Cyber Bullies

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by FemmeScorpion on Friday, February 25, 2011 and has 45 replies.

How to Address Cyber Bullying Effectively

Cyber bullying involves intentionally harming others online through hurtful comments or actions. To prevent it, promote respectful communication and avoid name-calling. If you encounter cyber bullying, consider ignoring harmful comments or responding calmly. Supporting kindness online helps create a safer environment for everyone and reduces emotional harm.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Am amazed,at the amount of cyber bullies on dxpnet. As a child I have always been told to be honest and treat others with repect.
And that is what I try to do,we are all humans and at times our action hurt others BUT why would one purposely try to hurt others with their comment.
People post on dxpnet to free themselves of emotional turmoil etc. Its the stuff we feel comfortable to share with our dxp audience/family. That we wouldnt feel comfortable sharing with family,close friends,colleagues etc.

So why not give your opinion in a calm, just tone?. Why start calling names and acting like a playground bully??
Have no one read about the amount of people who kill themselves as a result of cyber bullies?
If you dont agree with something ignore it or comment- but state your point without using harsh words.

A kind answer turn away wrath but grevious words stir up anger.
I know am not perfect but each day I want to grow and be a better person.
I have taken onboard what several members have said, and it may take time but each day am beginning to see things clearer.

Dont be so quick to judge others.....yes we may not all agree but if our comments can help someone to change....thats a good thing.
However if our comments cause more pain to others then dear lord help us all.
Because one thing is for certain...we will all reap what we sow.

PEACE.πŸ™‚

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@seadream
16 Years

FemmeScorpion you hit a nerve...I'm honest but sometimes the tact is missing, I can on occasion speak before I think but wouldn't consider myself a bully. I think some peeps come on these boards to vent, critisise without meaning to (hands up I've been guilty!)Not everyone visits thinking family, maybe more a case of it's anonymous we can say whatever no-one gonna take it personally but yep they prob do

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

True we all can vent...but have respect for others.
Some people just wait on others to create a post then they come out from the woodwork and start spreading there hate.
Next time b4 we hit the keypad....stop AND think. What if it was my sister,daughter,neice,friend etc in this position.
How would I advise them etc.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Cyber-bullying is "the use of information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group, that is intended to harm others".[1] As it has become more common in society, particularly among young people, legislation and awareness campaigns have arisen to combat it.

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@ScorpSage
16 YearsScorpio

@FemmeScorpion always enjoyed your posts...and still am! Words of wisdom my dear!
Take care,

@Aries7733...thanks for the support in my post...I know perfectly how wrong my doings were...but having people constantly bashing you just made me want to prove and protect my point even more!

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@ScorpSage
16 YearsScorpio

@prince_pisces and @amethyst...what is up with all the hate!

Geez I had some moron bombarding my last thread like crazy...that is not how you deal with people's need for advice...you either give advice or constructive criticism or your simply pass your way...but why bother making fun, using harsh words or useless commenting??

For God's sake...you are wasting your time and the thread poster's time!! Kill 2 birds with one stone...either pass your way or give interesting feedback.

I am not saying that everything people post on these threads are subject to advice...I simply pass along if I have nothing helpful to say!

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Prince_Pisces
Have no one read about the amount of people who kill themselves as a result of cyber bullies?

What? LOL
Im sorry but i dont feel sorry for anyone like that. If you're gonna KILL yourself cause of "internet bullying" of all things, then you were clearly a waste of oxygen, and shouldnt be missed lol. How the hell does anyone even get bullied anyway? This isnt kindergarten LOL!

I totally agree with Prince Pisces. LOL. You wouldn't be missed if you killed yourself over cyber bullying. You are one emotional waste of oxygen. There is more to life than what someone on the internet said to you or about you.

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Cadillac
"Canadians rock!! Period"

I guess you really don't take the bait. But yes, Canadians do rock. They are known for their vast nothingness.

We are known as peacemakers and we also export hefty amounts of lumber to Americans so yea talk about nothingness

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@aquarius09
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Posted by 69virgo

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Posted by Cadillac
Sure it's not because you're a pussy Canadian?

Canadians rock!! Period

Rock what?

your world

Really! you know my psyche is in aqua....and i can get in that brain..πŸ˜›

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I'm your intellectual rival my Virgo friend, irrespective of where you have your aqua. Except I'm greater because I'm aqua x 3 πŸ˜›...You can only dream of getting into my psyche πŸ˜‰

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Wow goodmorning guys. Guess different time zone. I was asleep whilst everyone was typing. I actually read majority of your post and thanks for taking time out to comment.
As usual some ppl went off tangent.😒
Well I still think cyber bulling is not neccessary. What drove it home and push me to create this thread,was my younger cousin was at my home last night dxpnet page was up on my laptop and she read a few threads.
She thought it was a thread visited by teenagers and commented "wow some of the stuff said is gross and this is cyber bullying." She asked me if this site was been moderated?
A teenager was condemning our actions,gave me food for thought.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Aries7733 and ScorpSage...ladies continue to be you.
My bestmates are aries,scorp n sag. I guess we balance each other out.πŸ™‚
We will never always sing from the same hymn page but as long as you have mutual respect for others and a dose of empathy.
Then the rest will follow.πŸ™‚

