Frustated!

Any other Scorpios feeling this way? I sometimes hate my extreme emotions, if i like something I love it, if i don't like something I hate it. If I fancy someone, I want them I need them.. one thing puts me off? I dont need or want them anymore.

Right now, well.. for a while now I just feel like, frustrated like an empty feeling inside of me yet I could just scream.

I feel like I have so much to give and no one to give it to because whoever I come across that I could possibly interested in.. something is never quite right, it never works like it should.
I cant explain, I don't want to be swept of my feet I just miss feeling fulfilled, I want to feel complete and happy. However I cant settle for just anyone, even for a night just to satisfy me / not to be lonely. So I just endure this loneliness like I've always done.
I dont think i'm making any sense. I have tons of friends and i'm never 'alone' yet I always feel lonely.

Posted by Impulsv
One thing I've learned is no one can make me feel complete n fulfilled. Happiness will never be found by external things it's internal.Those are my responsibilities. N all that love that I want to express to my significant since I don't have one, I'm expressing them to Freinds family n self.
I know it sound corny but it really is true u will always feel empty with other not enough because we have not made it to completeness ourselves It was explained to me if I am a chalice n wine is love if half full when I'm giving I'll be expecting, feeling fear ect. But if I'm full n it just overflows everything given is free I'm content n what is returned is icing on the cake.
How does one become complete? Self love, compassion self acceptance ect.
Then when some one stand next to u ur sharing n don't need them to make u feel complete. U already feel complete n happy.

Might not be the type of answer u were looking. But all that pain use it to move u n look within for answers. Taurus is going through a tough transition astronomically.

I kinda went what ur going through now.

I see what you mean. Thats one thing i've always tried to do throughout my life. If you dont love your self then how can anyone else love ALL of you? I know i'll get there, its what keeps me going to keep trying to better myself but sometimes it's so damn boring. These feelings come and go, I like being alone but something feels missing.

Scorpchi, I totally understand. I want you to know I am on both sides of this.
First, I was head over mermaid fins in love with a Scorpio man. Things were perfect. Then one day out of the blue he dumped me. No real explanation. Something must have ticked him off and I will never know what happened. He totally froze me out. I know his track record. I know he is miserable.

I, too, as a Pisces with Scorpio rising. I am looking for perfection in people, too. It leaves me lonely and miserable, too, like what you feel. I know it's real. So I feel this, too, but do not have the answer.

Posted by njf226
Scorpchi, I totally understand. I want you to know I am on both sides of this.
First, I was head over mermaid fins in love with a Scorpio man. Things were perfect. Then one day out of the blue he dumped me. No real explanation. Something must have ticked him off and I will never know what happened. He totally froze me out. I know his track record. I know he is miserable.

I, too, as a Pisces with Scorpio rising. I am looking for perfection in people, too. It leaves me lonely and miserable, too, like what you feel. I know it's real. So I feel this, too, but do not have the answer.

Im glad you understand. I can speak to my friends about this emptiness but it would never hit deep emotions like it does to me.

Sorry about your scorpio guy. On this part of things im stubborn, I dont understand because I can be the coldest strongest person but I couldnt let someone go without explanation, i value peoples feelings way too much. Clearly he's not good enough for you and he's not worth it no matter how frustrating and upsetting it is, there is someone else out there for you. He just wasnt the one. (as of now anyway, who knows what could happen in life)

Posted by FrostAndBite
I used to feel that way regularly. I suppose I still have my brooding bouts and angsty moments every once in a while too, by they've mostly diminished.

However you will never find complete fulfillment in life so long as you believe something to bring it is just out of reach/right around the corner. Being fulfilled in life isn't a milestone to be reached. Its more like a craving to be satisfied, sometimes you can and other times you shouldn't and other times it just NOT going to happen.

Life is too spontaneous and out of our control(what about Scorpios and control? You mean I'm NOT all knowing? Lol) for fulfillment to be a goal. It's something that comes in moments, then can wash away as life ebbs and flows.

I find myself much better and not letting frustrations eat at me when my expectations aren't met now.

Thanks so much. I love the advice. It's so true, i crave to feel satisfied, it's all in my head. And yes, no expectations no let downs, got to take life day by day.

Posted by Whatu
I bet that dress fells pretty fulfilled with you in it. I can't say this enough to Scorps, find a true passion and pour everything you have into it. It will grow and you will grow with it. It will never let you down.

ahaha. Meh I cant even pick one passion. Im passionate about too much.