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A question for the scorpio women. What things should a man do to win a scorpio's heart? In my experience it has been very difficult to win a scorpio's heart.

Yeah your're a Cap so you should do fine 😉 Cap men are really yummy.
Like Scorp chic said be yourself. If we find you acting something other then yourself we start to get suspicious of everything.
You have to find the right balance of aloofness and affectionate. I don't want a man who clings and fusses over me but if he's too aloof I wonder if a game is being played. Though in all honesty that to me is a challenge and I go for it 😉

I think I just echoed everything you said Scorp chic. LOL

Another thing that rubbed me the wrong way about Caps (and Virgos) is you guys can come across as a little snobby and arrogant. Confidence and even a little bit of cockiness can be sexy but you look your nose down at me I'm liable to take a swing at that nose 😛 LOL I've since learned that Caps SO come across this way but it's not nessisarily how they are. I don't like know it all who corrects me all the time. I know you don't know EVERYTHING so don't try to make me believe you do. 😛
Other then that Scorps and Caps can capture each others hearts fairly quickly and for a very long time 🙂

Thanks everyone for responding. I don't know if I will ever be with a scorpio. I have been unlucky so far, but if I do, I will remember your advice.

Scorpio Chic
"And my current cap is also a monkey in chinese astrology (like you) and he is a big kid with a big sense of humor. Scorps love someone who can make us laugh, so I'm sure she'll appreciate that about you too."

He is a monkey like me? We share the same sign. I always remember having good times in the presence of other monkey people. The passion runs deep in us.

Gingerscorp:
"Another thing that rubbed me the wrong way about Caps (and Virgos) is you guys can come across as a little snobby and arrogant. Confidence and even a little bit of cockiness can be sexy but you look your nose down at me I'm liable to..."

Yeah some times we come across as snobish. It's just that we are shy, and lost in our own world. I try not to be like that though.

Eden:
"trying to relate closely to someone. bring her near the ocean for a date also a museum is nice place to fall in luv with art & eachother"

I like this idea. I love the water and culture. Intelligence is important for me too. BTW Hugs right back too! 🙂

ladybug162:
"I agree with eden on the joking part. I'm really shy, but if you can make me laugh, I tend to warm up quicker and the conversation tends to flow more naturally for me. I like men who can make me laugh!"

Okay I will keep that in mind. I can make women laugh being the sign of the Monkey and all. 🙂

My experience Scorpio women will simply fall for your true nature (Whatever that is). There is nothing to do trying to win them, they are not into facades, they fall for who you are and if they don't, they most likely never will. For the most part Scorpio women get their interest right of the bat. They aren't the type of women that will not like you at the beginning and if you stick around with time, will get to fall for you. If they don't at the beginning, they most likely never will. My experience Scorpio women are one of the most up front women out there, when it comes to love situation, an interest is usually well aware that they are liked by a Scorpio woman.