Did I ruin my chances with this Scorpio guy?

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I'm an Aquarius and I went to hangout recently with a Scorpio guy that I've been mutually following on tumblr for the first time ever. Let's just say the first encounter was bad because his car ran out of gas and that ruined our plans, but despite that while we were waiting for AAA. We bonded pretty nicely. I could tell that his car running out of gas was extremely embarrassing for him, but I told him it was funny and it's not that awful. While we were sitting in his car he was talking about the type of girls he is attracted to and he admitted that he was attracted to me. I literally was like, "oh.....sooo you are attracted to me?"
It got real awkward and soon after I realized that we were suppose to go on a date. I was even going to meet his parents for the first time ever. He kind of looked at me like are you serious? I mean I could kind of tell he liked me because every text prior to us hanging out that pertained towards me and not about geeky stuff had a 🙂 or 😉 or haha at the end of it. Also while we were driving to his place every time he had a chance while he was driving he was took a look at me.

Anyway, the reason why I am writing this ask is because I recently told him that I'm getting over someone, but we are just friends, I am single, and that situation is very complicated. He sound supportive he basically was like he understood and for right now we can just be friends. If I decide that I want more for him then he is willing to get to know each other to see where it goes. I told him I do want to get to know him, but he has been a little distant since then. Did I ruin my chances or is he just being cautious?
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Posted by SilverScorpio
He is being cautious. If he's doing what I think he's doing, then he is waiting for you to give him the okay that you are over the guy you were getting over and that you want to date him or are ready to date him. Basically, he is trying to give you your space and enough time to get over your guy. We tend to be the heroic types!



Aww that's really sweet! I was hoping it was just him being cautious because we just started talking again. I was hoping that my honesty didn't make him feel some type of way. We just started talking again.
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Posted by Rabbit
Provided you really DO get over your ex...I don't see a problem.

Don't try to play both sides. He'll pick up on it and then you're toast.



Dude was never an ex, I should of said that at the beginning. He and I were going on dates, but we decided that we both wanted two different things. So I suggested that we would be better off as friends.
I told him about the new guy and I can tell he felt some type of way, but again we wanted two different things so he can't change that now that I'm actually moving on. That's not fair at all to me.

Honestly getting over him wouldn't be a problem at all I just wanted to tell him of my situation.
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Posted by Rabbit
Provided you really DO get over your ex...I don't see a problem.

Don't try to play both sides. He'll pick up on it and then you're toast.



Dude was never an ex, I should of said that at the beginning. He and I were going on dates, but we decided that we both wanted two different things. So I suggested that we would be better off as friends.
I told him about the new guy and I can tell he felt some type of way, but again we wanted two different things so he can't change that now that I'm actually moving on. That's not fair at all to me.

Honestly getting over him wouldn't be a problem at all I just wanted to tell him of my situation.
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"Honestly getting over him wouldn't be a problem at all I just wanted to tell him of my situation." Good! You just scored high on a Scorpio's trust level! That is to say, you've just put yourself ahead of everyone else with this guy. Scorpio's appreciate honesty and that's what you gave him. So congrats!
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Okay so first of all how are any of you guys any better? What are you doing now? Typing on a keyboard so in actuality you aren't exactly out meeting people either. Why does it matter when or how we met? The important thing is we did meet. It didn't take a year or so for us to meet either so how exactly is that lazy? To me it would be more lazy if we waited years and then finally met. That's the lazy that you all are talking about. 🙂
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Posted by AquaScorLib92
Okay so first of all how are any of you guys any better? What are you doing now? Typing on a keyboard so in actuality you aren't exactly out meeting people either. Why does it matter when or how we met? The important thing is we did meet. It didn't take a year or so for us to meet either so how exactly is that lazy? To me it would be more lazy if we waited years and then finally met. That's the lazy that you all are talking about. 🙂



Take a chill pill. None one said anything about being better.
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I'm always chill it's no worries on my part just putting this out there.