Fool—

Ok, Stupid ass sons Father, kept calling on Sunday. I would not answer his call; remember he had not called for almost a month to see his son.
He keeps Text messaging me telling me to please answer. He leaves these messages on my phone telling me I was right and he was too stupid to see, he loves me bla, bla, bla,. Anyways he shows up at my house asking me if I still love him, he misses the baby and all this BS. He try's to hug me and kiss me, I tell him to leave me alone. Anyways he gets mad and leaves, I'm like whatever bye, see ya. Then 5 minutes later he text messages me and tells me he loves me, and asks me if I do, I tell him no, he says ok, then I tell him I will always love him, he says sure. He has not called since then, today is Tuesday. I text messaged him this morning to see if he is going to pick up the baby for the weekend, he has not responded. Dose he feel like an absolute fool or what—

O, YA HE IS A Scorpio..

Scorpio's are 'The Punishers'. You scolded him, so he recoiled.

You need to put both your feelings for each other aside, and think about that precious baby. Your child deserves to know it's father, even if you aren't going to have a relationship.

I got divorced at 19 because I should never got married, but my daughter knows her father and his family. Be the bigger person, it will pay off later in your childs life.

CG

whisper in my ear you love me, Tell me that there is no other, treat me like a brand new lover, and if thats not true then thats O.K. wake up aby wake up fool. take one last look around you before I walk out of this romm.

whisper in my ear sweet nothings, whisper in my ear you love me, Tell me that there is no other, treat me like a brand new lover, and if thats not true then thats O.K. wake up baby wake up fool. take one last look around you before I walk out of this romm.

That was cool James, Hats off to you🙂

Candle Girl,

So you think he feels stupid? Do you really think he loves me or just playing those games?
I have always told him no matter what happens he will always be able to see his son that is the one thing I would never keep from him. I just don't understand him sometimes, I just got tired of always calling him and asking him if he wanted to see the baby and he would just say he was working or he did not know he would call.
At this point I got fed up, I always felt like I gave him a 100% of me! He never told me he loved me, and when I would ask him he would retreat and get upset. Every time we would get into an argument, I would ask him if he was going to get the baby on the weekend, his response was why so you can go out, I'm not your babysitter. I felt like he was using our son to punish me. So with all that said I decided to give him a taste of his own medicine, I did not do the calling, I felt that if he really loved his son he would pick up that phone and call, and stop taking us for granted. I still don't know what he wants, I have told him from the beginning, if you don't love me tell me and I will be out of your life forever, once you tell me I will not look back. He never gives me an answer he just leaves me dangling there, I am tired of it!
So I will just do my thing, and whenever he wants to see our son, he is always welcomed to.
He is picking him up on Friday.

Did he pick him up?

Yes, he kept him all weekend. I went with them to have Pizza, Its funny the baby had not seen him for a month and when Nick came to the door he put his arms out and the baby went to him and hugged him. When we were having pizza Nick kept starring at the baby, I glanced up to look at him and his eyes were watery, I asked him what was wrong and he said I got something in my eyes. I dont know maybe he felt bad, o, my God could it be Scorpios have hearts!

sometimes maybe.

Remember never argue with an idiot, people watching may not be able to tell the difference.

Scorpio's have huge hearts, that's why they close up when they think something or someone has 'gotten' to them.

To love a Scorpio must be unconditional, and that is hard for the faint hearted.

I do luv this man unconditionally, he is just to blind to see how much I love him.

Hi Candle Girl.

What do you mean when you say "Gotten" to them. Do you mean made them mad or when someone has touched their hearts?

Hi Softy,

That is the question of the century about Scorpio's. It could mean either. Their emotions are so deep. If they think they are vunerable in any part of their life, and are not comfortable with those feelings, they act oddly. If "you" say you love them, they are not the type, to get all starry eyed. If "they" say they love you, to them, that's all there is to it.

My hubby left me a message on my answering machine and when I got home, I sat on the floor and laughed. It was, "I was thinking today, we are soule mates, that's all there is too it". We weren't married at the time, so I still really give it too him about that lack of romance. I am a Libra, with a Scorpio rising, but still have to remind him to 'date' me, romance me, buy me stuff. That't why I say loving a Scorpio, is not for the faint hearted.

My dad, a Scorpio, married my step mom a Scorpio, and they had a wonderful loving relationship.

Who knows—

Candle girl,

Did you and your husband have alot of ups and downs?
I just dont understand this man, I told him last night if he dose not want me; tell me so I could move on! He will never just say "it wont work" we will never get back together, thats all I need to hear and I wont look back. He just says leave me alone, chillout, relax. I dont want to wait forever, I just want to hear those MAGIC WORDS and I will be out the door!! He wont say them!!! I really love him, but I am real tired of this butter!

Hey.

Fire & Ice,

I do not have the answer to the Scorpio Heart.

I do however, know my own soule and my own life. That is, my education, my money, my family belong to me..

My scorpio is my love, there are no magic words with a Scorpio or love.

I have to say I am my own person. Please take care of your child and you.......

You should get a facial, a massage, a foot rub/ a scrub, even a Martini sans olive juice.

Candle girl,

Candle girl, I just wanted your opinion on smoething. I recently told my scorpio that in so many words that I didn't want to sleep w/anyone else. It was in a text message( he doesn't live in the same state) and it was quite forward. Is that turn off for a Scorpio man.Could it had scared him? I've know him for around two years.and have never really implied that.

Hi softy,

You know what I would do. Get together with your Scorpio in a quiet, neutral place and talk directly, don't hold anything back. That way it will be out in the open. If he can't give you the necessary reassurance, don't get mad or cry, just know in your heart you put it out there to him.

It's hard to face uncertainty. To me, it's better to know the hurt and get over it, then to keep wondering and wondering.

Take care,

CG

Hey Fire & Ice,

I didn't answer your question. Yes my Scorpio and I had a real rocky beginning. I went out with him once and really thought he was full of s**t. Too opinionated, too full of himself. He called me for weeks and I always had something better to do!! He stopped calling. Then about a year later, I ran into him again and thought maybe I could just be a friend and have a few laughs with him. So I e-mailed him and he never answered. That Scorpio Sting!!! That went on for a couple of months. Finally I got an e-mail from him and we met for drinks. He let down his guard and was a really cool guy. We basically haven't been apart since. When I mentioned to him a few months later, I was the marrying kind, I thought he would bolt. Instead, he agreed and gave me a real cheap ring. Finally, when I was on a business trip he flew out and formally proposed and even had a real ring this time. We still have our differences, but like I said I am independant and that is the key with a Scorpio. No clinging!!!
Hope this helps.
CG

HI Candle girl,
Thanks so much for your input! I know Scorpios dont like the clingy, I know it is a complete turnoff. The funny thing is I have always been a very strong and independent person, but with him I feel like he just knows what to say and how to push my buttons and I feel like I have to be incontrol all the time remember I am a (Capricorn), and if ANY PART OF MY LIFE IS OUT OF CONTROL I FEEL LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE IS. Therefore I need some kind of closure or a direct answer so that I may plan my next step, and I think that is why I get like that. I have also been married before, so I really feel like I been there done that, that is why I dont want my time waisted or anyonelse for that matter. I am scared to really say goodbye, find someonelse then it will really be to late. I have a child from this man, and I really wanted it to work.

I think I got it wrong on another thread, I shall try agian. The outher guy won't be around to talk to our kids, He won't know when your down the way that I do, We had it all you and I we just need to try agian. I wish I could remember the rest. What ever happened to the little river band?