Said I didn't have any respect for her.
Female Shink Kicked Me Out Of Her Office
SMH... That's the Government for you.
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Posted by flowingwater
Well did you?
Haha
That was first thing she said at the very beginning of my third visit. "you don't respect me".
At the beginning of my first visit with her, I warned her that she might
want to commit suicide before we were done.
At the end of my second visit, all she could ask was "How do you cope?".
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After she made the remark she made, I told that she does NOT "demand" an elder to respect her.
I stood up, blew that joint and walked out on her.
The only reason why I thought to visit in the first place was because rabbit was seeing one.
It sounded like a good idea at the time.
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I stood up, blew that joint and walked out on her.
The only reason why I thought to visit in the first place was because rabbit was seeing one.
It sounded like a good idea at the time.
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Posted by caliber
she sounds like a shitty shrink. not doing her job properly if her reaction is to kick you out...
She kicked me out when she demanded my respect without providing me what I needed from her.
At that moment, I just figured this is going nowhere. 2 visits and all I got was "how do you cope?"
and "you don't respect me!".
That just doesn't bode well with me.
Posted by Rabbit
I think my shrink secretly ran my chart though...
I told my shrink that I was a Scorpio, if that made any sense to her.
Oops...
When I was seeing my counsellor I had a lot of fun analyzing every little thing he was saying... And he thought we were there to analyze me... HA!
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by exoskeleton
pisces moons, smh.
What's wrong with pisces moon, XO—?click to expand
Yeah, huh?
It doesn't sound likely for someone to just glance at you and go "you don't respect me".
What is the backstory here? What was said in that session?
She might have taken offense at your warning of her committing suicide. To me that would sound patronizing and it would imply I don't do my job right if you think I would get emotional and kill myself since I probably deal with pretty fucked up shit every day when listening to people's issues. But then she didn't tell you you don't respect her in the second session, but the third.
Something obviously came across as demeaning to her. Did you approach the sessions with an open mentality? Maybe you made a joke that didn't go well?
Sounds weird for someone to come right up out of the blue going "you don't respect me". Especially someone who probably heard a lot of twisted shit in their career.
What is the backstory here? What was said in that session?
She might have taken offense at your warning of her committing suicide. To me that would sound patronizing and it would imply I don't do my job right if you think I would get emotional and kill myself since I probably deal with pretty fucked up shit every day when listening to people's issues. But then she didn't tell you you don't respect her in the second session, but the third.
Something obviously came across as demeaning to her. Did you approach the sessions with an open mentality? Maybe you made a joke that didn't go well?
Sounds weird for someone to come right up out of the blue going "you don't respect me". Especially someone who probably heard a lot of twisted shit in their career.
Posted by Gemi9Posted by MrFirebird
Said I didn't have any respect for her.
What's a 'shink'?click to expand
Smh
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by ErisPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by exoskeleton
pisces moons, smh.
What's wrong with pisces moon, XO—?
Yeah, huh?
y'all cray cray. —click to expand
True enough
Posted by exoskeleton
it's sokay, i'm in love with a pisces moon. >_>
Meanwhile the Pisces moon is staring at the ceiling imagining it's vanilla cream cheese frosted cake and picturing all the crumbly inner pieces as it's sliced to scale ... "Wait... Why are you staring at me? " ... Other party, " because I love you!" Pisces moon, " love you too ... Mmm cake"
Posted by Gemi9Posted by MrFirebird
Said I didn't have any respect for her.
What's a 'shink'?click to expand
It's a mispelling. NEXT!
Posted by b1tchcrafts
i like to express myself and my weirdness esp on weird forums like this lmfao
Me too... I'm scared to talk about the ceiling cake in real life.
Posted by flowingwater
I've been seeing a shrink since I was 5. They even put me in a study, behind a glass wall in a toy room. I remember everything and I knew there intentions at a young age.
I'm 24 now, I feel deep hate for them.
It hasn't helped, I've helped myself grow.
All they do is open my locked closet and than all the moths come out. I'm engulfed in my darkness from my past and I have a hard time moving on again.
