Get her back

I now regret my break-up with my Pisces ex a few months ago... I didn't realize how much I love her. I am really depressed because I miss her so much... I need her back, and this time for real. I ran into her at a party a week ago, we started kissing, she slept over etc. and after that I started texting her again, but my problem is she never ask me anything in return, so I'm thinking it's too late or lack of interest 😢... How do I proceed ?

Pisces females aren't an easy catch. As you realize, we might sleep with you if the sex is good .. but, emotionally —

Yeah, it's hard to win our hearts. People like to think we're easy to get until they try it and then they realize that we can have sex with you, we can party with you, dine with you .... without any depth of feelings.


I guess we would make great prostitutes 😄

Since you dated her, you must know what moves her .... animals, elderly, plants, paintings, photography .. whatever it is, there is where you have to aim to touch her heart.

Ouch. I'd ask on the pisces board..

Don't listen to that old marker. That is obviously how Piss-Angel is with her life but it certainly is NOT how other Pisces women are.

Once a Pisces swims away from you it's not easy for her to come back, that's for sure. She may have been hurt too deeply and won't go back into a relationship with you unless...she still has feelings for you too and you're able to heal the hurt you caused her and assure her those issues are resolved and won't be an issue any more. The longer you wait...the harder it is though. No guarantees because who knows what's taken place in her life since you broke up and what may be blocking your path back to her heart.

For starters you'll have to address the hurt you caused her and a good way to START healing the pain will have to come from a sincere effort on your part straight from the heart starting with a huge apology. You may have given several already but a deep heartfelt apology won't go unnoticed or unappreciated. A Pisces will KNOW your BS'ing though if you're not sincere ...so no playing games. Don't expect immediate results when you try. Just Be open and Be honest.Those are your best bets. She needs time to consider where you're coming from. Gifts are nice attached along with notes written from the heart of how you feel when you're around her are always appreciated too Romantic dinners with candle lite (always nice).

A good sign she might still be into you is the fact that she did have sex with you. Sex for a Pisces ISN'T just sex and you probably noticed that because, much like a scorpio, Pisces also feel things deeply and intensely and getting physical is no exception. Sex is just another outlet for us to express how we feel inside. If she didn't still have feelings for you...it's not likely that she would have had sex with you when she did.

Your best bet to opening up her heart to you again is opening your own heart to her first by being 100% honest with her. TELL HER how you feel now and what your intentions are if you do get back together.

Both signs are highly intuitive. So use your intuition when you're trying to win the heart of a Pisces. Being vulnerable and just flat out telling her how you feel is always scary because you might get a big fat rejection from her but you should take the risk and see what she says. Telling a Pisces how you feel is always flattering to hear !!

Youre so new, I just wanted to make sure you knew that we all pretty much hate P-Angel. She is here simply to hurt people, please don't listen to her.

Are you serious? You broke up with her, now you want her back, but you want HER to show interest. Sorry sweety...your fuck up, so you need to put in the work to fix it, not the other way around. As long as you make the effort and she keeps responding, I think you're okay.

Yes Skykomish. Thanks for acknowledging PsAngel is a TOXIC and bitter person with nothing but toxic advise to offer.

Daemon10, Candyapples88 is right, you F'd up and you need to put in the work to fix it. Followed by a LOT of effort until she responds. But don't stop once she does respond. Maintaining the effort is crucial.

Good luck!

Jag, I find that amusing you call her PissAngel and I call her P Demon. Piss Demon?

LOL

1. Depends on what you 2 broke up for in the 1st place. If you've consistently dumped her in the past, she might finally be fed up & be at a place of no return. Understand that each time you dump someone, they slowly but surely lose respect for you each time. The worst feeling in the world is to know that someone was OK with the aspect of you not being in their life any more. That takes a toll on the person being dumped.

2. Acknowledge whatever it is that you might've done wrong. But even better, change/fix whatever you've done wrong so that she won't consider the option of getting back with you to be high-risk. If she feels that the likelihood of you dumping her or disappointing her again is likely to happen, she'll purposely try NOT to fall back into your arms again, even if she secretely really wants to.

