The Scorpio stare

Can someone please spell this out to me what its about. And trust me I've had a bad run with men of a late so I'm trying to us my common sense here with this guy.

This scorpio stares at me, hangs around me when he's on the phone, stands in front of me whilst talking on the phone and stares at me, I merely keep my head down at the my desk or stare at my computer but in my side vision I can see him there, facing me just staring.

He makes a bee line for me most days to talk about things I've already covered with him and stares.

The kicker is he is all of 32 and I'm older to the tune of 7yrs his senior, which at the end of the day its only a number, but what is he's deal?

I was teasing him on yesterday because there is a girl where we work who has a crush on him and he knows and blurted this information out to me and other stuff about him that I've just nodded at and moved on.

He's a good looking guy and yes when he's not looking I've checked him out from top to toe on several occasions 🙂

Is this a typical scorpio thing or have I just stumbled across another kreepy guy?

Yes I've checked him out, but I won't stare him down or anything, mine are just casual glances, his are full on stares.

He is so into you. When they stare it's because they want you.

So the age factor doesn't phase me, but how should I be playing this out, so far its we have been fun and playful all barring the staring malarky, but we do work together, so that is going to play into it alot.

In our random conversations he's asked if I have any nicknames and he's ideal women are the confident ones yadda yadda.

Thoughts—??

How do you get the staring to stop because he's not hiding it too well.

Well do you want to date your coworker?
Yes, they always say the same thing: you have to be smart, confident, strong and can keep a secret. otherwise, you get ignored pretty fast!!
Well, I don't think the staring will stop anytime soon. He's now on fire. The game is on! So, my advice to you would be to either play along and have fun while it lasts, or ignore his stares completely. It's up to you if you wanna date the coworker or not.

I think for now I'm just going to see how this pans out, I've kept everyone of his secrets he's told me, and it's told me a few.

He's a private person like I am, so for the whole co-worker thing again I'll see how we pan out first.

This could be all very harmless, its just the stares that really out there at the moment.

Yep, have fun now. You never know what lies ahead 🙂
I don't think that asking him not to stare would be a good thing!!! Let him stare and play it cool 😄 Some nice attention won't hurt, you know 🙂
what's your sign by the way?

Posted by loulou

Yep, have fun now. You never know what lies ahead 🙂
I don't think that asking him not to stare would be a good thing!!! Let him stare and play it cool 😄 Some nice attention won't hurt, you know 🙂
what's your sign by the way?

I'm a Libra. So for me I'm doing the weighing up the pro's and con's.

Posted by Let*It*Be
"How do you get the staring to stop because he's not hiding it too well."

^^lol...wait until he gets you in bed. It doesn't stop..

LOL I'll take your word for it.

Posted by Rockthenerds
he's just showing interest, He's probably wondering if you're like minded. I'd play along but make it fun for him if you're into him.

So just keep doing what were doing now, taking the mickey out of one another and in general playing. Well thats easy.

I'm into him so I'll see where this goes.

lol @ the vast age gap of 7 years!! a scorp giving me the stare (pointlessly as he's attached) is 18 years younger than me. guys just don't see it for some reason...not when they want a piece of your ass they don't. for something more serious, i don't think such huge age gaps work but 7 years won't make much difference in your case...at least you're the same generation.

He does have something and yes I giggled we are in the same generation.

just going to roll with it, I think it's just harmeless flirting from both of us to be honest.

anyhoo we'll see how it goes.

Posted by Dominooo
He is intrigued by you. That doesn't mean he likes you but might be interested. I had the same run in. don't take much notice of it unless he is a stalker.

LOL all I need is another randomly kreepy guy around me. He can be intrigued without the steely stares.

Just going to roll with it now.

Ooh lap up those stares! I love them. I've been known to give death stares in return to men who exhibit that behavior with me in the past, but with my scorp friend, all time and space disappears.

Posted by Dominooo
He is intrigued by you. That doesn't mean he likes you but might be interested. I had the same run in. don't take much notice of it unless he is a stalker.

He's definately not a stalker, but I think merely intrigued by me because I have zero tolerance of bulltwang at our place of work at the moment and we are each others sounding boards.

