FemmeScorpion
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Communication!!
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
Were they simple text messages that he could answer -- and be done with -- quickly?
Posted by pathfinderPosted by FemmeScorpion
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
Were they simple text messages that he could answer -- and be done with -- quickly?click to expand
Yeah she 4warded them unto me....all that was required was a yes or no.
Posted by 25thDecan
Sometimes, at WORK, texting is very frowned upon. So he's a silly sausage? Yet...she's crying and it's just texts right now. Is she the silly tulip narcissist? Or just some dumb broad?
Thats not the point...the way I see it he's had over 24hrs to msg her back. Have just text her what starsign is he.
Waiting on the reply...shouldnt be long.lol
**shaking head*** Girls... what are we gonna do with them? So a unanswered text is crushing this girls life huh? Reading into it and dont even know what's going on... maybe dude was really busy then he forgot. Men do this sometimes, trust me. That simple.
everyone wants instant access to people, this is where the problem lies. I got one of my boys and when we are playing basketball, like running a full court game, going hard, everytime his phone rings he has to stop and answer it. Now everyone is on his ass, like we all yell "yo you better go get the phone before you get in trouble LOL" He says he has to get it or he'd hear her mouth all night. again, women... what are we to do? "shrugs"
everyone wants instant access to people, this is where the problem lies. I got one of my boys and when we are playing basketball, like running a full court game, going hard, everytime his phone rings he has to stop and answer it. Now everyone is on his ass, like we all yell "yo you better go get the phone before you get in trouble LOL" He says he has to get it or he'd hear her mouth all night. again, women... what are we to do? "shrugs"
@Femme youe friend must be very fragile which some women are, myself I will normally txt a guy and if he takes lets say longer than like 72 hrs to reply I just delete him out my phone obviously he is too busy to be bother with me. Now if it is someone I know or I am talking to on that level, well that wouldn't happen unless they are very busy which most women can understand and if would be nice if he was considerate enought to say so. That's a big problem today men and some women don't consider the other person feelings.......
Aries I can see your point of view also when I am at work or busy and people are constanly txting then I will look up and it's late and it's like Damn I forgot to respond. Luckily I have a boring job and I need to text to stay awake Lol.
Posted by scorpdiva
@Femme youe friend must be very fragile which some women are, myself I will normally txt a guy and if he takes lets say longer than like 72 hrs to reply I just delete him out my phone obviously he is too busy to be bother with me. Now if it is someone I know or I am talking to on that level, well that wouldn't happen unless they are very busy which most women can understand and if would be nice if he was considerate enought to say so. That's a big problem today men and some women don't consider the other person feelings.......
Yeah she just started a new position and getting really stressed out @ work. Plus we dont see each other as often because am busy planning my wedding. Guess she need someone to lean on.
I dont want to discuss her business too much,however I understand as her mate my opinion may be slightly bias.
Hence why I created this thread.
The low down is she as always been mates with this guy. Things started warming up 2mths ago. They slept together and now he's carrying on shady. Not responding to her msg etc.
Why do men do this? Am always told that I never put out/am hardwork BUT all the stories I heard about guys going shady after getting the goodies just cemented my reasons for not giving up the goods until I can see that they are relationship material.
Oh I forgot she msg me back lastnight that he is a virgo. I am not familar with virgo males. Maybe I should create a thread on their board. However I dont think starsign as anything to do with it.
For crying out loud....the girl is in bits,if I run into that little muppet am seriously going to tell him how it is.
I have 1 male friend thats virgo and he seems to be quite a nice guy!! Mmmmmm possibly all an act.😢
For crying out loud....the girl is in bits,if I run into that little muppet am seriously going to tell him how it is.
I have 1 male friend thats virgo and he seems to be quite a nice guy!! Mmmmmm possibly all an act.😢
Posted by 25thDecan
Yep. Furthermore, they way YOU see it or the way it really went down femmescorpion? Many women always have their own version of events, just like us men.....
Ok "mr i will always take the man side" what part of sleeping with a girl and then acting shady is cool?.
He's just a creep. Am gonna meet up with my girl this wkend....take her out for a few drinks and get her to bury that clown.