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@FemmeScorpion
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Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by FemmeScorpion
Wow goodmorning guys. Guess different time zone. I was asleep whilst everyone was typing. I actually read majority of your post and thanks for taking time out to comment.
As usual some ppl went off tangent.😒
Well I still think cyber bulling is not neccessary. What drove it home and push me to create this thread,was my younger cousin was at my home last night dxpnet page was up on my laptop and she read a few threads.
She thought it was a thread visited by teenagers and commented "wow some of the stuff said is gross and this is cyber bullying." She asked me if this site was been moderated?
A teenager was condemning our actions,gave me food for thought.

Yeh there is that, but you stir the pot sometimes and that plays a part too, then sitting back and watch the sparks fly.
Don't deny it either.πŸ™‚

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I think you've quote the wrong person. I dont see the point in stiring to create drama on here.
I have enough drama in my waking life.
Ok cowboy!!

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@FemmeScorpion
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Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by acattychattyscorpio
These people are insecure losers who probably look like something Courtney Love coughed up. Ignore them.

listen. u talk ok, so nobody bullies you. but she is an arsehole of ur same sign. just because she belongs to ur sign doesnt mean that she aint an arsehole, becos u rnt one. seriously. read her posts. she was the 1st person i put on my ignore list. fucking dick she is! i fuck the aqua, then the aries then the libra. well done! i mean... she admits what she is herself... no wonder what her street job "placement" is. she filled the aqua forum page then the libra one.

complete dick!

i fuck him then the other one, then the other, and she also wonders whats the problem with the aqua guy, with the libra guy?

then: oh no ive never fucked them.

am so upset at having a fucking mars and pluto in scorpio that makes me angry all the time, id luv just to chillax, but cant at times, especially when i read shits like that.

or also the other leo girl who's made 10000 posts about her going with married men with children. but fuck her off!

wtf is their problem? they arent even humans, they are a bunch of desperate animals!

no morals at all. i would never go with someone who was married or had children, because i have a lil bit of good sense and put myself at the place of the children for example. but yep am an aqua.

Listen little girl grow up and get a life!! You obviously never read any of thread!!
Since you love reading my threads please feel free to go over them with a magnifying glass.
If i slept with someone,them I can own up to it.
You are a lost soul. Dont worry I will pray you find peace and a purpose in life!!

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I didn't read this whole thing.. but I agree with you Femme. I don't ask everyone to like me, but they don't need to turn everything into personal attacks either. Just leave me alone if you don't like me, its not like I'm going to go seek you out to ruin your day. Return the favor.

~~~
*grabs P-Angel by the ankles, dunks her head in the toilet bowl and flushes*

Cool off, fishy.
~~~

I love you kol. ^.^

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

Posted by P-Angel
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Everybody should be really scard now .... empty threats of ignoring while responding are really really really frightening.

Look she obviously didnt block me coz i saw her post. Then i thought why am i giving her the time of the day.
I dont know what her issue is...but I am never up in her business and if i was I would at least repost truth not some made up version of what she supposedly read.

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@FemmeScorpion
16 Years500+ Posts

@ Skykomish....thanks for getting the point am putting across.
Am like this if a thread grabs my attention i read it...if I feel I can give a input I will.
If think it is too personal I will pm the OP,i dont need a audience to give my feedback.

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Uhm okay.. typical aqua, I'm just totally confused now lol. Well I guess since I can't tell if you're attacking me or not, I'll let it go. Damn you aquas confuse me lol. I hope my comments on the other thread were interpreted correctly, but I have no idea if they were or not.

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@acattychattyscorpio
15 YearsScorpio

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by acattychattyscorpio
These people are insecure losers who probably look like something Courtney Love coughed up. Ignore them.

listen. u talk ok, so nobody bullies you. but she is an arsehole of ur same sign. just because she belongs to ur sign doesnt mean that she aint an arsehole, becos u rnt one. seriously.

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I'm just saying in general.
Regardless of what her sign is I agree with what she said about the bullies on dxpnet. In fact, I don't normally get along with other Scorpios (or other water signs) anyway. πŸ™‚

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@acattychattyscorpio
15 YearsScorpio

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by acattychattyscorpio

Posted by aquagirl24

Posted by acattychattyscorpio
These people are insecure losers who probably look like something Courtney Love coughed up. Ignore them.

listen. u talk ok, so nobody bullies you. but she is an arsehole of ur same sign. just because she belongs to ur sign doesnt mean that she aint an arsehole, becos u rnt one. seriously.

I'm just saying in general.
Regardless of what her sign is I agree with what she said about the bullies on dxpnet. In fact, I don't normally get along with other Scorpios (or other water signs) anyway. πŸ™‚

Hey that time I jizzed in your face doesn't count as bullying. That was my pick up line! Well, more like a 'hello, meet my DNA' act. What? Its perfectly natural. *nods*

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I'm sorry, who are you again? ;D