Hello :) Newbie girl nuts over Scorpio

Hello 🙂 I am sooooo glad I found this place!! Found it accidentally while trying to make sense of a Scorpio man who has just turned me every which way but loose. And I am thrilled to see it ain't just me! LOL!

Where to start...

He came into my life so much like an answered prayer. He made the first move. Didn't see it coming at all. I got pissed at him once and that changed everything. He backed off to the point of obscurity and it took a lot on my part to get him talking again. It's never been like before and I don't see it ever going back. I miss that. I miss him making the moves. I need him to make the moves. I am such a strong personality that I was excited to find a man who seemed comfortable with that and willing to go toe to toe with me.

We've had the usual cat and mouse game. Trouble is I don't like being the mouse and sometimes he isn't a good cat. I think he's so friggin used to being approached by women that he doesn't have to work at it. I'm so spoiled at getting attention from men that I don't wanna be the one making the moves. Battle of the wills? You betcha. LOL

So he goes away. I don't know what the hell he is doing, just that he goes away. I ignore him. He comes back. He quizzes me but never divulges anything about himself. So I ignore him again. I no longer answer his questions unless I am in a generous mood, usually prefering to answer his questions with a question of my own. He pouts but comes back.

The thing that bought me here to post was simply to say I'm glad you all are here and of course, to learn. Reading some of these posts has made me feel better about how this is all going between us. I hope for more. I do. He has captivated me like no other. I am a Libra so communication between us frustrates the hell out of me because I want it out in the open and he prefers secrets. It keeps me interested but drives me nuts too. Of course he finds it amusing. LOL

Does it ever get any better? Does it ever work out between bossy Libra and secret keeping Scorpio? Will the wait be worth it??

You'd think Libra's balance could even out Scorpio's extremism, but alas, Libras and Scorps usually don't last.

I guess you should enjoy the fireworks for what they are. I guess.

...and the scorp relationship drama continues lol. you're in a perfect place for that. most of us went through that. look at the tread names and you'll find your answers.

Scorpio Men for Dummies: An Introduction to Masochism

by scorpion_rising

naturally

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what signs torture themselves with scorp relationships:
aries
libra
taurus

This thread is going along wonderfully. My scorpio cousin ensnared a libra man. she abuses him on a daily basis.

there is a big difference between scorp men and women and how they manipulate ppl🙂

^ feminist bigot

me? god no!!! i'm all for men🙂

for the record, my scorp cousin doesn't play games with her husband.

She doesn't need to because she outright owns him.

Oh! I come back to see all of you here to help!! Thank you, thank you!! I'm still looking around learning to find my way so please bare with me.

Shaks, kiss my little Libra ass. That lazy comment wasn't called for. You need to seriously work on those flirting skills. They suck.

The rest of you were wonderful!! I'm sure he can be too. Probably a Scorpio male once tortured by a Libra woman, now gonna make the rest of us pay.

Ferdy, you got one too!! Great!! We can compare notes!! Which, you know, would cause those Scorpio men no amount of untold worry. LOL

I'm so excited!!

Scorpio Rising....*sighs*...that wasn't very encouraging news. So you really think they won't last? Why? I really want this boy.

AM2...yep, love that idea of Scoprio for Dummies book!! I need one!! Before it's over, I bet we could write one!! LOL

Ferdy, I'm gonna get with you on the next post. 🙂

Thanks again to everybody!!

Ferdy wrote:

Welcome aboard!
Your scenario is so familiar. Since I'm still in that "phase" I'll let the other
respond to the "Does it get better" part!!
how long have you known him? Have you had good times before the vanishing acts have begun? I know you said you got pissed at him; what happened? Has he somehow turned that
on you as Scorps are so good at doing; playing innocent?!!

I hope you find the answers you're looking for. There are some very knowledgable people here!

I met him online last fall so it'a been almost a year. We had some wonderful moments before he became Hudini. (sp?) He came on to me, sent me something each and every day, sharing all sorts of stuff. Really was impressed that he was intelligent and sensitive. We have a lot in common. Things that weren't public so I know he wasn't mirroring.

I got pissed one day when he IM'd me but then was preoccupied doing other stuff. Silly, I know, but it made me mad. So I told him off. "Don't go IM'ing me and then expect me to sit there and wait. I don't think so Dude!" So he came back immediately and apologized, which is the smartest thing I've ever seen a man do. Trouble is, after he apologized, I guess he got to thinking about it and decided I was out of line for scolding him to start with. Then he backed off. Said he couldn't believe I said those things to him.

I kept contacting him. I'd email him but he was cold. Now we are to the stage where I email, he reads but says nothing and then once a month I get an IM.

You know, these Scorpio's are a different breed. I could write a book on Taurus!! If you ever need anything on one of those, let me know. I am so the girl on that one. I freakin have a Taurus magnet on me somewhere!! They are wonderful too....but can't hold a candle to this guy.

I don't know what to do with him. I don't know if I should just sit down and tell him he's driving me nuts or if I should play his stupid games. He makes me plum stupid.

Shaks...don't you say a word!! LOL

Elana, you asked me if I knew how to make him think he's in control....

I don't know what I know anymore! LOL No, let's assume I know nothing. He is in control. He is so far in my head and heart that I just can't think of much more than him. Have I told him that? No.

Thing is, he seems to have my number. Am I the only one looking up to Heaven for help, shouting out "GAWD!" cause this man frustrates me so much— He frstrates me to the point that I swear, I have never been so moved or passionate about a man. Never.

So what did I do? Just sent him a message. Simply....I miss you. That was bad, probably. Can't help it. I just have to be honest.

I don't know who this "FuckinA" person is, but I can't express enough how badly I want to bludgeon you to death, you pompous asshole.

All you do is stay over on the Scorpio board and discuss how much you hate them and how worthless they are to society, when you yourself are not a Scorpio.

Fucker, why don't you stay on your own sign's board, instead of trying to piss us all off. Fucking C u n t

Tell me what your sign is so I can go over to that board and spam it with negativity relentlessly.

^ Aries.

If you go over and flame them, they'll ban your topic because well, they're a bunch of thin-skinned big babies. just speaking from experience.

^The start of a beautiful new friendship?

hugs and kisses now everybody?

must everything be sexual with you am?

😉 of course

i suppose you tired of your taurus dildo, and are in need of a real man's attention?

"jesus s_r, you've sure got a thing about dildos"

lol.... nah baby, i just know which girls are in need of one real bad.

it's the company

if that's your offer to open your mouth wide, i need to see a pic first.