I knew I would marry my aries bcoz I never had any of that rubbish. 3day rule/avoiding calls text/been evasive. 🙂
All the virgo guys I know are very nice as well, I have discuss on here once and also on the virgo board about my leo girl who is dating a virgo and he does this. He will ignore her when he needs his space I guess or when he feels pressure from the relationship and maybe this could be the case with your mate and her virgo.
Posted by FemmeScorpion
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
would it really be better if a man texted saying: im going to be busy for weeks!
?
would that make him respectful, or still disrespectful?
Posted by Lil.ladie.taurusPosted by FemmeScorpion
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
would it really be better if a man texted saying: im going to be busy for weeks!
?
would that make him respectful, or still disrespectful?click to expand
Huh silly question
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I thought it was a virgo that invited you back to his even though he had a g/f ?
Yeah that dude is virgo....he isnt a bad guy. Suppose he couldnt help himself. However it takes 2 to tango. I refused him...so he's been a good fiance now🙂
Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by Lil.ladie.taurusPosted by FemmeScorpion
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
would it really be better if a man texted saying: im going to be busy for weeks!
?
would that make him respectful, or still disrespectful?
Huh silly questionclick to expand
lol sorry, im just asking becuase my friend would say all a man has to do is say they're busy..... and then she wouldnt care..... but when a man told her he would be busy for awhile, she was still upset saying thats very disprespectful
Posted by scorpdiva
All the virgo guys I know are very nice as well, I have discuss on here once and also on the virgo board about my leo girl who is dating a virgo and he does this. He will ignore her when he needs his space I guess or when he feels pressure from the relationship and maybe this could be the case with your mate and her virgo.
Again you could be right hon....I guess she is going out of her head worrying that now they slept together he's gone shady.
They were mates before so,there's that added pressure of losing a friend but not gaining a lover.😢
Posted by Lil.ladie.taurusPosted by FemmeScorpionPosted by Lil.ladie.taurusPosted by FemmeScorpion
Today my bestmate spent 1hr on the phone crying her eyes out because some silly sausage will not return her text msgs. Wtf if he's busy..just send her a quick text to say he's busy but he will speak to her later.
That eliminate worries and misunderstanding!!
would it really be better if a man texted saying: im going to be busy for weeks!
?
would that make him respectful, or still disrespectful?
Huh silly question
lol sorry, im just asking becuase my friend would say all a man has to do is say they're busy..... and then she wouldnt care..... but when a man told her he would be busy for awhile, she was still upset saying thats very disprespectfulclick to expand
Ok lol...to me a man saying that just means he aint interested. So ofcourse she would be upset if she was in to him.
Out of interest what sign was he?
They are both scorpios
Ok I posted about this virgo guy my mate slept with and then he started acting shady:avoiding her calls,text etc. When he use to bombarding her with msgs throughout the day.
It wasnt a case of her giving the goods too early because they were mates yrs before they slept together. Over the past mth things heated up with them and one thing led to another.
I was taken back when she told me about his sudden behaviour i.e disappearing act because I have a virgo male friend,and I couldnt see him carrying on like that. He's very nice,punctual and always compliments me.
Anyway my mate and I decided to catch this virgo out-if a man start going shady we assume he's pursuing someone else OR maybe he's just a damn payer.
So we got another friend of ours to add him via facebook and send him a couple msgs. 2days as past and he hasnt accepted her or responded to the msg. Now our mate who sent him the friend request is very attractive blonde girl. We used her as bait because my friend who slept with him,felt he has a thing for blondes.
My question is why hasnt he bitten yet? If the guy is a PLAYER,where is his game??
It wasnt a case of her giving the goods too early because they were mates yrs before they slept together. Over the past mth things heated up with them and one thing led to another.
I was taken back when she told me about his sudden behaviour i.e disappearing act because I have a virgo male friend,and I couldnt see him carrying on like that. He's very nice,punctual and always compliments me.
Anyway my mate and I decided to catch this virgo out-if a man start going shady we assume he's pursuing someone else OR maybe he's just a damn payer.
So we got another friend of ours to add him via facebook and send him a couple msgs. 2days as past and he hasnt accepted her or responded to the msg. Now our mate who sent him the friend request is very attractive blonde girl. We used her as bait because my friend who slept with him,felt he has a thing for blondes.
My question is why hasnt he bitten yet? If the guy is a PLAYER,where is his game??
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