How will you know?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Lady_M on Monday, June 30, 2008 and has 28 replies.

How to Know When You Have Transformed Your Scorpio Traits

You recognize your transformation when you feel less defensive and more open to growth. Signs include increased emotional balance and a willingness to let go of old patterns. These changes often happen gradually, and awareness of your emotional responses can indicate that you have relinquished your stingers for a more constructive approach.

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@Lady_M
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You as scorpions...

How will you know when you have relinquished your stingers for the beak?
If you have already surpassed the phases, how did you know?

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""How will you know when you have relinquished your stingers for the beak?""

When you can forgive. And I mean, not just in speech. When you hold no record of wrongdoing toward you. And you reach past all hurt & pain, and see the part of your "enemy" that requires healing- to love them, in spite of...

yea, i'm definitely not there yet, lol. but i feel myself getting closer.

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""...she says it was through her relationship with god, that brought her to that place.""

Yes, definitely. Looking at ppl, I try to envision what they were intended to be, and not necessarily what they are acting out. Understanding that s/he is someone's beloved son, daughter, sister, father...and that someone needs them.

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""I find Scorpios relationship with religion interesting.""

You know what's annoying? Always being known as "the church girl". Everyone acts like they have to walk on eggshells around you. Maybe they think I'm judging them?

Oh...and they ALWAYS ask me to say the prayer at any kind of gathering. Never fails...

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@ScorpSuperior
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Yea, I wouldn't refer to myself as being religious. Faith and religion can be separate. Oftentimes, religion is rigid, and loses faith in the process. It becomes more about form, fashion, rules, and tradition. What about the spirit?

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@ScorpSuperior
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""I sometimes think maybe my sister went through a reverse process. From an eagle to a lizard. If that is possible.""

ahahaaa

you should do stand-up comedy. i could be your hype-man.

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@Rok-Z
18 Years

i don't think you ever relinquish your stinger unless you are a truly exceptional individual. i think it's always there - even if it's tucked under the eagle's tail feathers. it would be nice to think that you shed that self-destructive streak but i suspect there are always triggers that bring it out at whatever point you are in your life.

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@ScorpSuperior
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""Sadly, I was trying to be ironic. Not necessarily funny.""

- Irony is a type of humor, right?

""Personally, I have never had problems with judgmental people. Because I know, you can't truly be non judgmental. We all have an innate sense of right and wrong. Someone is bound to fall into our idea of wrong sometime.""

- Very true. Some ppl are condescending about it though. That's not cool.

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@Lady_M
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Forgiveness...check.

Stinger never goes away...got it.

"I have thought that I had made that transition a couple of times, but it was only an evolution into a more calculating usage of the stinger and better introspect."

no sir, you havent evolved.

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@Sea Siren
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Thanks to the thread title, that horrid Whitney Houston song is now stuck in my head. I can see her dancing around in her pastels with that go-to-hell bow on her head too.

GAH!!!!