I don't do shrinks...
I saw a shrink when I was a kid, too.
He tried to hypnotize me, once. I laughed so hard, my eyes watered.
Posted by ErisPosted by b1tchcrafts
i like to express myself and my weirdness esp on weird forums like this lmfao
Me too... I'm scared to talk about the ceiling cake in real life.click to expand
In my kitchen, I have an old bowl-type light on the ceiling. It actually looks like a cake.
Posted by ErisPosted by exoskeletonPosted by ErisPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by exoskeleton
pisces moons, smh.
What's wrong with pisces moon, XO—?
Yeah, huh?
y'all cray cray. —
True enoughclick to expand
I am not crazy.
I'm not weird, either.
Misunderstood? DEFINITELY!
Misunderstood? DEFINITELY!
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by MrFirebird
I am not crazy.
for real though?click to expand
For REAL!
I am quite normal.
Posted by b1tchcrafts
maybe delusional?
srsly you had to do something to get kicked out?
I was late.
She wanted me to be there on time. I told her at the beginning that I couldn't
make any promises that I could always make it on time. I have to drive 25 miles to see
her at the Indian clinic. If I have to drive 25 miles, and I have to meet her before noon,
then, it's only fair that she compromises and cut me some slack if I am late.
But some people really do believe that we are a bit... you know.... out there.
Posted by caliberPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by caliber
she sounds like a shitty shrink. not doing her job properly if her reaction is to kick you out...
She kicked me out when she demanded my respect without providing me what I needed from her.
At that moment, I just figured this is going nowhere. 2 visits and all I got was "how do you cope?"
and "you don't respect me!".
That just doesn't bode well with me.
that's like teachers who are miserable and have to fail all of their kids because they suck at the job of teaching.
i wonder why the hell some people get into certain professions when they don't intend to do the job right. ridiculous.click to expand
The impression I had was that this woman was either immature for this choice of occupation and/or she
harbored some anti-male pro-female sentiments beneath the surface. This is where the "you don't respect me!" remark comes out of. The truth of the matter is, she was NOT respecting her elder who
had already advised her of the situation. This is supposed to be a professional counseling session. Not a date. I'm certainly not losing any sleep at all over this. I've lived 45 years without her "help", so.. you know, no skin off my nose.
Posted by Rabbit
A boring and basic exterior allows you to fool people though....
I would consider myself boring and basic.
Not for the purpose of fooling people, but as an INTJ, I am not the life of the party
needing to be the center of attention.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by b1tchcrafts
maybe delusional?
srsly you had to do something to get kicked out?
I was late.
She wanted me to be there on time. I told her at the beginning that I couldn't
make any promises that I could always make it on time. I have to drive 25 miles to see
her at the Indian clinic. If I have to drive 25 miles, and I have to meet her before noon,
then, it's only fair that she compromises and cut me some slack if I am late.
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Ok. Now it makes sense.
I take appointments seriously and get there on time. I have run late but I don't have expectations from the doctor or whomever I am seeing to still see me. I see it as corteous of them if they do but I don't think they owe me in any way. I feel bad when I am running late because I feel I am messing their schedule up.
It's not really fair to compromise if you have a schedule drawn up and people are late. What would be fair is finding someone nearer, where you won't be late.
You have to see where she comes from on this too. At the end of the day it's conflicting schedules so it was a poor match. Nothing lost here.
Her comment has nothing to do with "harboring anti-male pro-female sentiments or being immature. If you see it that way, it's better you chose not to continue either way.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by ErisPosted by b1tchcrafts
i like to express myself and my weirdness esp on weird forums like this lmfao
Me too... I'm scared to talk about the ceiling cake in real life.
In my kitchen, I have an old bowl-type light on the ceiling. It actually looks like a cake.click to expand
I could be entertained by that for hours. I can't recall a time I've been bored.
Posted by b1tchcrafts
I made a live thread about my relationship with a roach.
That's awesome!
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by caliberPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by caliber
she sounds like a shitty shrink. not doing her job properly if her reaction is to kick you out...
