Figuring out this scorpio man

So I've been seeing this guy for a month. Things were super good in the beginning, basically send paragraph texts to each other picking minds, always wanting to hang out and be around each other. and now things have seemed a bit off, last weekend he slept over and stayed over the whole next day, almost a full 24hrs. ever since he's been a little weird or more distant.. less texting less snap chatting, just different.. (or maybe I'm just over thinking)

any one else experience this? any advice? I'm not sure if this is him backing off bc its too much to soon or him trying to figure things out, I a little scared to ask and scare him away.

his chart:

virgo rising

scorpio sun (3rd house)

pisces moon (7th house)

scorpio mercury (2nd house)

scorpio venus (in Rx) (2nd house)

leo mars (11th house)

scorpio jupiter (3rd house)

pisces saturn (6th house)

I am a cancer sun (9th), leo moon (10th), cancer mercury (9th), virgo venus (10th), gemini mars (8th), scorpio jupiter (1st), pisces saturn (5th), and libra rising

thanks so much

He may be feeling secure and comfortable in the relationship. It's impossible to keep up the constant texts and Snapchat stories, after awhile, you get settled.

Thats a valid point... we are definitely done with the "chasing" i would say... maybe he no longer feels the need to try and impress me or what not? hmm... i dont know.. maybe

Posted by Deedee86
He may be feeling secure and comfortable in the relationship. It's impossible to keep up the constant texts and Snapchat stories, after awhile, you get settled.

Posted by leolovee
So I've been seeing this guy for a month. Things were super good in the beginning, basically send paragraph texts to each other picking minds, always wanting to hang out and be around each other. and now things have seemed a bit off, last weekend he slept over and stayed over the whole next day, almost a full 24hrs. ever since he's been a little weird or more distant.. less texting less snap chatting, just different.. (or maybe I'm just over thinking)

any one else experience this? any advice? I'm not sure if this is him backing off bc its too much to soon or him trying to figure things out, I a little scared to ask and scare him away.

his chart:

virgo rising

scorpio sun (3rd house)

pisces moon (7th house)

scorpio mercury (2nd house)

scorpio venus (2nd house)

leo mars (11th house)

scorpio jupiter (3rd house)

pisces saturn (6th house)

I am a cancer sun (9th), leo moon (10th), cancer mercury (9th), virgo venus (10th), gemini mars (8th), scorpio jupiter (1st), pisces saturn (5th), and libra rising

thanks so much

He might have fallen in love with a fidget spinner.

hing he's currently obsessed with his video games and sleeping.. and getting high.. sounds like i caught a real catch..

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by leolovee
So I've been seeing this guy for a month. Things were super good in the beginning, basically send paragraph texts to each other picking minds, always wanting to hang out and be around each other. and now things have seemed a bit off, last weekend he slept over and stayed over the whole next day, almost a full 24hrs. ever since he's been a little weird or more distant.. less texting less snap chatting, just different.. (or maybe I'm just over thinking)

any one else experience this? any advice? I'm not sure if this is him backing off bc its too much to soon or him trying to figure things out, I a little scared to ask and scare him away.

his chart:

virgo rising

scorpio sun (3rd house)

pisces moon (7th house)

scorpio mercury (2nd house)

scorpio venus (2nd house)

leo mars (11th house)

scorpio jupiter (3rd house)

pisces saturn (6th house)

I am a cancer sun (9th), leo moon (10th), cancer mercury (9th), virgo venus (10th), gemini mars (8th), scorpio jupiter (1st), pisces saturn (5th), and libra rising

thanks so much

He might have fallen in love with a fidget spinner.

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Posted by leolovee

Posted by Whorpio
He might have fallen in love with a fidget spinner.

Ha.. if anything he's currently obsessed with his video games and sleeping.. and getting high.. sounds like i caught a real catch..

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Wow! A Scorpio who isn't obsessed with fidget spinning? You are so lucky!

For real tho, I agree with Dee, but at the same time I think most Scorpio men under 30 aren't the best mates. Even after 30 they can be scummy. Just ask @Gemitati.

Correction: he has Venus in Scorpio (Rx) in his 3rd house

He's probably just re-charging his battery.

true

Posted by 13th
He's probably just re-charging his battery.

good point

Posted by bubblebath
since he practically spent the whole day with you and he could need space. things come slowly

@WolfInRamsClothing, well what do i do in the mean time? just wait and be patient? or take it as he's over it? Im fine with waiting as long as i know he's still in it but, its hard to tell

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Oh, that's a normal thing for a Scorp. Intense at first, then goes distant, disappearing act comes next. Then he comes back with a new, great force.

ya definitely am not trying to do that. we've hardly hung out since. got milkshakes wednesday. met him out after work at the bar friday for like 1hr before he went home bc he was too tired. and then saturday we were gonna hang but he was too tired again. so who knows. thank you tho, i need to remind myself to not cling bc it happens

Posted by GC01
Sounds like he is just trying to give you a healthy amount of space and not overwhelm you. 24 hours together can be great but you also don't want to rush things and come off overly clingy. Ya know?

(Coming from another cancer girl)

do you mind me asking, why is that?

Posted by Lala1393
We need time to recharge ojr batteries after so much intensity

Posted by GC01

Posted by leolovee
ya definitely am not trying to do that. we've hardly hung out since. got milkshakes wednesday. met him out after work at the bar friday for like 1hr before he went home bc he was too tired. and then saturday we were gonna hang but he was too tired again. so who knows. thank you tho, i need to remind myself to not cling bc it happens

Posted by GC01
Sounds like he is just trying to give you a healthy amount of space and not overwhelm you. 24 hours together can be great but you also don't want to rush things and come off overly clingy. Ya know?

(Coming from another cancer girl)

Yesss girl I know it can be hard, but he wouldn't be spending all that time with you if he wasn't interested.

Just brainstorming....maybe he needs to be teased a little bit? Coming off too available can make some guys lose a little interest. You should cancel plans and pretend to have some thing important to do.

I could be giving you horrible advice though since I've never been with a Scorpio lol only air and one earth.

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I've already kinda teased with some good ass snapchats and stuff and he has no reaction to it at all.. so I'm just at a loss. oh well i guess