Do scorp do this?

Ok.My exgirl friend is a scorp and we have not been together for a while i'll say almost 8 months. she said she needed some space and we never got back together since then,but i do call her on the phone from time to time to check on her.Then i decided to ask her if she wanted to hangout. surprisingly she said sure which we did yesterday. Now i asked her y she ended the relationship months back and her reply was " i dont want to talk about it i just want to move on" then i asked if she was trying to get back with me and she did not say anything. Before she got out of the car i told her that i love her and she replied " love u too". I was shocked.Now my question is
1)Was there a time maybe she was with someone and she felt she made a mistake?
2) if she wanted us back y did she not say so y did i have to initiate it?
Also me telling her that i love her, i was not serious about it. Was she serious when she replied? cos she will never say something she does not mean.

My opinion is that she means it when she says she still loves you but it doesn't sound like she wants to be with you at this time. What's your sign?

Yes, I have an ex- matter as a fact two of them and still tell me they love me and I am only friends with both of them, I say it back becuase I do love them both as friends and thats it

I am the same way I have an ex or two that I love, but not "in love with" per se. So we are very capable of caring for and even loving people of our past but don't get it twisted.

Just friends..

ps. when I tell my ex I don't want to talk about it it's not because I did something wrong it's because he's getting on my nerves, it's emotionally draining, I'm tired of going around in circles and the situation can't be resolved.

"and secondly,if she cheated,and I'm not saying she did......she probably feels guilty and would be afraid or to bad about it to initiate it.
why am I answering on the scorpio board? I don't know."

They were separated for 8 months. If she was involved with someone else that wouldn't classify as cheating... She seems to love him but not be "in love" with him. Simple.

"ps. when I tell my ex I don't want to talk about it it's not because I did something wrong it's because he's getting on my nerves, it's emotionally draining, I'm tired of going around in circles and the situation can't be resolved."

Agreed.

Women are insane. Let's just make that clear.


Men are stupid, women are insane. No matter the sign.

We met today and she was with her mom.Her mom was asking y i haven't show up at their place all this while. before i could say anything she said we re taking thing slow. I later asked wat she meant, to my understanding her mom thinks we got back together in july. i was upset and asked her y she gave this attitude and said " wat u dont know wont kill u just drop it.If u want to go u can go" I like her alot but this her sayings is so not making me to be serious with her. i'll just do the do and not pay no attention to her.
By the way i am a Libra!

Um, if she's telling people you're in a relationship, but then won't discuss it with YOU...that's pretty shitty. How is that even remotely acceptable?

Sounds like she's using you to keep her parents chill or something. I'd walk if I were you.

So what's this story about? I'm lost.


Looks like it's only a paragraph. Perhaps I'll go back and read it.

LOL Just read the OP's last comment, SS. Something's rotten in Denmark.

"I later asked wat she meant, to my understanding her mom thinks we got back together in july. i was upset and asked her y she gave this attitude and said " wat u dont know wont kill u just drop it."

Find a way to tell her Mother that you are "Not" together.

she's being evil just leave her alone.

fyi: once you do she'll probably want you back.

Wow, for some reason I knew you were a libra. We scorp women just do things to you guys that other woman can't seem to do. Atleast that is what I have been told by 3 Libras in my past including my ex husband. Funny.

Well, i think i've moved on but not completely.The only reason i still keep talking to her is to see if i could still get her to my bed,because i feel she cut the relationship when i was not ready. i guess if i can get her one more time i'll be just fine to close the chapter. I know thats wat im waiting for. Any advise on that...lol!

Not for a while just once and i'll be very satisfied!!!

Hope it makes you feel better...somehow I dont think so! Revenge just leaves a bitter taste in you mouth!!

ignore her. start seeing other women. my guess is that she'll be back.

@someone Im seeing other women, its just that i gave in so much in the relationship and it seems i cant find anyone to fill in the big hole. Thats why i think maybe if i can get her i'll be fine. but ignoring her i'll definitely look in to that.

"@someone Im seeing other women, its just that i gave in so much in the relationship and it seems i cant find anyone to fill in the big hole. Thats why i think maybe if i can get her i'll be fine. but ignoring her i'll definitely look in to that."


Uhhh, you don't only want to shag her once more. You love her and want her back period. Deal with it or move on. Simple.

@ Queen i dont want her back. I know that for sure. like i said i gave to much and dont feel right about how it ended. I feel she got the upper hand which she did and i need that spot back.