cheating.
@elle Yeah, the threesome idea would be way more ethical/morally sound, but I don't think this woman really sleeps with him anymore. Haha, not to mention, he's not exactly my "type" =p
@dead there's nothing worse than a cheater, and divorce definitely sucks, but it's not for me to decide what is the best way to leave a partner. Should I be a part of it? probably not, might end up really really bad..like shotgun-kind-of-bad. maybe that's why it's so intriguing though?
@venus haha no, I guess my head isn't in the right place =)
@elle Yeah, the threesome idea would be way more ethical/morally sound, but I don't think this woman really sleeps with him anymore. Haha, not to mention, he's not exactly my "type" =p
@dead there's nothing worse than a cheater, and divorce definitely sucks, but it's not for me to decide what is the best way to leave a partner. Should I be a part of it? probably not, might end up really really bad..like shotgun-kind-of-bad. maybe that's why it's so intriguing though?
@venus haha no, I guess my head isn't in the right place =)
Alright Bullyboy. Why would you want to get in such a messy situation when there's loads of scorp femmes who are drawn to you magnetically? Smh.
Posted by DeadRingerr
People do it all the time,,,,Facebook is crawling with cheating husbands and wives, thats why I deleted my account. Facebook is for unhappily married people looking for a cheap thrill. Its no place for a single woman!!
i'm single and on facebook. i've never been approached by anyone looking for a cheap thrill on there.
must be doing something wrong! 😛
if it's just sex you want, i don't see the problem really. after all, that's all you're gonna be getting from her and why should you take responsibility for her lack of morality.
Don't do it..!
I'm a married Scorpio woman whose husband all but abandoned our marriage for two years for his "mistress", a video game, spending 40-50 hours a week in front of the TV, playing and chatting. (And we are in our 40's for goodness sakes... not teenagers). Despite my trying, we didn't have sex for two years and he was violent and aggressive as well. It was a mess.
We had only been married three years at the time - I should have divorced him but I didn't. I live in France as was dependent on my marital status to say here. I met someone by chance, I wasn't looking for anyone - but was susceptible to his charm and willingly started an affair. This unleashed a tidal wave inside of me - I had been missing sex in my life - and I met a man (another Scoprio) when I placed a "no strings" ad on a sex site. He was single and we started a torrid sex-only affair (as only two Scorpios can). He was very dominant to my very submissive and I was completely and utterly hooked.
The reason I am opening up this information, which I imagine will be met with some disdain (cheaters aren't lovely people) is that I constantly lied to my lover as to the reality of my marriage (and what I wanted from him). I said I wanted "sex only" (even though) I was developing feelings for him) leading him to say he wanted "sex only" - because neither of us wants to be the ones showing our feelings. I lied about the state of my marriage - saying I was separated, when I wasn't. Even at points saying I was going to be divorced in a few weeks, which was a total lie!
Then I would stop our relationship to say I was going to "work on my marriage", but I would be back to him in a few days. This woman will tell you what you want to hear to keep you with her. Even though his words were to the contrary, his actions and reactions showed that this was not easy for him. You can't NOT develop feelings during an intense long-term sexual relationship and it doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman.
You said that you have had f*ck buddy relationships before and that you are good at distancing your feelings - what that says to me is that distancing your feelings is not a natural state - it's something you have to work at. Just you writing about here says a lot about you. I used to think that men could separate sex and feelings but after spending the last year looking at different forums (pick-up forums, relationship forums, etc) they feel just as deeply as women.
I'm a married Scorpio woman whose husband all but abandoned our marriage for two years for his "mistress", a video game, spending 40-50 hours a week in front of the TV, playing and chatting. (And we are in our 40's for goodness sakes... not teenagers). Despite my trying, we didn't have sex for two years and he was violent and aggressive as well. It was a mess.
We had only been married three years at the time - I should have divorced him but I didn't. I live in France as was dependent on my marital status to say here. I met someone by chance, I wasn't looking for anyone - but was susceptible to his charm and willingly started an affair. This unleashed a tidal wave inside of me - I had been missing sex in my life - and I met a man (another Scoprio) when I placed a "no strings" ad on a sex site. He was single and we started a torrid sex-only affair (as only two Scorpios can). He was very dominant to my very submissive and I was completely and utterly hooked.
