Calling all Scorpios...

Hey guys...


So we've been on a break for a week. We talked yesterday morning that he needs more time to figure things out. He basically threw away everything about me, because he wanted to make the right decision and not get mixed feelings lookin at our stuffs together. He said he loves me and misses me.

But last night we??re into an argument again cause he didn't pick up my call for 3 hours. He said at 6pm that he's going to pack up his stuffs cause he's moving to another apartment. I messaged and called him at 8, no reply. Then I called his maid, she said that his bike's not there and his apartment's dark. Then I called him again at 9, no pick up. He messaged me 30 mins later saying he's still packing and heading to his new apartment. To be honest, he doesn't have that many stuffs to carry with him. I called him after he messaged me, he didn't pick up. So I texted him asking why he didn't pick up. Then he called me at 11, he said he's already in his new apartment and he left his bike in his old apartment. And I asked him where was he the first time I called him. He said he's packing and I said he lied. Cause I found out from the maid that the apartments empty and his bike's not there. He denied saying he's in the room and he went mad for me asking the maid. I know I was wrong for checking up on him.

He said that he think this is it for us. We??re on a break and yet we??re still fighting, I just told him that if he knew im jealous, I just need assurance. Just like when he's jealous and suspicious of me, I assured him. If I didn't pick up his call, he would get mad at as well and keep calling like crazy until I pick up. And it happened because I was sleeping. So shortly, he felt like he's done then he said he wanted to get some beers and called me later. When he called me back, I said let's just take a few weeks off again and I promise I wont do the same thing again. Have faith in me. And he said, okay. Then after that we talked for an hour talking about things, things get normal again.
My question: is he testing me or something? Cause I feel like im being tested emotionally. How could he at one point was ready to leave and then a minute after he's acting normal and took me back again?

Could he be seeing other girls? We had agreement not to see anybody else during this break but yet he still wants to contact.

This is his chart:
Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars/Uranus in Scorpio.
Rising/Neptune in Sag

Moon/Saturn in Virgo.
Pluto in Libra. Jupiter in Leo.

I said broke up before and he was beggin me like crazy and last time he said broke up that's why we??re on our break and now im the one beggin him to stay.. After we hung up last night he still says he loves me. So what should i do now, im confused... He's so hard to read.. Btw, I'm a Pisces Sun, Cap Rising, Libra Moon, Venus and Mars in Aries, Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio.


Thanks guys!

Yea i know i made a mistake...

But what really hit me is that he doesn't like it when im jealous or suspicious with him. All these times i've never been insecure, he's the one who's been jealous and suspicious with me. But i never went mad and still assure him till now. 5 days ago he asked if i'm talking to anyone else and i said no and still assure him that he's the only one.

I know i'm being insecure right now. I let my emotion gets the better of me. Should i contact him? or just ignore him until he finds me?

Your insecurity is your problem, not his.

I'd suggest you start changing your insides lest the relationship continue to dissolve. He is getting sick of your behavior. Change or it dies.

ps..when you're on a *break*...he doesn't owe you anything...least of all answering your many phone calls.

Why did you call and try to hunt him down again?

Posted by cherryblossom

Then I called his maid, she said .....

... in his new apartment ...

... in his old apartment.

This whole thing sounds make-believe .. likely a story in her head.

People who live in apartments don't usually have maids. If they do, it's like Merry Maids who come in once a week. In this make-believe story, it is being presented that the maid is so close and personal in proximity, that she knows his comings and goings. And in a story where the main character has a maid like that, the setting is usually in an estate, where the maid is a member of the household.

.....really? does it really matter why a maid is there? You just keep flushing yourself farther and farther down that drain, P.

As for the OP, I think you need to realize what a 'break' means. You hounded him way too much for the moving situation. He wants a break for a reason, and yet you keep pushing him farther away by wanting to know what he's doing all the time. Give him some space. Let him do what he wants. A break is basically like not being in a relationship, so during that period of time, you have no say over what he does. You pushed him too far with your insecurities and attachment to him, so that's why he said it was over. After reconsidering, he is just giving you another chance because he is hoping that things will change and that you guys can go back to just loving each other instead of focusing on your insecurities and starting fights. Relationships are not about one person. He is his own individual and you have to realize that he is not yours. You are together because you both want to be together, not because you both want control over each other. Try to get past your insecurities, and like I said, give him space.

If you get a hobby you will probably forget about him 😛 jk