Experience with Libra?

Are Librans known for hardly if ever returning phone calls? I'm interested in this guy who happens to be Libra and we get along great. However, he hardly if ever does something when he says he is. Not big issues, but saying "Oh I'll call at 5" ends up being talking on AIM at 11 pm. Any advice on what to do would be appreciated.

damn, ive had an experience with a libra man, let me put it this way: tragic ending.

But that wasnt the point, libra men are like that..well not all..but maybe he was just "busy"? But if hes been constantly doing this then i suggest talking to him about it. I mean butter, if hes going to keep on doing that then how can anything grow you know? Maybe you should not get so attached to this guy, for all you know, you might just get stuck on this. Let him come to you. Dont wait, just do your own thing and put him as a side priority(not saying you have to totally neglect him). Because it seems like you guys are just starting out..dont know.. well this is all the advice i can give you for now, hope you and your libra man work out.

Thanks Luz, any advice is helpful. 🙂 I wasn't sure I was going to get my question answered for a while there.

I found out that he has Venus in Scorpio...would that have anything to do with him being mysterious?

Has any other Scorpios, or any sign in general, felt weird lately? Saturday was the start of me having this weird feeling, like something is not quite right.

Yeah. Well, my whole life was shattered on Saturday unexpectedly, so... 😢

And I wish I could give you some advice about the Libra but I only dated one Libra guy a while back and it was a very short relationship (he was an extremely controlling, vain, image-obsessed girly man. lol...you know, the type who uses more freaking gel in his hair than you do, the type who makes you wash his car for him, blah blah blah). I had a crush on another Libra once, a long time ago. But he went to jail, so needless to say that one didn't ever get the chance to take off.

😢 Phoenix, if you need to talk, or a shoulder to cry on, I'll listen. AIM: Scorpio8316

Damn, a Libra went to jail? Must've taken him forever to decide whether to break the law or not.

i dated this libra for a months a while back, but the girl lied too damn much and the sex wasn't even all that great. i don't know... yours may not be quite like that but i definitely wouldn't recommend them.

Hmm, he's very sexy. Did his chart, he has Mars and Venus in Scorpio. Is that good, bad, etc? Maybe I overreact, but it really bothers me when people aren't courteous enough to call back and let me know what's going on, so I won't be waiting.

yeah rusted... my libra man lied up the ass a lot. Coincidence? i dont think so..lol juuust kidding.

and scorpman! it seems like hes not really trying..but maybe thats not the case, i really dont know. But i agree, dont wait for him, its just going to bring A LOT of stress.

scorp guy, that was sweet of you--I'm adding you to my friends list. 🙂

and that was funny, about the libra..lol...he was involved with selling (and probably taking) methamphetamines...I've known a lot of addictive libras actually.

and i think if he's keeping you waiting, get rid of him, it's very un-courteous. Remember though that I am pretty bitter right now because of the way my guy was treating me. So I may just be angry at men in general right now. lol.

Phoenix angry at all men Den pissed at me I suggest all men meet at the pub Its the only way out.

Hey Phoenix, already sent him an email saying I give up. If he can't even be considerate now before anything has really started, it'll only be worse later on.

It's ok Phoenix, think of it this way -- people suck. Not just men. 🙂

Thanks for the advice April. lol, I loved reading your post, the way you express yourself is just like my favorite aunt.

However, do you know what's the worst? Someone on a Gemini/Cancer cusp. *ducks from Gems and Cancers*

i guess i'm thankful that i'm a taurus/gemini then o.o

Taurus/Gemini? Hmm..interesting combo.

actually i think one of my cousins is a cancer/gemini, she's actually very pleasant and cool to be around with o.o

hey, i dont think im that bad. sniff,sniff.

Libra female answers dilema:

