Scorpio and feelings.

Hey Scorpions 🙂

I have a question for the ladies. Me and my Scorp love interest have really been hitting it of so so well the past 3 months. We have been able to open up to one another on a whole new level to the point where we actually acknowledge feelings toward each other. Now this is so amazing, and both of us really do appreciate the other.

I do note that she still hides a lot of her feelings, as if she even sometimes hates them (apart from saying so a few times).

We have grown in each others presence but I still get a push back once in a while. We are way better friends, since many have now left her, but there is a deeper connection as well something I don't think either of us had ever experienced. A realy deep tingly feeling. I can look her in her eyes and tell her how I feel about her or hold her and tell her with no issues. She told me that she really does care but struggles with her emotions and words.

Anyway, tonight something else happend. We where together chatting and whispering sweet little nothings, I would caress her and put my hand gently on her back and lower back while coning in close to her.

Suddenly, out of nowhere she just froze up. Solid. She looked away and mumbled something about an 'image' or a 'vision' that just didn't fit or was not welcome...

So, things got a bit awkward but still manageable. Despite trying to hide it I could see and feel the energy she was giving off.

She was pretty upset with her self about this and baiscally went into a 'flight' response.

So, clearly the way I held her while whispering in her ear, nothing obscene or anything, triggered her thoughts to something totally different. I won't go into the details, I know I felt it and then she just wanted to rid her self. Not of me but rid her self from her self, if that makes sense.

Why? Why would she feel so disgusted/disappointed by her own feelings, since we really both do care deeply for one another. Since we spend the time together and we have been sharing these experiences?

A part of me says that her emotions are becoming more overwhelming and she is scared of them, understandable, and she fears that going any further she might really mess up what we have, because of her feelings, which I doubt since she knows I want her no matter what. So why the reaction?

I really want more and she has been dropping her gaurd to allow more but this caught me off gaurd. I thibk it is a goodish sign but would like your guidance please.

Thanks

We where in a public setting so there was no weird or obscene thoughts or touchy feely kinda stuff. Really just me caressing her lower back and whispering how precious and beatiful she is to me. : $

I get the feeling that I should keep doing what I am doing now, to let it sink in that I am there, have no intent on leaving and as sure as hell don't just say stuff but really mean it. I thought she was going to move me aside but sheactually still responded to me and asked that we get together again on thursday. So that is good, but I could feel how she was setting up gaurd around her self. It is the weirdest feeling I have ever felt, how someone pushes up a wall against them selves.

She knows I felt it and she knows I know what happend, but I just calmly went on with our conversations, knowing what happend but respecting the moment as something really precious. That seemed to catch her off gaurd. Despite being in flight mode she was perfectly calm with me but I could see the annoyance and disappointment with her self.

Aye, if I can just let her see who precious every waking moment, thought, feeling , prayer or dream of her and with her really is to me.

She does acknowledge a lot already, so I really can't complain.

Thank you. I will do so.

I really appreciate your kind words and help. 🙂

Posted by OmagaIII

I really want more and she has been dropping her gaurd to allow more but this caught me off gaurd. I thibk it is a goodish sign but would like your guidance please.

Thanks

All I can tell you is maintain where you are with her without pushing (

*sighs* OK. I have Venus in Scorpio and I confess I've run and HIDDEN from a man I love very much. Because...it scares me that I love him very much.

Thank you all for the advice and help. I'll follow through. Either way, this angel will be in my arms.

Posted by CreoleGeisha
*sighs* OK. I have Venus in Scorpio and I confess I've run and HIDDEN from a man I love very much. Because...it scares me that I love him very much.

^^^^This is all me too. The flight or fight response is strong.

Everyone has already given great advice so I don't have much to add. Just keep doing what you've been doing. You are on the right track 🙂 She just needs time & patience & she will get there.

Posted by scorpgal76
Everyone has already given great advice so I don't have much to add. Just keep doing what you've been doing. You are on the right track 🙂 She just needs time & patience & she will get there.

Fully agree.

I hope i have a guy like this in my life who would be this caring, loving and patient with me too..