@Peanutbutter
14 Years1,000+ Posts
Scorpio wont leave me alone
How to Handle a Persistent Scorpio Ex Friend
A Scorpio friend who crosses boundaries may be persistent and emotional. It is important to set firm boundaries and avoid engaging in inappropriate behavior. If he continues to cross limits, consider blocking him completely and avoiding contact. Remember to prioritize your safety and well-being while maintaining clear boundaries to prevent further unwanted advances.
Dude he knows where I live im afraid hes gunna slash my tires... for real
No. Are you?
They cant do shit unless he does. Hello.
Im more worried about the continual verbal harrassment.. Im not sure how to tell him to go away. Hes got it in his head that I asked for the pics he sent me and that I want him too LMAO.
Hes truly delusional
OC Spray.
Tell your ex.
Why all the drama? Block him from your phone and if you see him in public turn around and walk the opposite way. If he comes near you tell him to get a way or you will call the cops.
No drama...no more whining.
They cant do shit unless he does. Hello.
Well, you just told us he is bothering you. If he's harassing you with the pics in your phone..that's sexual harassment, and if you can show the cops YOU TELLING HIM TO STOP and he's not, that falls under the stalking laws.
Yeah, I don't buy it.
Most of what you say is skewed in the direction of you having no guilt or like it's seriously a "wtf" moment for you all the time. You mentioned this in past relationships also. Poor Virgo, stuff just keeps happening to her.
I really can't buy this act from a Virgo.
Wow.. You guys are assholes.. We werent close friends and he approached me a week after the Cancer and I broke up. It DEFINITELY was a WTF moment.
And him sending me these messages and pictures are all WTF moments.
Sorry if it sounds unrealistic to you guys.
LIB Thats the plan just walk the other way. I just dont want the drama and wish there were a way to for sure get him off my nuts. He said he was going to come over to my place multiple times already and I have told him not to that I would not be there. If anything else happens I will be calling the cops.
I guess this thread was more to see if anyone else could relate to the unwanted attention... Its too much.
And I dont talk to the Cancer anymore so thats a no go and itd be stupid for me to be like oh hey i need to talk to you about your buddy that wants me. He'll just think Im doing it for the attention, I know the way he thinks.
Oh boy did I hit a nerve.
I'm going by your past history when I'm saying you indulge in drama quite often.
How do I indulge in drama Damnata— I think your assumption of me is kind of projection... I didnt have any drama with my ex except the normal couple arguments
He is seriously stressing me out. I am definitely at my wits end with him and on edge
Posted by Peanutbutter
I think your assumption of me is kind of projection...
I think you have no idea who you're talking to.
I have an excellent memory. I'll leave it at that.
Well youre def assuming too much missy.
Posted by Peanutbutter
Well youre def assuming too much missy.
No, I remember too much from your previous usernames.
But the innocent Virgo act works like a charm so I'll let you keep doing that 😉
Just know that some of us remember your history on this site.
you're*
You're a Virgo, come on.
Posted by tiziani
You keep telling this guy you can be friends = your responsibility.
You are absolutely right. I told him once to back off and he gave me the woe is me story so I said as long as you arent an asshat we'll be cool.. Its weird because now hes turning this whole thing on me saying its totally called for when I have told him multiple times to stop.
I blocked his # and deleted him off of my social media pages so thats that. We hang around in the same circles but its so unfair that IM the one that has to hide and avoid going to my regular spots because of HIS harrassment. UGH Im so annoyed
Damnata if youre not going to be helpful why are you wasting your time here?
Yes, I came here to vent. Maybe you are here to put people down?? Not helpful
No one is saying Im innocent but its coming off like you are saying I asked for this which I did not. From one day to the other he started bugging me. I didnt want to be a bitch...
Well theres my problem I should have been a bitch.
Posted by Peanutbutter
Damnata if youre not going to be helpful why are you wasting your time here?Yes, I came here to vent. Maybe you are here to put people down?? Not helpful
I came here to post. Do you own the internet? Are you under the assumption that people who post have an obligation to be helpful?
You're creating drama as always. I'll give you points for picking up the right board this time.
Posted by scorchedearth
damnata please stop trolling. pb is actually a really cool person.