The reason I am opening up this information, which I imagine will be met with some disdain (cheaters aren't lovely people) is that I constantly lied to my lover as to the reality of my marriage (and what I wanted from him). I said I wanted "sex only" (even though) I was developing feelings for him) leading him to say he wanted "sex only" - because neither of us wants to be the ones showing our feelings. I lied about the state of my marriage - saying I was separated, when I wasn't. Even at points saying I was going to be divorced in a few weeks, which was a total lie!
Then I would stop our relationship to say I was going to "work on my marriage", but I would be back to him in a few days. This woman will tell you what you want to hear to keep you with her. Even though his words were to the contrary, his actions and reactions showed that this was not easy for him. You can't NOT develop feelings during an intense long-term sexual relationship and it doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman.
You said that you have had f*ck buddy relationships before and that you are good at distancing your feelings - what that says to me is that distancing your feelings is not a natural state - it's something you have to work at. Just you writing about here says a lot about you. I used to think that men could separate sex and feelings but after spending the last year looking at different forums (pick-up forums, relationship forums, etc) they feel just as deeply as women.
(Part II, as I am quite long-winded)
I finally (begrudgingly) ended it with my lover, told my husband about the affairs, that I wanted a divorce and I'm dealing with the aftermath of what I created by this affair - developing feelings for a man I couldn't have and disrespecting my marriage.
You can do what you want with this woman, but even putting morality aside, being involved with a married person is just opening you up for a world of hurt. They are not going to be honest, they are going to flip-flop staying and going and it's going to add a huge level of complication that could have been avoided had you chosen an unattached woman. It's just not worth it.
My two centimes.
I finally (begrudgingly) ended it with my lover, told my husband about the affairs, that I wanted a divorce and I'm dealing with the aftermath of what I created by this affair - developing feelings for a man I couldn't have and disrespecting my marriage.
You can do what you want with this woman, but even putting morality aside, being involved with a married person is just opening you up for a world of hurt. They are not going to be honest, they are going to flip-flop staying and going and it's going to add a huge level of complication that could have been avoided had you chosen an unattached woman. It's just not worth it.
My two centimes.
moimeme: i'm also a former cheat and it was for similar reasons...a loveless marriage. i never 'fessed up though as it was the years prior to us getting married and having kids that i cheated. i never developed feelings for any other man during that time however. it was only when i was married and on the 'straight and narrow' fidelity wise that i realised it had been my cheating that kept me with my ex-husband before we got married. it made being with him 'bearable' and then when we had kids, it was my kids who made life with him 'bearable'. both scenarios totally wrong...hence the divorce which was ultimately cos he wound up cheating on me. karma always wins.
i do agree with you about the lying and how easily the lies trip off your tongue to your partner and whoever you are cheating with. it's just a mindless game really...with inevitably messy results.
i do agree with you about the lying and how easily the lies trip off your tongue to your partner and whoever you are cheating with. it's just a mindless game really...with inevitably messy results.
Thanks for all of the input everyone (especially to moimeme), I've decided anything with this woman is just a really bad idea. After talking to her in more intimate settings, taking it to the sex-level would have just been all sorts of BAD! Now I have to figure a way to get rid of her. Apparently she was feeling that creepy love-at-first sight thing on me and yeah, THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'M GETTING INVOLVED IN THAT! Any suggestions? =D
^ not nice! =p
you're sure you don't have any? 😉
Posted by ellessque
you remind me of my brother, btw.
taur with a cancer moon.
in a good way, I hope 🙂
Posted by EllybeanPosted by eyeofthebullPosted by Ellybean
Cancer moon is so awful.
Seriously.
ah, it's not so bad 🙂
You're a Taur with an Air Venus, I bet it's awesome for you. 😛 All that stability and detachment. No fair.click to expand
hey hey now, you've got an awesome chart too *ahem* cancer moon 😉
Awh, I appreciate your sarcasm it's the best form of honesty! =)
And yes, I think I will have to hurt her ego a bit, I just really hate doing that to people. I always want to make them feel good about themselves, and even if that means omitting truth a little. As for witness protection, hmm...I have yet to see a Scorpio woman that I can't handle 😉
And yes, I think I will have to hurt her ego a bit, I just really hate doing that to people. I always want to make them feel good about themselves, and even if that means omitting truth a little. As for witness protection, hmm...I have yet to see a Scorpio woman that I can't handle 😉
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