AM i a scorp whore?

ust after meeting a new boy. Hes lovely. I had a amazing connection to him right off the bat. instant friends. he felt the same. he said he would consider me one of his close friends now. however, these friendship feelings developed into more. We kissed and more....and then thigns sort of changed a littel bit. I felt like he worshipped me before hand and now it seems like all of a sudden these other women have come crawling out of the woodwork and he is distracted by them.
He is just otu of a serious enough relationship and maybe he needs time to be alone thats fine. But he already asked me would I be his girlfriend to which I replied I thought he needed a little more time after his break up. which he accepted and we kissed and more again...but back tot he same strange behaviour...now i would treat this as a fluke but this EXACT situation happened before with another scorp...met...nearly instantly (in my opinion) fell in love with each other...took it to a physical place and it all changed in fact that boy ran straight back to his ex....and im worried this scorp is gonna scurry the same way.

I just dont understand pisces and scorp meant to b fantastic and i feel the chemistry to support that but why do i end up being a band aid...i mite add that i am very picky about lovers and other then these two any relationship ive had has lasted. I just cant seem to satidfy these scorps!?!?!?!


and i no....maybe i shouldnt be putting out or whatever but i swear both times i thought it was just a formality that we were crazy about each other and nothing could change it felt so powerful to me....i feel silly...any thoughts peeps?😄

yea but the weird thign is i think Im gettin tricked by the fact that I meet these people and it feels like Ive known them my entire life. Im not one bit shy I feel like I can be myself so I think it's automatically going to be recipricated. Which I don't know if it is. I can't tell. This particular Scorp still treats me like a best friend. But I wonder is that all he sees it as. I no scorps are very sexual...and it could have just been an extention of our friendship in his eyes but....Im not promiscuos at all and now feel kind of hurt. I don't know what to even look out for in his behaviour as he is so flirty with everyone and friendly to everyone. i can't tell what the subtle differences will be in our big group of friends?

"but back tot he same strange behaviour...now i would treat this as a fluke but this EXACT situation happened before with another scorp...met...nearly instantly (in my opinion) fell in love with each other...took it to a physical place and it all changed in fact that boy ran straight back to his ex....and im worried this scorp is gonna scurry the same way."

Listen hon, it doesnt matter whether you're an earth, fire, air, or a water sign that's supposed to have this amazing connection with scorps...one thing you need to understand pronto is that scorp men are COMPLICATED !!!

The sooner you learn this, the better you'll become at handling them. What you're doing is getting too emotional about it and blaming yourself.

"I just dont understand pisces and scorp meant to b fantastic"

I'm glad you used the word meant

"I don't know what to even look out for in his behaviour as he is so flirty with everyone and friendly to everyone. i can't tell what the subtle differences will be in our big group of friends?"

Just pull back, ok? Pull back and take a deep breath. FOCUS !!! You need to be patient. You cant control what they do cuz they'll do what they want. All you can do is be independent and dont let your emotions take you over. Act indifferent.

I know what you're going through, I just had a different way of dealing with it. The one thing you simply CANNOT be when handling a scorp is emotional. At least not in front of him. However if you feel you must show your full self in the hopes of being "honest" and "open" then he'll honestly and openly take you through the grinder.

"He is just otu of a serious enough relationship and maybe he needs time to be alone thats fine. But he already asked me would I be his girlfriend to which I replied I thought he needed a little more time after his break up."

You've caught one on the rebound and he's most likely in revenge mode. Maybe not outwardly, but inwardly. I think this has more to do with timing than anything else. Just give him some space for awhile. It was wise of you to suggest that, but I know it is easier said than done when they can be so charming.

What Starfish said is very true:

"Scorp is not hard to deal with at all, he gone do one of two things go on about his business or like that challenge and stick around."

You both like your space, so just put the brakes on (especially with the physical) and take some time for both of you to figure out what you want.

yawn. too much verbiage.

didn't read it. lost interest on the second line.

zzzzzz

insightful thread, lol..

"Hater!!!!"

Man, the Fishies are all going after me this week. Must be the duality.

Worst thread title ever?

I found the title compelling enough to enter. It was the content that caused my mind to go zzzzzzzzzzz

there i go again. numb.

I spent about 10 minutes trying to make sense of the title until I clicked on pslm's profile and realised that "just like me" is a word filter for "whor.e".

So there you go.