She kicked me out when she demanded my respect without providing me what I needed from her.
At that moment, I just figured this is going nowhere. 2 visits and all I got was "how do you cope?"
and "you don't respect me!".
That just doesn't bode well with me.
that's like teachers who are miserable and have to fail all of their kids because they suck at the job of teaching.
i wonder why the hell some people get into certain professions when they don't intend to do the job right. ridiculous.
The impression I had was that this woman was either immature for this choice of occupation and/or she
harbored some anti-male pro-female sentiments beneath the surface. This is where the "you don't respect me!" remark comes out of. The truth of the matter is, she was NOT respecting her elder who
had already advised her of the situation. This is supposed to be a professional counseling session. Not a date. I'm certainly not losing any sleep at all over this. I've lived 45 years without her "help", so.. you know, no skin off my nose.
click to expand
I visited my boyfriend's shrink once, she was one of these types of woman. She didn't like me, I am pretty independent, but made clear my disdain for the that kind of "modern pro-woman, down with everyone" else stance. She later on went to tell my boyfriend that she did not think we would last. I then repeated my long given advice to him that he find a male shrink. Not even because I didn't like her, I didn't. But her specialty was with Homosexual, and Transgender youth, due to my boyfriends younger brother being trans. I didn't think she had the well roundness to help a heterosexual man, sitting in a session with her surely proved that to me.
Posted by GENERALIZOD
HAHAHAHAHAHAAHA!
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on a random note, ^ this is why I love scorpios. All of it, the good bad and ugly.
Posted by KVZZMIR11Posted by caliber
she sounds like a shitty shrink. not doing her job properly if her reaction is to kick you out...
I think in order for shrink to help you, you need to be a certain type of person.
Therapies will work for some and will not work for others.
I was forced to see a shrink, didn't really help me at all.
She is just a stranger asking you stupid ass questions. You answer them honestly, and she takes notes on a clipboard, and after 4 sessions you decide whether you want to go back or not.click to expand
That's just it. After three sessions, she did what I knew she would do.
To answer this and few others:
Like I said, earlier in this thread, I told her that she might want to commit suicide before we
were done. Suicide, in the sense, as it turned out, that she DID pull the "respect" card. She disrespected the fact that I couldn't promise her that I would be there on time, at the beginning of the first session. The sessions were 1 hour long and I was only late by 10, 15 and 20 minutes, and
had to cancel one session.
She didn't take me seriously, didn't offer me any advice but asked how I coped and "you don't respect me".
This is US Government health care, in all it's glory. I don't even have a stable primary doctor. They change doctors more often than their underwear.
It's really bad.
Posted by Impulsv
It's funny how rabbit got us scorp on the therapy wagon. She must be that good.
Keep trying firebird seek one that's compatable to u. Like when u show up twenty minutes late she locks the door n sends u a bill lol jk
Find a hippie, free flowing chakra healing one.
But I don't need to see a shrink.
A toast to long friendship!
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SMH,
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Posted by Rambunctious76Posted by Gemi9Posted by MrFirebird
Said I didn't have any respect for her.
What's a 'shink'?
It's like a shank, only it's used to dig deep into someone's brain.click to expand
Bahh hah hahhh 😄
I don't trust 'em. The ones who specialize in substance abuse counseling are usually abusers themselves. Fucking hypocrites.
If one has purchased the time slot, then what does it
matter what time you arrive?
Srsly... who is paying whom?
matter what time you arrive?
Srsly... who is paying whom?
Posted by Montgomery
If one has purchased the time slot, then what does it
matter what time you arrive?
Srsly... who is paying whom?
+1
You sound very entitled and disrespectful. Almost as though you dont take the therapy seriously and now its showing in how you're treating this shrink.
