Am I Being Tested?

This might get long, but I'll try to keep it brief as possible.

This past spring, I started to get close to a Scorpio??_ my then-girlfriend's old college roommate whom she's still super close to. Nothing ever happened between us until the other night, we'd just always be the last two up drinking and would frequently end up having deep conversations until the sun came back up.

It turns out that the Scorpio and I share some childhood trauma that we still struggle with in our adult lives, and eventually, we became close on our own.

My girlfriend and I broke up a couple months ago for reasons that had nothing to do with the Scorpio. I hung out with the Scorpio one more night before we ended up back at my place, where she decided she didn't feel comfortable hanging out with me since she was much closer to my ex than she was with me.

At this point, I figured the Scorpio was out of my life for good, but she ended up reaching out to me last week when my bike was stolen and found a loaner for me. Since then, we've hung out a couple times??_ again with nothing sexual happening??_ just genuinely enjoying each other's company. At this point, my ex had given us her blessing to hang out.

Well, a couple nights ago, I came over to her place with a bottle of wine under the pretension that we were just going to "pre game" until I met my buddy at the bars later that night. My buddy ended up not getting back to me (it turned out he left town earlier than expected), so I ended up spending the night at her place with her boyfriend in the next room. We drank a bit more, then she ended up getting close to me like she never had before. Eventually, we ended up making out and almost having sex until I had to "shush" her for being too loud, which apparently killed the mood for her.

The next morning, I told her what happened and she said "Well, now you know you could never seriously want me since you know I can't stay loyal." She went on to blame it on the fact that her boyfriend only sleeps with her 2-3 times a month, and told me all the other times she's messed around on him. She also swore me to secrecy on what happened, fearing that her boyfriend knows too many people and it's likely to get back to him if I talk to anyone about what happened. On the flip side, she said she didn't regret anything, and thought what we did was "pretty hot."

I ended up telling her that I didn't think what happened was all that random, considering all the times we got dr

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I ended up telling her that I didn't think what happened was all that random, considering all the times we got drunk together before, yet nothing ever happened until I was single. I also told her that, at the very least, I wanted us to be honest with each other, since I value our friendship that much.

So my question is this??_ I've read so much about Scorpio women putting potential partners though a "test" and I can't help but wonder if this is what's happening here. I truly have to consider the fact that I still want her despite having every reason not to. Not only have I been questioning my own monogamy for almost a year now, but I feel like at this point in my life, having someone who "gets" me emotionally and sexually is more important than having the "perfect" girlfriend.

So, am I being tested? Because my Piscean intuition is telling me I am.

😕 How is this a test exactly?

Meh. Walk. Away. Friendship isn't even a good idea at this point.

Posted by PhoenixRising
😕 How is this a test exactly?

Meh. Walk. Away. Friendship isn't even a good idea at this point.

She wants to test drive the dick

Posted by tiziani
She has "avoid" written all over her.

Agreed. At least until you for sure know what you want emotionally and sexually.

What I dislike is that she was perfectly willing to fuck you with her BF in the next room, but then puts the onus on YOU to not let the secret get out. At first, you could almost respect her for not giving a fuck...but then she quickly retreats...perhaps to return the sting for you sort of shutting her down.

What do you even want from her? Sounds like it could get very complicates very quickly.

Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
She isn't testing you, she's only enjoying your positive attention and company. An unfaithful scorpion like her will only break your heart. Don't invest any serious emotions until she's single otherwise you will get hurt.

If she's ever single...sounds like she likes the set up she has going right now.

As a Scorpio woman, I advice you to walk away and not look back. She isn't testing you. If she was really that unhappy with her boyfriend she would have broken up. At least I would have. There's this thing about Scorps.. 100% real or nothing. So clearly she isn't breaking up with her man any time soon.

Also, the entire secrecy thing is to save her ass. Because she's been a bad gf.

So yes, I advise you to walk away. It's not worth it.