Does this Scorpio girl actually like me or not?

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Alright, first off she is technically a Scorpio-Sagittarius cusp, her birthday is November 19th, She has a sun in Scorpio, Moon in Aquarius, Mars in Sagittarius and a Venus in Scorpio.

She has been sending me so many confusing signals, I really can't figure out what she really wants. We go to school together, and I think that she likes me because she always notices my presence and she also stares at me a lot, she also fixes her clothing around me a lot and she also tosses her hair around me kinda like she is nervous. Anyways things just have become more confusing I always try to avoid looking in her eyes, which I know is bad to do with a Scorpio, but when I look into he eyes all my confidence seems to vanish and I am usually a confident guy, The few times we have talked she had either been nice or very nervous acting, recently there was a day where she sat in front of me to work on some class work with another guy, and I was surprised because she usually kinda wants to keep distance between us because she acts very nervous around me, and she kept turning around asking me questions, she was being surprisingly more assertive than usual, and she kept fixing her clothing the whole time she was in front of me, to I think get my attention, We were waiting to leave the classroom and she was like standing right behind me right on top of me, I said oh sorry because we were so close, and she said sorry but after that kept the close contact, so than the next day we were in a different room for class, and class was ending, and I turned around quickly to look at her to see if she was looking because she sat behind me, and I somewhat startled her I guess, because she saw that I caught her looking and she got up and pretty much left that area as fast as she could, which I was confused about, than the next day we were in the same area, and it was the end of class and I was standing up waiting to leave, and I was spacing out distracted by something, and she was right in front of me, looking at me and she smiled, I averted eye contact which I knew was stupid to do, and I just looked at her mouth her smile wavered somewhat, and than I smiled, she than walked around me and was talking with a friend looking at a picture, and I wanted to ask her to see it, when I got somewhat close to her she started to act very nervous and fidgety, So I backed away and went toward the door. she than with her friend walked toward the door, and I could feel her gaze on me,it was strange, tha
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(continued from above) than, the next day she was acting kinda cold, we sit in rows in our class, and I sit two seats behind her, we were passed out papers, and I didn't get one, so she turned around, and asked did you get one? and I said no I didn't get one and smiled at her, and she smiled back but than turned around really quickly, I than said something again she turned around again, tried to say something to me, but couldn't finish, I was smiling again and she was smiling but she turned around quickly again, I was confused, at the end of class I was saying something to the teacher and she was the only one left in the class with me, I was walking toward the door where she was standing, and she was looking right at me, So I decided to compliment her, I said something about her outfit/her looking nice, she said oh thanks, like it wasn't a big deal, than I smiled and she smiled and kinda blushed, I than walked out the door found a friend and was walking down the hall with them, she was behind me with someone and I felt her gaze on me again. So I don't know do you think she like me? She is very hot and cold with me, she sometimes acts really nervous, but at other times acts really calm around me, we have a very intense sexual tension between us when we sit near each other, and she stared at me a lot. What do you think I should do any advice would be appreciated, I am cautious to approach her because I have heard that Scorpio like to control things and don't like direct flirting, that they like more subtle flirting, is that true?
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Posted by scorsagianX
As a scorp-sag cusper I have to say she likes you because shes always staring and the hot cold thing is because she's not sure if you like her the same so she does it so she doesn't look stupid if you ended up not liking her after all. If your not responding to her staring and smiling at you then that's when she goes cold. She's shy, so your going to have to take the initiative if you want to get to know her.



alright thank you very much for the advice.
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Posted by starlover
SO...did you ask her yet 🙂🙂....well you are an ARIES!! X



No I haven't, I tried flirting a little more, we sit farther away from each other, but she seemed cold today, and was acting more shy, I don't know, I don't want to scare her away, what do you think I should say to start a conversation with her? because we haven't talked a lot in general, we usually are just looking at each other a smiling at each other.
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SO...did you ask her yet 🙂🙂....well you are an ARIES!! X



No I haven't, I tried flirting a little more, we sit farther away from each other, but she seemed cold today, and was acting more shy, I don't know, I don't want to scare her away, what do you think I should say to start a conversation with her? because we haven't talked a lot in general, we usually are just looking at each other a smiling at each other.



Awws that sounds sweet...well maybe you could say, "hey do you wanna go get some coffee or something", just say it
casually and not appear toooo eager. the aries guy i am with, i approached him first, so it was easier. i find lots
of aries men are quite shy inside and remain this way till they are quite mature. Listen if she says no, which i dont
think she will, just take a deep breath and say "no problem, you cant blame me for asking" and then smile

hope that helps!
good luck!
aries and scorpio are something else together 🙂
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alright that sounds good thank you.
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Seriously, are you 12? Ask her out for a drink



It's not always easy for men to approach women, lots of them fear rejection
and feeling bad afterwards. Age has nothing to do with it...its a state of mind
actually



Pussy syndrome

She's flirting with him for crying out loud. He needs to quit playing games.

Him: Class is over at so and so right?
Her: Yeah
Him: Cool. Let's go grab a burger and five dollar milkshake at Jack Rabbit Slims after class.
Her: Okay

See how easy that is?
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thanks for the advice.
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Posted by Skylark
Oh I think she definitely likes you! No doubt! That's exactly how I would act if I really liked a guy. I get so nervous!!! I smile alot and blush and then the next day I'll be so cold because I'm completely embarrassed about the previous day and how I acted....because I don't know if the guy is really interested in me and I may have just made a fool out of myself.

HAHA yeah, I can be so strange sometimes.

Anyway, definitely ask her out. Show her you are interested! I think you will be pleasantly surprised. 🙂

Best of luck! Go get em! 🙂



I don't think it's strange the way Scorpios act, I think it is just difficult to pick up on, but regardless of how you act I think Scorpio girls especially are very attractive and amazing people inside and out. and thank you.