I think you should do her favor and find someone closer to you. And maybe find a male shrink since you have such a bias. You say she comes off like anti-male, pro-female, and immature. The fact that you would use those specific phases leads me to believe that you infact are anti-female and probably dont think she, as a woman, is capable of doing any good. Couple that with the fact that you have you told her that she would want to kill herself, which is very insulting and demeaning to someone of her profession (all things considered ), as well as you feeling entitled to 'slack' because you live 25 miles away blah blah blah and are pretty much are blatantly showing disregard for her schedule as a doctor... you are sending her all the signals of a person that not only doesn't respect her but also doesnt take her seriously. Like i said earlier, find another shrink. She probably deals with enough bullshit and doesn't need yours.
I think you should do her favor and find someone closer to you. And maybe find a male shrink since you have such a bias. You say she comes off like anti-male, pro-female, and immature. The fact that you would use those specific phases leads me to believe that you infact are anti-female and probably dont think she, as a woman, is capable of doing any good. Couple that with the fact that you have you told her that she would want to kill herself, which is very insulting and demeaning to someone of her profession (all things considered ), as well as you feeling entitled to 'slack' because you live 25 miles away blah blah blah and are pretty much are blatantly showing disregard for her schedule as a doctor... you are sending her all the signals of a person that not only doesn't respect her but also doesnt take her seriously. Like i said earlier, find another shrink. She probably deals with enough bullshit and doesn't need yours.
Posted by Montgomery
If one has purchased the time slot, then what does it
matter what time you arrive?
Srsly... who is paying whom?
it matters if that person is invested into their patients and wants to go the full hour or whatever the timeframe. in that situation, you are messing up their schedules.
if it doesn't matter for them and they could do..only 40 mins of that session and not have problems with it, i agree with you.
both mindsets should be respected no matter who is paying whom.
Posted by Impulsv
Would op be upset if he showef up 20 minutes late n Door closed n she send full bill for the hour.
No, he wouldn't, because the services provided to the OP were paid for by the US Government.
No bill was, is being, nor will be sent to me.
Why? Because I am a registered American Indian and am covered under certain laws that
concern the first citizens.
Before you, or anyone else, think that being American Indian means we get a lot of free stuff, I must
forewarn that that popular assumption is quite false and simply isn't so.
Also, the medical services which are available, are not easily obtainable for many tribal people.
For example, for many American Indians suffering from heart problems, they may have to travel 300 miles to visit their cardiologist. Whereas others can obtain affordable care nearby.
Many Indian hospitals have been reduced to "clinics". The patients are treated more like cattle
than human beings, to answer those assuming ignorant youth and non-US citizens, abroad, in this thread. - The US Government continues to actively engage in covert genocide of the American Indian.
"Kill the Indian, save the man". But the American Indian is not alone. Other races, including the white race, are all targeted. Healthcare interdiction is but one weapon in the government's arsenal.
http://www.spotlightonpoverty.org/ExclusiveCommentary.aspx?id=0fe5c04e-fdbf-4718-980c-0373ba823da7<BR>
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Population_history_of_indigenous_peoples_of_the_Americas<BR>
http://www.danielnpaul.com/AmericanIndianGenocide.html<BR>
http://espressostalinist.com/genocide/native-american-genocide/<BR>
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Population_history_of_indigenous_peoples_of_the_Americas<BR>
http://www.danielnpaul.com/AmericanIndianGenocide.html<BR>
http://espressostalinist.com/genocide/native-american-genocide/<BR>
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by exoskeleton
pisces moons, smh.
What's wrong with pisces moon, XO—?click to expand
It's fatal.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by exoskeleton
pisces moons, smh.
What's wrong with pisces moon, XO—?
It's fatal.click to expand
That's right, BUT, remember, it's also TERMINAL.
Like a trucking terminal. A place where freight goes to die.
You wouldn't believe the carnage that can happen to your beloved parcel.
Sometimes, they are lost without a trace. Never to be seen again.
You see, that shrink and her esteemed profession got shrink-wrapped and shipped out.
For free! 🙂
Trouble is, nobody has actually thought to ask a very simple question. It's always psychoanalyze
and draw conclusions that lack merit.
and draw conclusions that lack merit.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by exoskeleton
pisces moons, smh.
What's wrong with pisces moon, XO—?
It's fatal.click to expand
They all are. 🙂
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