I will send you a PM in 5, 4, 3..
Because you also have no clue what you're talking about.
How am I creating drama?!?!?! Youre a fucking dumbass....
SE has been here longer than you have Damnata... So...?
You need to get that stick out your ass D for real
Posted by Peanutbutter
SE has been here longer than you have Damnata... So...?
I've been here since 2009. I remember you.
Posted by tiziani
You keep telling this guy you can be friends = your responsibility.You are absolutely right. I told him once to back off and he gave me the woe is me story so I said as long as you arent an asshat we'll be cool.. Its weird because now hes turning this whole thing on me saying its totally called for when I have told him multiple times to stop.
I blocked his # and deleted him off of my social media pages so thats that. We hang around in the same circles but its so unfair that IM the one that has to hide and avoid going to my regular spots because of HIS harrassment. UGH Im so annoyed
Well I hear where you're coming from on that one, yes.
Either way the lesson here is next time just say "no". I don't think that's being a bitch. It's actually just being upfront.
As for the thing you just mentioned, yes that is annoying although personally I've never cared about how I look in my circles as much as I do peace of mind. So I'll tell someone to clear out until they really do make themselves scarce.
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True.. thank you, your words are reassuring and somehow calming. sigh.
Posted by Peanutbutter
SE has been here longer than you have Damnata... So...?I've been here since 2009. I remember you.
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Do you expect a round of applause for that or.....?
Anyway, lol.
/out of this thread
yes be on your way you troll.
LIB Thats the plan just walk the other way. He said he was going to come over to my place multiple times already and I have told him not to that I would not be there. If anything else happens I will be calling the cops.
The BOLD ^^ is where you are going about it all wrong. Telling him "I would not be there" keeps the door open. You need to tell him I DON'T WANT YOU ANYWHERE NEAR ME OR WHERE I LIVE. He'll tend to take you more seriously.
If you never react he will give up.
GC thanks. Im actually very sheepishly shy in person n would probably let this guy walk all over me which is why I came here for support and reassurance that "acting out of sorts/the norm" (for my personality) would be more than justified in this situation.
I will stand up for myself.
I have only met a handful of Scorpios and well a small amt of crazies so yeah.. I wil keep avoiding him and hopefully things do not get creepier because I will indeed slap a restraining order on his asss
Moral support assholes.
Sorry if it came off as a bit like BS or laughable i mean.. I am a Scorpio Ascendant afterall hahahaha
Posted by CluelessCancer
How come I've never been stalked😢I want to be a victim of crazy.
Lol even it's by the person you fantasize doing it, still won't feel as good as you imagined 😛
Posted by CluelessCancer
How come I've never been stalked😢I want to be a victim of crazy.
True stalking, done right = you'll never find out.
You might have had plenty of stalkers. The rest are amateurs.
Posted by CluelessCancer
How come I've never been stalked😢I want to be a victim of crazy.
True stalking, done right = you'll never find out.
You might have had plenty of stalkers. The rest are amateurs.
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be careful what you wish for.
CC wishes it but she might get something she don't want. 😕
Posted by CluelessCancer
How come I've never been stalked😢I want to be a victim of crazy.
True stalking, done right = you'll never find out.
You might have had plenty of stalkers. The rest are amateurs.
be careful what you wish for.
CC wishes it but she might get something she don't want. 😕
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Non harmful stalking, attention whoring stalking. leo stellium sees that as adoration 😄
Posted by Rabbit
She better hide her pets too.
and her kids
and her wife
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so this Scorp is my ex's friend. Weeks after breaking up with the ex he approached me and said he had a thing for me all along and wants to..... *barf* satisfy me *barf*
So I let him down nicely and we remained friends because well Im an idiot.
Fast forward to today he texts me all the damn time sending me inappropriate pics which I have asked him politely to stop (and just more recently have been meaner about it) but he does this whole sad puppy dog "oh im so alone and sad" thing smh.
I told him we can remain friends if he doesnt cross the line I have so adamantly put down, but of cross he crosses it every time. I feel bad for him but I have blocked his # and added it to my spam numbers...
He knows where I hangout so what should I do if we cross paths? I dont know how to make him get the picture! help!