Did the Virgo lie or am I just being a Scorp?

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Yo peeps...Its be awhile..sort of Lol. Anyhow, I've been thinking about a recent issue i've had with this new Virgo i'm dealing with... So we've been messing around for about 3 months, things were going good??_even progressed to where I was pretty much sleeping at her spot every night and leaving from work from there. Then all of a sudden, she goes M.I.A one night in which we were suppose to grab a bite to eat and what not. Next day, she surfaces again and she confesses she has to do errands for her Ex sometimes to help make ends meet. So I let her know i'm cool wit that since she ain't mine but she should have hit me and let me know what's up from the beginning. I mean this happened the day after she told me I need to have better teamwork and what not ( i didn't do things like see if she was hungry when I grab a bite to eat from somewhere or something like that..I mean, she wasn't my girl so I didn't think about it...) Anyway, during the convo in which she informed me this, she basically said I think the problem was that we're acting like a couple which says to me back up...I'm like yea you right and I take things down a notch, I stop sleeping over there every night..made her go half on the herb and meals..things like that.

Now once she recognizes this, she brings it up and i tell her due to her arrangement with her EX..I can't take u as seriously as you'd like me too..But I like you so i'll stick around and see if we can find a way from you not to rely on him. I mean bottom line..I'm not breaking that shit up because I ain't gotta dollar for her. She's shown me too much shifty shit that I don't like...Well, around this same time..she says she's late. I play it cool..don't over react and let her know that I'm with her no matter what the decision is...
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No we're going through this merry go round and we finally get to a point where I'm like you should go to the Doc??_By this time, she had started to bleed so we thought it was a wrap but she kept feeling sick..No at this point, Wednesday..she tells me she got an appointment on Friday because she was getting nervous herself and made an appointment. Friday comes..I notice around 12 that she hadn't mentioned the Doctors and seemed to be at work because we were doing our usual chatting online. So I bring up the Doctors appointment and she's like what appointment..I'm like the Doctors appoint. She's like Oh, that's tomorrow..I'm like Oh (I had already checked the messages prior to confirm she told me Friday before I even asked her about the appointment.) Then 10 minutes later (I assume she checks the messages) she's like oh, you??re right..its Friday, I forgot. I let it slide and brush it off..she then goes on Sunday which I thought was odd but she has Kaiser so I don't know for sure how they work so I let that go too??_But we had another discussion in which she says she's a horrible liar and then I immediately think of all the inconstancies she told me..Am I buggin?
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i dig you mackin. i think its your saggi rising but i totally relate to you.

well, i always say "if u sleep over more then 3 consecutive nights, you go together." so stop spending the night. i agree with the going dutch on things. even if u were a couple, it should be give and take.

imo, virgos act much differently when they like someone. take my virgo gal friend, she loves her scorpio boyfriend to death. it was like that day one. it was all about him. this virgo seems way more lax in her courtship. in fact, my virgo friend was paying for every damn thing. her scorpio never had a want. virgos also dont care to have other exes in the picture if theyre trying to court a current lover. do her and her ex have a child together?

now to the lying thing. u gotta watch these virgins. they aint so fresh and so clean. u can catch them in a lie and they play the deer in headlights role. ive seem numerous times. its just like "bitch get real." laughable. theyre almost as bad as a lying pisces. play the martyr role. maybe its a mutable thing, they show once face and when theyre caught lying, they show another face.

virgos are also notorious for germs and such. the fact that she would foget a doc appt is shady. when virgos feel something aunt right below, they get it checked out and will kill you with their worrying.
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your virgo is serving more than one master. what i mean is, virgo are servant oriented and they want to be a humble servant to their loved ones. sounds like your virgo is more loyal to her ex than she is to you. the fact that she can just go MIA to help this other negro out sounds like its a regular thing and shes been doing it for awhile. could be hard to turn a servant off to their beloved master.
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You right about that one..DMV. I mean to an extent I understand...this was something they did on the regular about once a month or so..This helped her pay rent. And I recognize the fact that I just got into the picture so I shouldn't mess that up unless i'm gonna replace it which I'm not so Have fun...I did my part and told her straight up..I like you and all that but this is as far as we gone make it as long as he's around so the balls in her court. I mean this isn't costing me a dime and I get cheeks out the deal so she's doing me a favor.

