The Scorpion Way.....

For you Scorps out there & the people who love/hate them...What are your favorite traits about yourself & which one can you do without?! For friends/lovers/siblings & enemies what do you love/hate about them...let's see if the good traits out-weigh the bad or vice-versa...Scorpion minds wanna know!...Play nice!....=)

I love my passionate nature. I love my intensity, I love my eyes. I love that I'm extremely determined and I'm very black and white. I don't have any problems with my stubbornness. I HATE that I can be clingy and insecure.

^^^ Interesting stuff.

What I liked about my ex Scorpio:

I could stare into those eyes FOREVER! (I now understand how an entranced spider feels just before the female spider eats him and feeds him to her babies).
A natural in bed, or at least not shy in bed!
Confidence.
Shrewd with people -- very impressive (at times).

I am not a Scorpio, but my thoughts on what I didn't like about being with a Scorpio:

Shy about random things that even my most optimistic, we will save the world speech kinda talking, couldn't get a budge on. Be shy, but give me a frickin' bone, or act like I am helping the situation!
The stubborn streak mixed with my concern that if I avoided topics meant possible hurt feelings, was a paradox to even ponder, headache to think about for 10 minutes, and insanity to think beyond that.

All in all, I fell in love with my ex all over again when moving, so I will see if I get a round 2 later on in life with my ex.

My Scorp husband's best characteristics:

loyalty, compassion, trustworthiness, intelligence, sense of humor, intuitiveness, strong work ethic, fairness, determination, willingness to help everyone

The characteristics I could strange him for:

possessiveness, black-and-white way of seeing things (people are great or horrible), homebodiness, strange phobias, addictive tendencies, insistence on seeing the down side to everything, low social self-esteem

Posted by everevolvingepithet
"The characteristics I could strange him for:"
So you still want to wrap your arms around him even when you're mad 🙂

Ha ha...of course! Who can resist Mr Scorpio?

Posted by Skykomish
I love my passionate nature. I love my intensity, I love my eyes. I love that I'm extremely determined and I'm very black and white. I don't have any problems with my stubbornness. I HATE that I can be clingy and insecure.

I agree 200% !

@Skylark....when we recognise the things we don't like about ourself we have the power & the determination to change them! What are the things you love & embrace about yourself & the scorp's traits?...=)

I love my intensity, I love my passion,my drive,my dtermination to never give up..tell me I can't so I prove you wrong and have the last laugh...=)Ilove my intuition, my people instincts(excluding the ever eluding cancer!haha)I love my magnetism and how I can draw people to me without even trying to, my sex appeal,how I can speak with my eyes where no words are necessary. I love how I'm compassionate, my heart too big for my own good sometimes, I love that I'm loyal to default most times its a trait I've learned to embrace,I love how I am very protective to those I love especially my children and my significant other,family & friends alike, I love my personality...I'm a social butterfly..my outlook on life...I always manage to see the cup half full rather then half empty...I love that I'm independent and can always count on myself I don't have any doubts where me myself and my abilities are concerned, I love my playful spirit & my competitive ways..I love knowing my love is strong enough to withstand many a stormy weather and I love knowing my exes realize that fact still...just a little too late! It wasn't revenge...I just took the gift of me away! I love my need for space, I love how I can lock myself in my home for hours, days sometimes and entertain & enjoy my own company..basically I'm a scorp & I love me & most people I meet love me too! The things I know I dislike and because I know it I work hard to change on the daily!...I can be impulsive, I can be possesive, I always feel the need to be in control or I feel out of control...like I don't like flying...cause I'm not the pilot!! Hehe!I dislike that I can let my wild,vivid imagination run wild sometimes and get the best of me, I hate that I can be on the defense more then I'd like to be...not everyone is out to get me!!!I hate that I dislike confrontation in most cases and hate that it comes out in the extreme when the right buttons are pressed...

I hate that I can over analyze everything and replay bad moments over & over in my head..more then I can replay the good ones?! I love a mystery but dislike how I'm always trying to solve them...like I turn into this private eye chick! Hahaha...oh! And I love how I can always make my own self laugh out loud....I'm a riot sometimes! Hehe

When I was young, and my heart was an open book
I loved random moments where I jumped-in to save someone innocent.

I hated random moments where I have decided not to act because I
have learned that no good deed goes unpunished. Live & Let Die.