Dating a Scorpio

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I am currently dating a Scorpio with a Capricorn rising and Sagittarius moon and everything seems to be going fine for us, for now. I am a bit skeptical and I could see arguments arise between us in the future, no couple is perfect. I have found myself getting aggravated by him at times but he's such a sweet guy and so affectionate, just what I needed. He puts up with my moodiness and just holds me, he holds my hand like he's proud to be with me, he'll cuddle me and hold me, pull me in and kisses me so passionately. He brought me to meet some of his family already and it's only been a month and a half. I can only see him on weekends because he works afternoons and I work days but he usually gets weekends off. It's perfect because I appreciate our time together so much more. He already talks about moving in and future type stuff with me. I was scared at first, especially because it's a new relationship and he's told me he loves me already, I'll admit I love him too but I know I am not in love yet, that'll take time but I really care about him and his feelings. I would joke around with him telling him I wanted him to leave me alone and I am pretty sure he thought I was serious at first cause it looked like he wanted to tear up but he's been through a lot with his ex. She would play mind games with him and he treated her so well. However, on two occasions now he has embarrassed me, I talked to him about it and said I didn't like it, he apologized but I just have a feeling it won't be the last time. Do Scorpios like to do that? Also, he commented on another girl in front of me too. I didn't show jealousy at first but later on mentioned it, was this on purpose ? Cause he's never seen my jealous side yet, he said it was cute though.
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Posted by crabbykaycee
I would joke around with him telling him I wanted him to leave me alone and I am pretty sure he thought I was serious at first cause it looked like he wanted to tear up but he's been through a lot with his ex. She would play mind games with him and he treated her so well.
Right. Not sure how someone jokes around like that given his history with his ex.

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...he commented on another girl infront me too...
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So you can play with his feelings, but he can't play with yours?

Mirror mirror.....
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Posted by Impulsv
U saying leave me alone n not meaning it is playing mind games
U are trigerring him specially if ex played games like that.
If he's bringing up ladies , I know wrong but I've done it once because I felt it was Shakie ground with the person n wanted to gauge if they were interest. Wrong way to deal n I accept my part but that person really participated with his actions ( not that innocent himself) so take a look at what ur doing so he doesn't feel secure.
We like to fill security
When secure none of the above will occur
Now I've learned if someone makes me feel that way just end it
Pretty much.
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Posted by Gennie
Erm, what exactly is he doing to embarrass you?
I broke my phone for the second time and he was on the phone with his uncle and told his uncle about how I broke it the second time and it seemed like he was making me out to be stupid. I told him right away that it bothered me though and there was another time after that he embarrassed me in front of the same uncle because his uncles wife asked what I did for mothers day and I told them I couldn't do anything yet cause my mom ended up being busy when I already made plans with her and kind of ditched me for my dad then he said excuses, excuses and I told him how that made me feel too.
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Posted by crabbykaycee
I would joke around with him telling him I wanted him to leave me alone and I am pretty sure he thought I was serious at first cause it looked like he wanted to tear up but he's been through a lot with his ex. She would play mind games with him and he treated her so well.
Right. Not sure how someone jokes around like that given his history with his ex.

Posted by crabbykaycee
...he commented on another girl infront me too...
So you can play with his feelings, but he can't play with yours?

Mirror mirror.....
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His history with his ex is her cheating and lying. I joke around with him and he doesn't realize at first but he knows I care about him because I show it with the things I do. He doesn't play with my feelings I have just heard scorpios try to make you jealous to see if you care but he's only commented on 2 girls so far and the last time was about 2 weeks to maybe a month ago and it's not that big of a deal for me because I know that he loves me. Him and I have gotten closer since I posted this and I have found myself more attached to him and I am concerned about his feelings...