3. If she's already emotionally detached from you, there's no turning back. She may still have sex with you and/or still be in your company even though her deep emotions for you have finally lasped. Of course the guy will naturally assume that if she's even 1% willing to resume all activities like the good ole times that it must mean that she's somewhat ok with the aspect of re-entering the relationship. NOT true. She may be sticking around & doing the small things with you b/c that's her way of slowly BUT surely weening herself off of you. And even someone who has already emotionally detached needs to ween themselves off of the other person in other ways too (physically, psychologically, sexually, spiritually, etc.)

4. Give her some space. Give her some breathing room. Give her time to think things through & allow her enough time to even make an informed decision on whether or not she'd ever even want to get back with you again. You calling her or always being up in her face during this time won't help, as it will only confuse her more

5. Some women play hard to get. They figure that if you had the nerve to dump them, that they're gonna make it twice as hard THIS time for you to win their affection again & win them back. She might purposely be holding out on complimenting you or showing you any signs of interest b/c that's her way of seeing just how far you'd be willing to go to get her back.

The reason I broke up was because I moved from the abusive home I'd lived in all my life, and wasn't able to deal with the "psychologically trauma" after it... I never told her about this.. But now I'm better and sorted out some things for myself... I just became detached from everything including her, so I broke off all contact. I needed to "rebuild" myself kinda..

We have this amazing soul connection. When I'm with her, I get that feeling that this is meant to be... I can't live my life without her. 😢

Then explaining to her about the reason you broke up is exactly what you should tell her and be apologetic for the hurt you caused her in the break-up and see where it goes from there.

Oh HELL...daemon10 i think Krys is spot on (ok Krys I'm swallowing a bitter pill !!!)I'm a pisces and not sure I could have said it better, re-read, sit up and take notice

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Oh HELL...daemon10 i think Krys is spot on (ok Krys I'm swallowing a bitter pill !!!)I'm a pisces and not sure I could have said it better, re-read, sit up and take notice

See =) I knew you had it in you! =P

No seriously @Daemon: You need to tell her this. You need to explain to her exactly what you just shared with us. We're the strangers; We don't deserve to know the truth since we're not the ones you love, are committed to or feel a soul-connection with; but SHE is. So tell her & just HOPE that she'll understand. Even then, she may not understand immediately & to an extent, don't judge her for that. Even you had a hard time wrapping your mind around this, so don't be surprised when she doesn't immediately "get it" or understand either.

Tell her what's going on, then take a step back and allow her to get her thoughts together. If she's the woman you thought she was, she'll come back in due time. If not, she'll be gone forever, & in that case she wasn't the 1 for you after all (any relationship that's gonna work must be 1 built upon mutual understanding of 1 another).

After you tell her, she'll probably go from avoiding you & anything to do with you, all the way to being nervous to talk to you again b/c she doesn't want to say the wrong thing or further upset you. She'll probably feel bad/guilty for ever doubting you & from there, she'll start thinking of a master plan to get back in your life, hold your hand & show you that she'll do her best to try to understand you.

That's how women are...the min. we spot a "victim" of some sort, we naturally place our feelings to the side & have an enormous need to go comfort that person. If she comes back & immediately starts comforting/nurturing you, it'll mean that she "gets it" & has decided to not abandon you like she figures others probably have. The min. she's focused on comforting you again (despite her own hurt feelings), you've got/won her back =)

But if after you've told her, she comes back swinging & saying things like, "You're still an A hole for dumping you, you arrogant piece of (BLEEP)," then you'll know that nope, she still doesn't "get it" or perhaps that will be your proof that yep, she had disconnected from you & the relationship lonnnnng before you dumped her

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my advice come to you from the late great Tim Buckley:

Long afloat on shipless oceans
I did all my best to smile
Til your singing eyes and fingers
Drew me loving into your isle.

And you sang "Sail to me, sail to me; Let me enfold you."
Here I am, here I am waiting to hold you.

Did I dream you dreamed about me?
Were you hare or were you fox?
Now my foolish boat is leaning,
broken lovelorn on your rocks.

For you sang, "Touch me not, touch me not, come back tomorrow."

Oh my heart, oh my heart shies from the sorrow.

I'm as puzzled as a newborn child.
I'm as riddled as the tide.
Should I stand amid the breakers?
Or shall I lie with death my bride?

Hear me sing: "Swim to me, swim to me, let me enfold you."
"Here I am. Here I am, waiting to hold you."

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Orpheus simply plugged his ears.