Plus I said to him as a joke that the "blue rinse" crowd thinks he's such a good guy and one had her eye on him and if she was 30yrs younger she'd have a crack, his response was "ewww that would make her near the 40 age, yuck" I'm nearing 40 so he's definately not intersted in me with the age difference....

But good to know now, now we just have to endure together the train wreck that is about to happen at our work place through one person.

Dear fellow Libra Hails , do whatever you can to keep that creepy-crawly bottom-feeding slimy Scorpio away from you ! You will live a much happier life in the end !

Posted by libragemmale
Dear fellow Libra Hails , do whatever you can to keep that creepy-crawly bottom-feeding slimy Scorpio away from you ! You will live a much happier life in the end !

Have you been stung by the Scorpio sting, dear libragemmale? Or perhaps you've come across many unevolved ones...theu hurt...I know myself that I am far too young to have fully evolved yet; into the Phoenix (some say Eagle). Scorpios are an emotional mess at first, but once evolved they are wonderful people! Especially if you're looking for someone who can keep committed to you. If you're not (you being an Air sign and all - the free spirits), that's fine, too. Friendship works. But if you wanna keep that grudge, I can't stop you...lol
Then again, I know Librans and Scorpios aren't very compatible because Librans rather dislike the harsher traits that a Scorpio possesses...they're generally the peace keepers, right? 🙂

they* damn typos.

Sorry Scorp I may have sounded off a bit there , truth is I have met and grown to love many 'Golden Eagle' type Scorpios, they are amazing people !! However , Ive noticed over the years some (especially a few males) to be quite jealous and even hateful of me and their rage has surfaced out of nowhere (so yes that would be considered a sting) But I have Scorpio in my Mercury and I fight back Fiercely ! . I am now more tuned into Scorps. and I would rather not deal with the dark ones. I love and thrive on peace and love .

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You're the one checking him out from tip to toe ?🙂

word

Posted by Hails26
So the age factor doesn't phase me, but how should I be playing this out, so far its we have been fun and playful all barring the staring malarky, but we do work together, so that is going to play into it alot.

In our random conversations he's asked if I have any nicknames and he's ideal women are the confident ones yadda yadda.

Thoughts—??

How do you get the staring to stop because he's not hiding it too well.

you never want him to stop staring. if he stops staring, its because someone else has caught his gaze.

Posted by Rockthenerds
he's just showing interest, He's probably wondering if you're like minded. I'd play along but make it fun for him if you're into him.

haha exactly. stare right back at him and then walk up and grab him, take him into the broom closet and rock his world.

Posted by ellessque
this thread reminds me of the song "You're so Vain".

...."you probably think that stare is about you, about you, about youuuuuuuuuuuuuuu"

I'm at work, or i'd embed it.

a scorpio stare, is a stare, is a stare. i stare at people and aren't even looking at them. if that makes any sense at all.

lol, could it be the cutie pie sitting behind her!!!

Posted by DMV

Posted by Rockthenerds
he's just showing interest, He's probably wondering if you're like minded. I'd play along but make it fun for him if you're into him.

haha exactly. stare right back at him and then walk up and grab him, take him into the broom closet and rock his world.

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LOL well the Libra in me makes a little bit too shy to rock his world in a broom closet, but I have been staring back thats for sure.

Well this is interesting, I won a free reading via facebook, long story short it was a pschyic reading for 20mins.

She described Mr Scorpio down to a tee, from hair eyes and mood and I asked why he stares all the time at me and she said he is extemely interested but getting to know what I'm about.

She felt he had trust issues and to take it very, very slowly, which is good because thats my Libra pace most days lol.

Here's the spooky part, his name initials starts with the same initials that I thought was my Pisces whom I thought was the love of my life, she stated that I had the right initials but the wrong person and I had to wait for the person with those initials to come along because that person is my soul mate.....frwwwwweeeeky.

She also advised me that my Scorpio has dated older women and his ex-girlfriend either started with my name or something that sounded close to it and I know remember that he told me he won't forget my name because it was is old girlfriends name...coincidence—?

So slow pace here we come, the reader advised me to open up to him a little bit more to build the trust, we'll see how that one pans out.

I'm actually now excited about this. Could turn out to be very interesting.