The answer to your question is quite simple..
he seems to have gotten himself a bit too much on his plate this round, and may/ may not be able to come away clean from what he's doing to call you until he's cleared away the rut from his day. Libras are known for their tendency to want to balance many things at once.. they tend to take on too many things at points.. He may not be able to call you when he says he will, because he is either too preoccupied with all his doings, or he may just unintentionally forget until he is reminded of it later by his to do list. Late calls to you really are not because he thinks that you have been some sort of bad person original poster..so please do not take his forgetfulness to heart. If he's anything like I am, he's probably usually very swamped with work. My advise to you would be to approach him about it, so that he will make an extra effort to come out from under his work, and remember to see you. I think that he will, if you've made it a point to him that it bothers you. He'll probably then need to restructure his day a bit afterwards, but know that if he does, he has done it out of caring concern for you.. If you've known a few Lib's previously as friends, you'll know that they take a while to get things balanced just right, but once they've found a way, or firmed their decision, they will not come away from it easily.. and if he restrustures his daily workings for you..he, may have to start balancing all over again ..and imo..he then definitely cares about you..hope this helps.
J.
By the way, his Venus in Scorpio, I've found refers to his sexual passion, (since you're also a scorp, you'll identify with his traits easily). Mars refers to his aggression/ power sign. You mentioned that he has Mars in Scorpio earlier also.. it may mean that he has a strong drive for power over, or a desire for control of his environment.

To Aprilbaby: My dear, since we have had a disagreement before , I will give you this: You are entitled to your opinions, and are free to express them in which ever way you are pleased by them..However, your level of wisdom dictates (because, you are obviously quite bright), that when you do express yourself, you will first please inquire of yourself, that you are making a valid, and rational point, and secondly, that you are able to substantiate your point again, to yourself first, and then to us. Otherwise, your comments will be interpreted as irrational and foolish by other message board users- (I certainly do not wish anyone to misread or think anything like this of you). If you feel you have been wronged by Librans in some way, please express to us the action, which they have done that caused your annoyance. I, for one, will be more able to be accepting of your responses should you be able to substantiate your claims.
Signed: A Libran who has nothing against any sign- including Aries.

PS..Otherwise, keep it to yourself.

Jaya, thanks for the detailed advice, I really appreciate it! I have a habit of only seeing things from my point of view, while I never took into consideration that people handle things differently.

He is the first Libra that I've talked to, besides my mom having Libra rising. I'll have to treat the situation with a different approach. Again, thanks Jaya, I value your opinion. You should post here more often!

Hmmm..kennyg, if you don't mind me asking, how is your relationship? I'm interesting in knowing how issues are handled, etc.

I want to talk to you Scorp guy - can I? I am a cancer.

Hey floater, sure. My AIM screen name is ScorpioErotikos

Hi Scorp Guy..thanks, and you're welcome too!
just wanted to shed some light on the subject..
we libs seem to cop bad reps all the time, for things that usually we are oblivious to. I guess everyone should look up from the wheel we're working with once or twice, and see what's going on around us. I'm guilty of not looking up sometimes too, but it's not to intentionally try to hurt anyone, it's just that I get lost in what I'm doing when I'm enjoying it, and I definitely try to make up for it, or do better the next time around when someone holds up "the bullbutter flag" to alert me that I'm doing it. =)
hope this helps..and keep us posted.

Aprilbaby..
here is the offensive statement(s):

"In fact, I haven't found one Libra I've liked yet. They are exactly as phoenix put em, and even worse so.

They're also very unhinged and one of the most unbalanced signs I've ever known..aside from Geminis and Cancers."

Before, I answer you, I'll let you know that I have no intention of bringing further drama to this thread by disputing this with you after this, but i realized that i should give you atleast the justice of knowing what got my goat, and made me respond as i did. I don't know if it offended others, and I'm sorry if my response offended you, but it couldn't be avoided... I interpret those comments in the same way that I would interpret these comments:
"In fact, I've never met a Jew I've liked yet."
"In fact, I've never met a White/Black/Asian/Hispanic etc. I've liked yet."
"In fact... I've never met a goat I've liked yet!"

"They're also very unhinged and one of the most unbalanced types I've ever known..aside from cows and grasshoppers."

At some point, these comments do become offensive- atleast to the cows and grass hoppers, if no one else (hehehe)
My response was not meant to manipulate you, but to alert you to it, so that it would not happen in the future.
You are quite right about wanting to keep your experiences to yourself, you do not owe me or anyone else here any details about your life. That is understood. Okay, now if you respond to this, I'll read it in silence, as I will not be giving further response.

^Spoken like a true Libran.

Heyyyyy wait as second here, hold on... so much dissing on Libras! We're not all bad. Sure there's always some bad appples in EVERY sign but c'mon, Librans can't be that bad.
Those unstable Librans you guys knew were just that, maybe had troubles at home. Rusted Rooster, I'd give you a fun time and James...very funny. The pub? It made me giggle. Do you ever drink black and tans? Very filling though I must say.
The Sloaner