Scorpios, double standards and forgiveness

Well, the Scorp is back. He pursued me for a week and half about a week after he sent the infamous letter, which I ill-advisedly posted here and deleted. Finally, I agreed to a talk and he said he just felt in his life right now he couldn't be the man he wanted to be and that in the weeks leading up to his writing me the letter, he felt like he was close to losing complete control. This was all well and good. He told me after he wrote the letter he felt better for about a day but when I didn't respond to him, he started worrying that he'd sent the "wrong message." He said he then fell into a deep depression during which he started drinking, got really sick, told off his family (he's been having some issues with his dad), and fucked his Gem ex - the one who broke up with him by texting him a picture of her with some other guy's dick in her mouth.

He said in that time, he realized he couldn't be what I needed, but he needed to know if I'd wait for him. He said he had no right to ask that but he was miserable and unhappy and had to take the chance. I told him to get out and go fuck his ex some more. He got angry, saying that we weren't even together at that point so he was a free agent and able to fuck whomever he pleases. I told him this was absolutely true, but that I knew he'd go crazy if he thought or suspected I'd fucked around during this "break" (I haven't). He said, "Well, yea, if I thought you were up on other dudes I would've just cut it short." He said it was a difference, because he didn't fuck the Gem because he loved her - he did it because she was there and he knew she didn't give a shit about him and so he could attach no feelings to the act. I said that it wasn't so much that he did it, but who it was with - I said it'd be like me fucking my Pisces ex who lied like his tongue was on fire. Once I know a guy disrespects me, I'm not getting wet for him again. How he could get it up for a woman who actually sent him a picture of her deep-throating another dude just baffles me, seriously.

I still told him to get his ass out of my sight. He told me that he was being honest with me and that I needed to forgive him for the thing with the Gem. I again asked him to get out, and he finally did.

He has called 5 times since then and texted literally about 20 times. The last text was - "I thought u were the one, guess not." More Scorp theatrics, I suppose. He screws with a woman who openly disrespected him and I'm the one who is wrong? Oh hell no

I think you should be thankful that you get the opportunity to run far and fast and not have a bit of guilt over it. I have no clue how he could screw his ex after that either, he's got multiple subscriptions. See ya, wouldn't wannna be ya, and put him on perma- ignore.

"fucked his Gem ex - the one who broke up with him by texting him a picture of her with some other guy's dick in her mouth."

This about says it all.

Has maybe 25% to do with being a Scorp and 75% to do with being a potential Jerry Springer guest.

Only 25% , SR? 😉 And while I know you have some issues with my ram brethren, we love ya lots 🙂

FuckinA, couldn't agree more on both counts. Ick. Men. Can't live with them, can't sell 'em for parts.

ScorpSeeks, I have his rusty ass on mute henceforth.

"it definitely has 100% to do with him being a Scorpio."

Can you be more predictable at this point?

Happy 4th to all.

I'd taunt Rox, but since she lives in Spain where nobody works and everyday is a holiday.... a remote mountain hut no less.

He got his nerves...Unbelievable I tell ya! A break?? How about a permanent break asshole!

Wow! What an egotistical, manipulating sack of crap!

So, he tells you he went out and frucked someone else, but YOU are given the opportunity to WAIT for him, forsaking all others, while HE gets his shiit together?

Haha hahahahahahah!

Thank GOD you have enough sense not to fall for that crap! I'm so proud of you girl. Its not often that women stand up for what they deserve. And you know as well as I that you deserve soo much better than that.

To the left, to the left....

Ughh I would definitely never see him again.

I'd be in such a jealous rage I'd slap him and I'd tell him to fuck off.

"the one who broke up with him by texting him a picture of her with some other guy's dick in her mouth."

WOW I'm just shocked that a person would break up with somebody that way. Either he was a dick to her or she is one sadistic biatch. Either way I have no advice, Scorpio men are complicated.

""WE were on a BREAK!!" --Ross from Friends"

LOL! CLASSIC episode.