does scorpio man contact ex actively after breakup?

If yes, what is the reason?

I was kinda surprise when I got his messages, after he sent me his video then he asked about my day, I replied him back like "well, not bad, and you?" He sent me back a photo of him and his friend and told me where he is travelling.

I still feel not comfort since he broke up with me. I am not wanna to let him know my life now. Finally I didn't reply him anymore, because I feel scare if he just keep me around him.

What do you think?

Posted by tinamaxblack


What do you think?

I think this:

Posted by tinamaxblack
I am not wanna to let him know my life now.

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suggest you're lying to yourself. If it were true his reason wouldn't matter.

Who broke up with who? What's the story?

Posted by ScorpFemme
Who broke up with who? What's the story?

He broke up with me, my post here: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/do-you-believe-that-a-scorpio-man-says-can-start-again--8758232/?checkpg=1)

I thought should I contact him as normal, because we still have projects later, but I confused and was busy. After a few days he sent me his video then ask my day. That was kinda surprise.

Now everyone may say I still like him and want he back, I admit I like him but not sure want him back. I feel he doesn't tell me his things honestly, that including he still friend with his ex (not only texting). I want to trust him but somehow just... I feel he is not honest.

I broke up with my ex and we chat almost every day?

Yes, but can you recognize that a man broke up with his ex, but keep staying as a best friend for 2 years and travel somewhere together?

He told me he was travelling, but just let me know he travels with friend. He showed me some photos only him and never show photos with somebody in social media, but finally I found some photos from his ex, they were traveling sometime. That is so obvious to know because his ex shows photos in public.

At the beginning I tried to trust him and didn't ask him, but when he says go with "friend", that is so.. obvious.

Even though the day he broke with me (because I can't support him that time) He start to say his ex always support him what he did. Then I stayed calm and asked him, why he knows his ex still love him but not get together again, only stay as friend. He said, He had tried already but that is not work.

"Not Work" but still traveling together? I don't believe that at all.... Even He and I were staying together until broke up, he was texting with ex often. I think his ex still waiting him.

When I left, he sent me message and said something like ,"If you can support me, we can start again."

I think, Ohhhh man....Are you serious?

What do you think? Actually I really think he just keep someone around and not honest.

Posted by Scorpio123
I think Scorpios are so freaking controlling that he doesn't want you to forget him or even give you the chance to get over him.

Don't give him the chance, don't let this effortless effort he's making lead you to believe you should make up, make him face and live with his decision.

I think he wants to keep me around, but not really want to stay with me anymore. Man.

suggest you're lying to yourself. If it were true his reason wouldn't matter.

I may keep lying and just see what he is doing.

From what I've read, I wouldn't underestimate you having that Plan B exboyfriend waiting in the wings. No Scorpio I know would be comfortable with that. He might try to be understanding, but when push comes to shove he will expect you to be all in. And that means completely letting the ex go. Like not even thinking about the ex---Scorpio will feel that energy for sure.

So what I'm seeing here is a little mirroring. He's off with his ex-gf. How do you like it. You give Scorpio game? We'll show you how it's played.

I have to disagree with the ones who think he's trying to control you so you won't let go while he's off moving on. The man said he would like to start again with you. In my experience, a Scorpio won't say something they don't mean. Most Scorpios think very carefully and choose their words carefully. We might not say a lot, but when we do pay very close attention to what we say. We know exactly what we say and why we say it. The key here is what this guy said to you. Do you fully understand what he's saying? If you think you do but aren't sure, ask him to be clear. Love it or hate it, a typical Scorpio is blunt and honest to a fault when asked a direct question.

Posted by tinamaxblack

suggest you're lying to yourself. If it were true his reason wouldn't matter.

I may keep lying and just see what he is doing.

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Worst idea ever. Honestly, if you think this way, you have zero chance with this guy. Also expect to be stung like a motherfucker when he fins out you are a liar.

What are his other placements?

He only show his travel photos in instagram, as I see, only himself in photos or videos. Then I found someone(his ex) comments on his photos all the time. He only shows photos with his dude friends, less girls.

But I found other photos in his ex fb, the wired thing is, he didn't comment at all, but he do share some posts with her.

Posted by ScorpFemme
From what I've read, I wouldn't underestimate you having that Plan B exboyfriend waiting in the wings. No Scorpio I know would be comfortable with that. He might try to be understanding, but when push comes to shove he will expect you to be all in. And that means completely letting the ex go. Like not even thinking about the ex---Scorpio will feel that energy for sure.

So what I'm seeing here is a little mirroring. He's off with his ex-gf. How do you like it. You give Scorpio game? We'll show you how it's played.

I have to disagree with the ones who think he's trying to control you so you won't let go while he's off moving on. The man said he would like to start again with you. In my experience, a Scorpio won't say something they don't mean. Most Scorpios think very carefully and choose their words carefully. We might not say a lot, but when we do pay very close attention to what we say. We know exactly what we say and why we say it. The key here is what this guy said to you. Do you fully understand what he's saying? If you think you do but aren't sure, ask him to be clear. Love it or hate it, a typical Scorpio is blunt and honest to a fault when asked a direct question.

Thanks for your reply. I know even my ex still keep contacting me, but I never do something let my boyfriend feel my ex still here or do more. I don't like make someone who like me feel jealous.

At least I don't think travel with ex is Normal. He didn't tell me he was traveling with ex, but his ex is already posted photos in fb.

That was after a week when he dumped me, he said would start again. If he dumped me with his reasons in that time, I think he was already know what he said. But changed it in a week? I confuse.

Of course I like him so much, I tried to understand him and ask him what's happening between us before. If he was telling me he hangs out with some female friends, I felt good and he behaved honest.

But travel with ex didn't tell me when we were in relationship, I don't know should I trust him by this point. The main point is, he knows his ex still loves him.

Since his last message with his photo, I didn't texted him back again. I stay calm and keep working. I do miss him by my side and let him do something he wants.

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Posted by tinamaxblack

suggest you're lying to yourself. If it were true his reason wouldn't matter.

I may keep lying and just see what he is doing.

Worst idea ever. Honestly, if you think this way, you have zero chance with this guy. Also expect to be stung like a motherfucker when he fins out you are a liar.

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I am lying to myself. I don't know should i contact him.

Whats your problem? i mean explain in short what bothers u and what u want?

I did't feel good with him, because he keeps contacting and travelling with his ex. I think travelling with ex is not Normal. And his ex shows all photos in public.

I think, a good boy-friend may not act too much with exes, should let girl-friend feel comfort.

I talk with my ex all the time?but of course not too much interaction?if he loves u he should hang out with her more rarely

I do remember some posts I have posted here before and you've replied. I could understand sometime stay friend with exes that is still understandable. But travelling.. no, no way can see this is a good sign at all.

Since we were dating until we broke up. He emphasizes just stay friend with her and the relationship with her is not work anymore. Sorry for that, I doubt.

That why I still like him, but I don't know how to reply him after he texted.

Posted by Arielle83
yes he does

does he cheating on me?

U have your own opinion?just say to him what u think about that,if he likes u he will listen and spend less time with his ex,if not......

Yes, Thanks for your replies anyway.

Before I have tried to understand him, he answered me when I asked.

For now, I confuse what he really wants. I do care why he said "can start again', is it the same thing what I am thinking.