She had the "appointment" this morning..I didn't waste time going with her because I already knew she would be fine anyway. Which she was, Doc said it was a reaction to the Pill she started to keep her from getting pregnant...I wasn't even aware she started them yet..she was said she had to start them once her period came and gone (or so I thought..not sure here neither)
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Update since starting this thread...

I haven't made it to the prego stuff with her yet but I did go in about the EX situation and her plans for us..I told her, I felt we're at a stalemate...You're looking for the qualities in me to make you say..I wanna be with him but I refuse to show them until you're EX is gone..I'll spare the whole convo but she did say this to me which made me flipped out and now she's not talking to me anymore lol She said "If you needed something, I'd go to my EX for you" What could possibly make her think I want some other dude takin care of me? LMMFAO. I don't even want dude breathing in the same room with you...and you talking about me accepting money from him? Bwwwahhahahahahaha LMMFAO. These Virgos..sheesh.
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Yea...out of all that, the Forgetting the appt. in the first place stood out the most. Who forgets an appointment? Specially when she asked me not to bug her about how she was feeling because it made her worry...



virgos are paranoid period



Fixed.



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smokin marley with a virgo is the worst!
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Hmmmm mines involved them trying to split the blunt in 3 separate directions.

@Crab, Woah.
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Update since starting this thread...

I haven't made it to the prego stuff with her yet but I did go in about the EX situation and her plans for us..I told her, I felt we're at a stalemate...You're looking for the qualities in me to make you say..I wanna be with him but I refuse to show them until you're EX is gone..I'll spare the whole convo but she did say this to me which made me flipped out and now she's not talking to me anymore lol She said "If you needed something, I'd go to my EX for you" What could possibly make her think I want some other dude takin care of me? LMMFAO. I don't even want dude breathing in the same room with you...and you talking about me accepting money from him? Bwwwahhahahahahaha LMMFAO. These Virgos..sheesh.




this should be saved for anybody who is in a love triangle with a scorpio and an ex. the scorp aint doin shit till the other person is out the picture.

this reminds me of another famous virgo. Superhead. used men for money, used her body for money. she sounds like one of those girls who will take money from a guy to give to another guy. despicable.

shes doing you a favor by exiting out of the ship.
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Update since starting this thread...

I haven't made it to the prego stuff with her yet but I did go in about the EX situation and her plans for us..I told her, I felt we're at a stalemate...You're looking for the qualities in me to make you say..I wanna be with him but I refuse to show them until you're EX is gone..I'll spare the whole convo but she did say this to me which made me flipped out and now she's not talking to me anymore lol She said "If you needed something, I'd go to my EX for you" What could possibly make her think I want some other dude takin care of me? LMMFAO. I don't even want dude breathing in the same room with you...and you talking about me accepting money from him? Bwwwahhahahahahaha LMMFAO. These Virgos..sheesh.




this should be saved for anybody who is in a love triangle with a scorpio and an ex. the scorp aint doin shit till the other person is out the picture.

this reminds me of another famous virgo. Superhead. used men for money, used her body for money. she sounds like one of those girls who will take money from a guy to give to another guy. despicable.

shes doing you a favor by exiting out of the ship.
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How about with a current? Seeing several at once?
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Update since starting this thread...

I haven't made it to the prego stuff with her yet but I did go in about the EX situation and her plans for us..I told her, I felt we're at a stalemate...You're looking for the qualities in me to make you say..I wanna be with him but I refuse to show them until you're EX is gone..I'll spare the whole convo but she did say this to me which made me flipped out and now she's not talking to me anymore lol She said "If you needed something, I'd go to my EX for you" What could possibly make her think I want some other dude takin care of me? LMMFAO. I don't even want dude breathing in the same room with you...and you talking about me accepting money from him? Bwwwahhahahahahaha LMMFAO. These Virgos..sheesh.




this should be saved for anybody who is in a love triangle with a scorpio and an ex. the scorp aint doin shit till the other person is out the picture.

this reminds me of another famous virgo. Superhead. used men for money, used her body for money. she sounds like one of those girls who will take money from a guy to give to another guy. despicable.

shes doing you a favor by exiting out of the ship.



How about with a current? Seeing several at once?
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if u mean a scorp seeing several people at once? he/she aint serious about no one; everyone is equally shitty.
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Update since starting this thread...

