How to know if a Scorpio man lost interest?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by _kirinni_ on Thursday, June 29, 2017 and has 24 replies.

Signs a Scorpio Man Has Lost Interest

A Scorpio man may lose interest by reducing communication, becoming emotionally distant, or avoiding conversations. He might also stop making plans or show less engagement. If he ignores your messages and avoids discussing feelings, it could indicate he's no longer interested. However, Scorpio men value honesty, so they may also tell you directly if they are no longer invested.

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Hey what are some signs or reasons that a Scorpio man would loose interests?

The guy I know, we went from talking to everyday, to talking 5 times a week to 2 times a week to nothing now.

I did tell him before hand, that if I ever annoyed him or him finding me annoying, that he would tell me or if he lost interest to tell me but he hasn't been the same. If he fell in love with another girl, would a Scorpio usually tell the girl that likes them that they found someone else or would they ignore them? Cause he knows I like him. He says my innocence amazes him but that's all. He gets worried and asks what has happened and then sees the message and ignores

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by lesenfantterribles
what is the time span in the decrease of communication?

i will usually stop putting contact in with the other person and if they press me enough, i will express i am not interested anymore. but, i dont like to be pressed so it usually comes out in an annoyed "leave me the fuck alone" kinda way.

to me, haulting communication seems like enough of a sign that the other person should pick up on. like, i've stopped talking to you, how much more of a sign do you need??

It's been almost a month now. So you wouldn't tell the other person that you're no longer interested?

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@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Whorpio
Lol. Just lol.

Lolololol ? Lol for what?

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This question has been asked a million times ??

I'll say it before and I'll say it again, he's not interested, but he doesn't want to completely shut you down just in case he needs you in the future. I'm not sure if it's a Scorpio thing or immature guys in general, but they will keep the door open a crack so if they lose their primary source of ego boost they have someone else to receive it from.

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
If he ignores your messages.

True. Yet he replied like a week later after seeing my messages and then repeat again

If you wanna know he cares mirror his actions.

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I have done that. I deactivated my account and didn't talk to him for a few days. He saw my last messages but obviously couldn't message. When I came online again after a few days I posted pics on my messenger on the day thingy. He saw them all but again didn't reply back since he knew I came back.

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by lesenfantterribles

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Posted by lesenfantterribles
what is the time span in the decrease of communication?

i will usually stop putting contact in with the other person and if they press me enough, i will express i am not interested anymore. but, i dont like to be pressed so it usually comes out in an annoyed "leave me the fuck alone" kinda way.

to me, haulting communication seems like enough of a sign that the other person should pick up on. like, i've stopped talking to you, how much more of a sign do you need??

It's been almost a month now. So you wouldn't tell the other person that you're no longer interested?

to me, a month is a short amount of time so, i would absolutely ghost someone i am not interested in anymore.

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What do you mean by ghost someone?

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by tiziani
If it's just been talking then you'd have to say he's not interested.

It's not talking, but more like flirting. He opens up to me. Not a typical Scorpio guy. He tells me everything about himself. His past, his family and friends. But now he is just so distant

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
If he ignores your messages.

True. Yet he replied like a week later after seeing my messages and then repeat again

If you wanna know he cares mirror his actions.

I have done that. I deactivated my account and didn't talk to him for a few days. He saw my last messages but obviously couldn't message. When I came online again after a few days I posted pics on my messenger on the day thingy. He saw them all but again didn't reply back since he knew I came back.

Be direct cause if he cares he will not let you go just like that I know I wouldn't.

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Since the day we started talking until today the only thing I was being with him was direct and honest

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by tiziani

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by tiziani
If it's just been talking then you'd have to say he's not interested.

It's not talking, but more like flirting. He opens up to me. Not a typical Scorpio guy. He tells me everything about himself. His past, his family and friends. But now he is just so distant

Same answer though still from me, not to be insensitive to you.

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It's alright

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
If he ignores your messages.

True. Yet he replied like a week later after seeing my messages and then repeat again

If you wanna know he cares mirror his actions.

I have done that. I deactivated my account and didn't talk to him for a few days. He saw my last messages but obviously couldn't message. When I came online again after a few days I posted pics on my messenger on the day thingy. He saw them all but again didn't reply back since he knew I came back.

Be direct cause if he cares he will not let you go just like that I know I wouldn't.

Since the day we started talking until today the only thing I was being with him was direct and honest

Ask him why he's doing all this things in a calm way and if he refuses to give you a straight answer I'll let his ass go if I were you.

