I blew it

I wouldn't say we've got into another argument ...well maybe it was.
I kind of did the scorpio thing of acting fine and then suddenly getting angry and I messaged him a lot of things before he fell asleep and continued while he was sleeping and he woke up obviously irritated.
He says his kids don't complain as much as me and sarcastically said " we should totally date I could sure go for more of this" in which I replied " Ok" and he hasn't said anything I haven't either..
I'm kind of just letting his anger cool off.
I don't think I said anything that should of gotten him super angry I told him that I wished to see him more. and I kind of mentioned that I was embarrassed at the fact that we weren't officially dating and felt that he was uninterested in me and that I wanted to spend my birthday with him but knew it wasn't going to happen ...
Maybe it was enough to irritate him but I've said worse and we've continued speaking after.
And he also did mention he's never read " I or I'm" so many times ...

Despite the circumstances it's too late I've already fallen for this guy and I just need help on moving forward and I guess controlling my thoughts so I don't write more essays for him to wake up to.
I actually do want things to work out and I just want to know how do I go about continuing relations..
I know I shouldn't message him for a while and he won't message me unless I message him first. I'm just so used to speaking with him every single day I don't want to move on to someone. What should I do?

Is this the online guy?

Oh jesus, yes leave him alone. He says he doesn't want relationship. You should believe him.

You're just going to continue to torture yourself. You cannot force someone to have a relationship. Even if you get them to yield is it always only short term.

You need to go cold turkey. It will be hard at first but it is just a matter of breaking a habit. Make space in your life to find someone who wants you as much as you want them.

*facepalm*

Just... do whatever you want to do. You clearly are already doing that. There is no helping someone like you as you are a LOST CAUSE.

Typical fixed sign psychosis...

You could try climbing down his chimney....

leave him alone, you are FORCING yourself into his life when he doesnt want you...

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
You could try climbing down his chimney....

Or rather, "were you stuck in a chimney a few days ago...?"

Now that I think about it, I'm going to start referring to women who behave like this as "chimney dwellers."

So I'm the problem and I'm looking for a way to fix that.

@smerrose: libra people and any other air sign for that matter are like sand, the more you try to grip and hold onto it, more it slips out of your hand. What you did was rather offensive, you need to calm down and just let it be. Let him come to you (which i highly doubt he will) and if he doesnt then it was never meant to be, i guess,

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by Smerrose
So I'm the problem and I'm looking for a way to fix that.

Raise your standards a little higher. Don't settle for someone who doesn't treat you how you want to be treated. Gotta know your worth before you start dating next go round our you'll just end up with another tool.

Good luck

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