Aries and Scorpios Together

I know most astrologers are against this match, or say it's difficult, but what do you Scorpios out there think? What's your take on Aries from a personal perspective?

I'm a scorp and I had arealtionship with an aries. Thought about it for years. I think where we went wrong was he wasn't open and honest with me , and I was bugging him too much about him not opening up and telling me what was up. I can't read his mind. But he was romantic and fun, and never boring, adventurous, spontaneous, creative, and a good challenge. That's why I went after him anyway. In order for those to to work well there has to be communication, in order to understand wher each is coming from and agreement. U need to work toghether and not try to tame one another because that will get a war started and it ain't pretty. The Mars influence. But other than that this relationship should reach the heavens and above because of the almost magical power that is created when the two signs go together. Some might not step up to the plate because it takes a lot of will power to realize that it's all worth it in the end and that both need to want it bad enough, to make it work. Most people are not as interested to make it work long term because they just want the momentary effects, an ddon't want to put the effot in it. But this relationship has to always be cared after in order for it not to unravel. And I'm 100% sure it's possible. If had another chanse I would do just that.Such great potential.

Also patience is golden in this reltionship as it's understanding and supporting oneanother. If you want to break it fast just try to tell him he's not good enough and try to change him.

Thank you for that bit of insight. I definately agree with there needing be open communication and forthrightness. Although I believe these are important ingredients in any relationship, it seems like it's especially important when establishing a relationship with these two unique signs.

(from astrology-horoscopes.com)

Aries with Scorpio

Aries: Fire - Cardinal - Positive
Ruled by Mars
Symbol: The Ram
Day Forces - Masculine

Scorpio: Water - Fixed - Negative
Ruled by Pluto
Symbols: Scorpion and Eagle
Night Forces - Feminine

Aries men and women rather like to fancy themselves as colorful, fierce pirates. After all, pirates are brave, romantic and dashing. But, Aries usually fights on the defensive. Remember that Aries the symbolic Infant of the zodiac and infants don't yell unless they are ignored or someone jabs them with a sharp safety pin. Scorpios, however, are masters of the offensive - an offensive laced with clever, cool strategy, exquisite patience and an uncanny sense of the weakness of others. You will not find Scorpios coming unstrung, running hither and thither or striking wildly. When they strike, it is straight on target, with deadly precision. Anytime you've been stung by the tail of the Scorpion, you know you've been stung.

Strangely, a Ram won't normally push ahead immediately with a Scorpio, as he/she will with those born under all other Sun Signs. There is something about those compelling Pluto eyes, reflecting a quiet poise and hidden strength, that flashes a message to the Ram: "Beware". This still water runs very deep and it could drown you. Aries instinctively absorbs the message, which is "DANGER"! It is the only word that will excite the Ram to action, so the initial caution is soon replaced by the Mars forward challenge thrown down. Scorpio is intensely loyal and never compromises principle. This makes a big hit with the Ram, who, is also fiercely loyal and who has an equal contempt for the compromising of ideals or integrity. Both Scorpio and Aries never give in to admit defeat. The sex is sure to be great in this relationship but a Ram should never give his/her Scorpion dream lover any reason to mistrust himself/herself.

Glad you found it worthwhile enough to pursue and would pursue it again.

The word "danger" has a strong effect on the ram. I might try to use it to get some reaction.

I think scorpio is also ruled by Mars as is aries.