Finally got him to show his intensity. What now?

He's a Scorp and I'm an Aquarius. I've been interested in this guy for about a year and a half now. Since day one I could tell he was interested but he has never really came out a said it and neither have I. He's asked me out and over to his house a couple of times but doesnt show up or forgets. One time he invited me over and we sat on separate couches, watched the movie, and didnt touch each other at all. Nothing sexual has every happened but there is an unspoken intimacy that we have that is unexplainable.

Sooo, Friday night he asked me to come over for a movie. He layed out on pad on the floor and I sat on the couch right behind him. Half way into the movie he started to "fall asleep". I kept nudging him until he said he would stay up if I would scratch his head so I did. Eventually he pulled me down onto the floor and started hugging me like no one has every hugged me b4. IT WAS INTENSE! Then he placed my hand on his head again so I could rub him like a baby. Awww.. HE KISSED ME 4 THE FIRST TIME!!!!! YEA!!!! It was precious!!! At that point I realized he had been drinking. After about 5 min of this he started to get fresh with me trying to do all the things a guy does to get into a girls pants. Nothing happened and I left soon after but I could tell he was really embarassed by it.

I love this Scorpio and want a life with him. I dont want it to start off wrong because I want things to last. After finding out he had been drinking, it kinda made me wonder if he was being his normal self or was it the alcohol that did it. I dont feel disrespected at all by his actions at all and I want him to know he doesnt have to worry about me being upset or anything like that. We have never talked relationship stuff but I wanna be for sure abou this intentions. How do I set him at ease? How do I ask him about his emotions and intentions?

OK, I just realized that you must be a kid and so hid my posts .. don't wanna talk sex to a child.


I would suggest next time you two want to be "fresh" ...... call your mother.

P-Angel, you are hilarious! LOL. I read your posts before you hid them but I agreee.

For one AquaLady, I would think that if you get him all hot & ready and then you leave, ANY man would be p***** off! But I hope in this case for you that he won't think that you are playing games with him. So what if he had a little alcohol, some guys are very nervous around women they like and maybe he needed a nip two to get the nerve to kiss you. Why think he has something up his sleeve or his intensions are not good ones because if he just wanted one thing, he could have gotten that well over a year ago. You may have to give it some time to find out but I all I know is don't turn him on the way you did and just leave, you may regret doing that.

I'm 25 and I didnt get him all ready an leave. Again, How do I set him at ease? How do I ask him about his emotions and intentions? someone else please...

Don't. He will tell you when he's ready.

Is there some story missing? Why was he embarrassed? If you've been waiting for a year and a half, why did you leave?

Oh, ScorpAscVirgo, because scorp hasnt made anything official or even talked about any type of commitment. Im not having sex with someone who doesnt even know what they want. Thats a lonely road and never ending. Plus we're in an environment where sex b4 marriage is frowned upon so I thought he would be a little shame about his advances.

One thing I found out today is that he called a girl he used to talk to a couple days after I went over there. I'm pretty sure they had sex. It bothers me but i would hurt so much more if we had actually done something. I know he's going through some stuff right now so he must be feeling lonely. I love him, so I want to be of some type of support to him but dont want to become sexually involved out of pity and while not having a deeper commitment. Before the anit coments come I'd just like to say, I love this scorp unconditionally, so the girl thing doesnt matter to me. I'm concerned about him and even if we never get together, I'll still want to be there for him.

Now try to stop him.

Posted by AquaLady
He's a Scorp and I'm an Aquarius. I've been interested in this guy for about a year and a half now. Since day one I could tell he was interested but he has never really came out a said it and neither have I. He's asked me out and over to his house a couple of times but doesnt show up or forgets. One time he invited me over and we sat on separate couches, watched the movie, and didnt touch each other at all. Nothing sexual has every happened but there is an unspoken intimacy that we have that is unexplainable.

Sooo, Friday night he asked me to come over for a movie. He layed out on pad on the floor and I sat on the couch right behind him. Half way into the movie he started to "fall asleep". I kept nudging him until he said he would stay up if I would scratch his head so I did. Eventually he pulled me down onto the floor and started hugging me like no one has every hugged me b4. IT WAS INTENSE! Then he placed my hand on his head again so I could rub him like a baby. Awww.. HE KISSED ME 4 THE FIRST TIME!!!!! YEA!!!! It was precious!!! At that point I realized he had been drinking. After about 5 min of this he started to get fresh with me trying to do all the things a guy does to get into a girls pants. Nothing happened and I left soon after but I could tell he was really embarassed by it.

I love this Scorpio and want a life with him. I dont want it to start off wrong because I want things to last. After finding out he had been drinking, it kinda made me wonder if he was being his normal self or was it the alcohol that did it. I dont feel disrespected at all by his actions at all and I want him to know he doesnt have to worry about me being upset or anything like that. We have never talked relationship stuff but I wanna be for sure abou this intentions. How do I set him at ease? How do I ask him about his emotions and intentions?

you see this i don't understand.
why is it so hard for some of you to get those emotions out of them?
with each of the scorpios i dated it wasn't that hard.
you just have to be yourself. create some kind of security for them but don't fake it.
remember he's been watching you for awhile so he knows every lie you ever said, every guy you'd flirt with. he remembers ALL of that. that and you led him on that night. to a scorpio "action speaks louder then words".

he might have drank to gain some courage. seeing as how we're rather shy, but as a man he *should* make the move, it is possible.