Does this relationship have a chance to blossom into love

I met this guy he is a scorpio and I am A pisces female at a Karaoke party (organised for singletons). We hit it off very well and while he was talking to a lot of women he kept coming back to me to talk. Before the party got over he asked me out, his exact words were "you are the most interesting person here , can I take you out for coffee but as a friend". I agreed because I just found it very sweet and charming. We started with coffee and then went on to have more beers. He had mentioned he liked one girl at the party and took her no. He took my no as well. The evening was good because we must have shared every aspect of our personal lives. Post that he asked me out again and the entire month we met. During the course he got me introduced to all his close associates. Yes, one close friend had asked him on our second date if he was seeing me but he said no. But he has asked me out every weekend and wach date has lasted 5 hrs. The discussions have been very deep and personal.



He had to travel overseas for 1 month and he told me he will stay in touch with me.To this day ( he is due to return in 15 days) he has stayed in touch with me every single day. He lightly mentioned on sunday that his close friend has introduced him to his gorgeous sister who is very nice. I ignored that comment ,although I admit I was a but taken a back. But on Monday he called me early morning and showed me around his apartment on a video call.

Yesterday night i.e Tuesday out of the blue he mentioned "I am getting ready for a date, wish me luck". I was upset and I didn't reply. He returned at 1 am and messaged "I am back home, you have not replied, hope I have not upset you."

I replied well yes , I have developed feelings for you and hence was upset.

He replied saying I am sorry if I have misled you,it was un intentional hope we can move beyond this. Please do take your time.

I replied I hope so too and I am sorry as well.

He replied after a coupleof hours "no way am I going to let you walk out of my life 🙂 don't even think about it. Remember trye friendship lasts forever"

I am wondering if I screwed up by telling him my feelings and I don't want to be his friend. We connect so well. He confides in me .. Will this ever develop into a love relationship?

Did he show some seductive body language (lingering eye contact, lower softer voice, leaning near you, giving you lots of attention), while you were going out with him? Did it feel like a date, minus the obvious kissing, and touching.

Or was he being friendly ? buddy like? (or perhaps vulnerable and sad? so he needed someone to confide in?)



I'm asking because he clearly pointed out he wanted to be Friends Only. He did apoligize for misleading you (but perhaps he wanted you to read into things??)

If his actions mismatches his words, I would be careful. Trust me.



Some guys like to feed off of your 'emotions' even the negative ones if it evolves around them (you being upset about him mentioning his date with another girl)..

Thanks that's what I plan to do. But the ither number that he took tht night never materialised and he met me every week. I felt something when he left the country because He flooded me on viber with his pics every single day till yesterday. He would tell me minutest detail and that led me to belive that there is omething serious brewing

Tell him that the only way you will continue talking to him is if he wants to be exclusive. Because if you settle for anything less, he is just going to waste your time.

Thanks that's what I plan to do. But the ither number that he took tht night never materialised and he met me every week. I felt something when he left the country because He flooded me on viber with his pics every single day till yesterday. He would tell me minutest detail and that led me to belive that there is omething serious brewing. Especially if he messaging u first thing when he wakes up and last thing when he sleeps.

Where does he go whom does he meet u dont tell a 'buddy' whom you have met just last month.

Posted by Silvousplait
I met this guy he is a scorpio and I am A pisces female at a Karaoke party (organised for singletons). We hit it off very well and while he was talking to a lot of women he kept coming back to me to talk. Before the party got over he asked me out, his exact words were "you are the most interesting person here , can I take you out for coffee but as a friend". I agreed because I just found it very sweet and charming. We started with coffee and then went on to have more beers. He had mentioned he liked one girl at the party and took her no. He took my no as well. The evening was good because we must have shared every aspect of our personal lives. Post that he asked me out again and the entire month we met. During the course he got me introduced to all his close associates. Yes, one close friend had asked him on our second date if he was seeing me but he said no. But he has asked me out every weekend and wach date has lasted 5 hrs. The discussions have been very deep and personal.



He had to travel overseas for 1 month and he told me he will stay in touch with me.To this day ( he is due to return in 15 days) he has stayed in touch with me every single day. He lightly mentioned on sunday that his close friend has introduced him to his gorgeous sister who is very nice. I ignored that comment ,although I admit I was a but taken a back. But on Monday he called me early morning and showed me around his apartment on a video call.

Yesterday night i.e Tuesday out of the blue he mentioned "I am getting ready for a date, wish me luck". I was upset and I didn't reply. He returned at 1 am and messaged "I am back home, you have not replied, hope I have not upset you."

I replied well yes , I have developed feelings for you and hence was upset.

He replied saying I am sorry if I have misled you,it was un intentional hope we can move beyond this. Please do take your time.

I replied I hope so too and I am sorry as well.

He replied after a coupleof hours "no way am I going to let you walk out of my life 🙂 don't even think about it. Remember trye friendship lasts forever"

I am wondering if I screwed up by telling him my feelings and I don't want to be his friend. We connect so well. He confides in me .. Will this ever develop into a love relationship?

He's fucking with your head....move on. Men who want you don't relish in telling females they're interested in about dates with other women.

Hi this is an update on my last post. So, being friendzoned I have naturally stepped back. But this guy is now chasing me!!

He first messaged me that "thou art is forbidden to be angry or upset with your's truly. By order vladimir putin". Since he is in Russia

I replied " say my Hi to Vladi, and get a signed mug from him"

And today he is sending me his holiday pcs and selfies..

Who doea that?

He is just your FRIEND...he is going out on dates, calling another girl hot in front of u, telling sorry for MISleading u...

Many people do share many things with their friends...he is not doing anything different

well he is taking u out on dates every weekend coz he is liking your company

And how do u know that he is not chatting with other girls? How can u be so sure?

And with the update, he thinks u may be upset or angry so he is checking up on u...thats what friends do

He's very fond of you as a friend.

Posted by notsosure
If a scorpio is chasing, everybody will know for sure lol

lol

Posted by notsosure
If a scorpio is chasing, everybody will know for sure lol

This is very very true!

Posted by Silvousplait
Hi this is an update on my last post. So, being friendzoned I have naturally stepped back. But this guy is now chasing me!!

He first messaged me that "thou art is forbidden to be angry or upset with your's truly. By order vladimir putin". Since he is in Russia

I replied " say my Hi to Vladi, and get a signed mug from him"

And today he is sending me his holiday pcs and selfies..

Who doea that?

From the OP to this post and all the daydreams in between, you really are simply seeing what you want to see. Starting with calling the times you hang out as "dates" to claiming the man is "chasing" you simply because he wants to maintain the friendship he thought he was developing, you clearly are not on the same page.

As for f*cking with your head. I'm not seeing how he's done that when the first thing he said before asking for your number was he merely wanted a friendship.

So basically, you failed to set appropriate boundaries because you want more. That isn't his issue to work through, it's yours.

This won't end well....

Personally, I think you are his "entertainment" for the month, I have a hard time classifying this as a real and significant friendship just because you all shared deep and personal stories in your month or so time knowing each other. It is easy for us water signs, especially Pisces and Scorpios to go deep and heavy fast if we find someone intriguing or feel that special "i have known you all my life," connection BUT just because we open up to you does not mean we are in love. Personally, i find it easier sharing deep stories with people I have only known for a short while over people I have known my whole life.

Anyway. The fact that he is actively telling you about other women is not him trying to be insensitive or make you jealous, I suspect he is trying to SHOW YOU that he ONLY sees you as a friend. People do that "wave other men and women" in their face when they suspect someone they dont like, likes them.