I haven't made it to the prego stuff with her yet but I did go in about the EX situation and her plans for us..I told her, I felt we're at a stalemate...You're looking for the qualities in me to make you say..I wanna be with him but I refuse to show them until you're EX is gone..I'll spare the whole convo but she did say this to me which made me flipped out and now she's not talking to me anymore lol She said "If you needed something, I'd go to my EX for you" What could possibly make her think I want some other dude takin care of me? LMMFAO. I don't even want dude breathing in the same room with you...and you talking about me accepting money from him? Bwwwahhahahahahaha LMMFAO. These Virgos..sheesh.




this should be saved for anybody who is in a love triangle with a scorpio and an ex. the scorp aint doin shit till the other person is out the picture.

this reminds me of another famous virgo. Superhead. used men for money, used her body for money. she sounds like one of those girls who will take money from a guy to give to another guy. despicable.

shes doing you a favor by exiting out of the ship.
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She tryna Monkey Bar me (Hang on to her EX until she's sure about me). She got me fucked up...
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"If you needed something, I'd go to my EX for you"



are you making up shit?

what did you say? you do realize you need to say something OUT LOUD to her, not just to us, right?
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And whats makes you think I didn't? You must have missed the part where I said I flipped out and she stopped talking to me right?..Understandable,probably eager to right your next douchie remark...I get it.
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No we're going through this merry go round and we finally get to a point where I'm like you should go to the Doc??_By this time, she had started to bleed so we thought it was a wrap but she kept feeling sick..No at this point, Wednesday..she tells me she got an appointment on Friday because she was getting nervous herself and made an appointment. Friday comes..I notice around 12 that she hadn't mentioned the Doctors and seemed to be at work because we were doing our usual chatting online. So I bring up the Doctors appointment and she's like what appointment..I'm like the Doctors appoint. She's like Oh, that's tomorrow..I'm like Oh (I had already checked the messages prior to confirm she told me Friday before I even asked her about the appointment.) Then 10 minutes later (I assume she checks the messages) she's like oh, you??re right..its Friday, I forgot. I let it slide and brush it off..she then goes on Sunday which I thought was odd but she has Kaiser so I don't know for sure how they work so I let that go too??_But we had another discussion in which she says she's a horrible liar and then I immediately think of all the inconstancies she told me..Am I buggin?



First question, why are you wasting your time? Second, why are you wasting your time without a condom? Too personal? You put it out there. Well, from what you shared there are a few holes and she is also trying to manipulate you (based on what you shared). How does a woman not remember she has a doctor's appointment? So no, I don't think you're wrong. may I also add that I don't think you really want this girl because when you caught her lying you didn't call her on it, not to mention all this other stuff about going half on herbs and whatnot ( classic!)when she tried to get you to commit to her and basically pay her way through life. That says to me you you're not too interested in making this permanent and could care less that she was lyin' because your just in it for the sex. So keep it there, but double wrap your knob.
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this thread annoys me.




Anyhow..she said she "transport" shit for him..Not sure what it is though. I didn't bother to ask.
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What's wrong with you? Are you waiting for the police or this dude to boot stomp her door while you're in there buck naked? I agree you don't need to know, but I strongly suggest you let her go....
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this thread annoys me.




Anyhow..she said she "transport" shit for him..Not sure what it is though. I didn't bother to ask.



What's wrong with you? Are you waiting for the police or this dude to boot stomp her door while you're in there buck naked? I agree you don't need to know, but I strongly suggest you let her go....
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Man..You're my favorite poster by far. I laughed at all your posts LMAO. You're right..I'm not particularly hurt about the situation since I made an effort not to go hard and invest much. And I dropped the ball in the condom area lol. That butt naked line killed me!! hahahaha
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( i didn't do things like see if she was hungry when I grab a bite to eat from somewhere or something like that..I mean, she wasn't my girl so I didn't think about it...)

^abusive gaslighting. She wants you to adjust your reality to fit hers. Btw...close to an ex....who cares if she omitted information you probably should know(didn't lie by omission...just didn't tell you)? She's a game playing, abusive little bugger. Ghost her presence in your life and phone.
If you're ruthless...you'll do it cold turkey. Say nothing..no fb status, no tweet, no call, no text...even ignore her when she does...



Its already a done deal bro...