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You're right. I have sent him a message a few mins ago but it was only sent and not delivered. I'll wait but if he comes online and still ignores it, then bye bye for him

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@13th
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Whorpio
Lol. Just lol.

Lolololol ? Lol for what?

This question has been asked a million times ??

I'll say it before and I'll say it again, he's not interested, but he doesn't want to completely shut you down just in case he needs you in the future. I'm not sure if it's a Scorpio thing or immature guys in general, but they will keep the door open a crack so if they lose their primary source of ego boost they have someone else to receive it from.

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double bingo

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by lesenfantterribles

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Posted by tiziani
If it's just been talking then you'd have to say he's not interested.

It's not talking, but more like flirting. He opens up to me. Not a typical Scorpio guy. He tells me everything about himself. His past, his family and friends. But now he is just so distant

opening up emotionally is not a totally absurd idea, when it comes to scorpios. we ARE intensely emotional people. just bc he opened up about his parents & past doesn't mean he is invested in building a relationship with you.

i talk about my life experiences w/ people, friends & strangers, all the time. it is how i relate to others. and i think how most people relate to others?

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Not me doe. I'm a female Scorpio woman with Pisces ascendant. I don't open up early unless they have earned my trust and he has. Now that he knows about my past he ignores me? Wen he knows how terrible the felt? Maybe I'm just over reacting with him..

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
If he ignores your messages.

True. Yet he replied like a week later after seeing my messages and then repeat again

If you wanna know he cares mirror his actions.

I have done that. I deactivated my account and didn't talk to him for a few days. He saw my last messages but obviously couldn't message. When I came online again after a few days I posted pics on my messenger on the day thingy. He saw them all but again didn't reply back since he knew I came back.

Be direct cause if he cares he will not let you go just like that I know I wouldn't.

Since the day we started talking until today the only thing I was being with him was direct and honest

Ask him why he's doing all this things in a calm way and if he refuses to give you a straight answer I'll let his ass go if I were you.

You're right. I have sent him a message a few mins ago but it was only sent and not delivered. I'll wait but if he comes online and still ignores it, then bye bye for him

There's a 99.9% chance he will not tell you if there's another female in the picture tho.

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You're right at that too. Why are guys such a pain in the ass?

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by AneemA08

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Posted by lesenfantterribles

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by lesenfantterribles
what is the time span in the decrease of communication?

i will usually stop putting contact in with the other person and if they press me enough, i will express i am not interested anymore. but, i dont like to be pressed so it usually comes out in an annoyed "leave me the fuck alone" kinda way.

to me, haulting communication seems like enough of a sign that the other person should pick up on. like, i've stopped talking to you, how much more of a sign do you need??

It's been almost a month now. So you wouldn't tell the other person that you're no longer interested?

to me, a month is a short amount of time so, i would absolutely ghost someone i am not interested in anymore.

What do you mean by ghost someone?

Dissapear, bebeh, into a thin air.

You know what, I have a better advice. Why don't you just do your own thang. The best to all situations and conditions. 100% guarantee.

The sooner you stop your focus on him, the better you'll feel.

Good luck!

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You're right too. Thank you I'll do that ☺️

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@_kirinni_
9 Years

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
If he ignores your messages.

True. Yet he replied like a week later after seeing my messages and then repeat again

If you wanna know he cares mirror his actions.

I have done that. I deactivated my account and didn't talk to him for a few days. He saw my last messages but obviously couldn't message. When I came online again after a few days I posted pics on my messenger on the day thingy. He saw them all but again didn't reply back since he knew I came back.

Be direct cause if he cares he will not let you go just like that I know I wouldn't.

Since the day we started talking until today the only thing I was being with him was direct and honest

Ask him why he's doing all this things in a calm way and if he refuses to give you a straight answer I'll let his ass go if I were you.

You're right. I have sent him a message a few mins ago but it was only sent and not delivered. I'll wait but if he comes online and still ignores it, then bye bye for him

There's a 99.9% chance he will not tell you if there's another female in the picture tho.

You're right at that too. Why are guys such a pain in the ass?

lol I'm not a pain in the ass I used to.

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Hahahaha Lolz

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@Dolluxxe
9 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by _kirinni_

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
If he ignores your messages.

True. Yet he replied like a week later after seeing my messages and then repeat again

If you wanna know he cares mirror his actions.

THIS.

It's true.

I'm not even a scorp but I do it too. Helps me weed out the boys from the men.

lol it works when I used to do it but when someone does it to me I always say that's cute.

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Lol you scorpio men are adorbs.