Hey...he admits "my boyfriend"?

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Haha you don't know. How long have you been together? How do you feel for him, you two are on two different wavelength.
Yes, we are damn different. I didn't expect we can go there.

I think since we met, then dating over 4 months, and we are busy and he is trying to get along with me. He introduce me to his friends and family, and find me a better job and more opportunities suddenly. Btw, he is always talking about future and kids, but i think we only "talking".

I confuse that we still have no commitment yet. That is my point.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Haha you don't know. How long have you been together? How do you feel for him, you two are on two different wavelength.
Yes, we are damn different. I didn't expect we can go there.

I think since we met, then dating over 4 months, and we are busy and he is trying to get along with me. He introduce me to his friends and family, and find me a better job and more opportunities suddenly. Btw, he is always talking about future and kids, but i think we only "talking".

I confuse that we still have no commitment yet. That is my point.
He can be seriously into you.

Question is, are you?

I'm a scorp and if I have integrated you into my circle of friends, family and future it means I'm serious and I will go for stronger relationship.

But you're obviously not. There's a gap of expectation. State how you see this relationship is and where do you see it going.

Sooner the better.
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It sounds great! And thanks for your reminder.
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This is his way of asking you, if you want to be his girlfriend (or are you both boys, I´m a little confused on that). If you say: yes, tell your friends, you have a girlfriend, that means you´re together.

Right?
I think OP is a girl and her Scorpio wants to know if she had informed her guy friends that she has a bf.

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YES.

So I don't think this is a "question" to ask me "boy/girlfriend" relationship.

This is not fun.
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ah, I am a Gemini.

Btw, we still very good when are getting along. But anything what he said/ told me that always sounds like "surprise"!

We are Dating but he admits "my boyfriend"?

A Gemini?

Girl, Byeeee!



So he told you he is your bf?

Did he ever ask you to be his gf?
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Forgive me my rudeness but they NEVER ASK ! They say and people "obey". At least they want things that way.

She better run, fast
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Hey thanks for everyone replied my post.

I am totally confusing what he "really" want to say.

These are some content what we talked.

S: Does he know you have a boyfriend?

me: I don't know when I got a boyfriend....

S: I mean, do you see that different?

(I said I don't understand.)

S: Do you think you are my girlfriend, that is my question.

me: what do you want to say

S: I am asking you how you feel.

Finally, I said if possible I want my boyfriend can come spend more time with me. He replied "Sure."

And I really feel tried his "asking" that is doesn't like a question.
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Posted by Already-use
I think your answer were so confusiiiing . I hate when people respond with a question . It's either yes or no . Or maybe a " Idk" . Don't ask them to tell you what to say it's very passive . If you like him and want to be in a relationship with him JUST SAY YES . easy
omg. This is how a scorpio man would like to ask a girl?!

I can not accept. "How you feel"?!
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Posted by PeanutButterandElly
I'm beginning to see why geminis and Scorpios don't work lol.

Cause I'm reading your posts OP, and what I'm comprehending is that this dude really likes you and in what I'd consider a cute and sweet action, wanted to let you know he likes you and wants you to be his girlfriend, and he hopes you'll say yes.

He's asking you to be his girlfriend. He wants you to say yes.

Now I'm confused as to why you're confused? Are you confused? Or upset? Or happy? Cause I honestly can't tell. Lol. And now I think I know how your Scorp feels.

Are there any gemini vets around that can translate for my poor watery soul? Lol
Thanks for reading my post and you point out what he may want to tell me. 🙂

But I want him can ask me this when we stay together, that is not a good question in whatsapp. I replied him I want a boyfriend who can spend time with me, he said yes and I WOULD see what he will do.

And i really feel upset before, does he want to be serious or not. He is a sexy and attractive man. He talks not a lot, but bring out some questions suddenly. I don't know what i can answer before we have commitment.
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Posted by HeartofTopaz
It doesn't sound like you guys communicate very well. I'd be more concerned with that than "is he my bf?", it sounds a bit juvenile.

Im sure he wants you to be his gf and this is his special lil way of asking. BUT,

I'd be more upfront, and ask for the same in return.. otherwise buckle up, you're in for a bumpy ride with the rest of this relationship.
AH...I know. Actually, we both come from different countries....

We are trying and building up more between us.

Btw, you all pointed some typical characters of scorpio man, but that is a "different language" on Gemini.
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ah, I am a Gemini.

Btw, we still very good when are getting along. But anything what he said/ told me that always sounds like "surprise"!

We are Dating but he admits "my boyfriend"?

A Gemini?

Girl, Byeeee!



So he told you he is your bf?

Did he ever ask you to be his gf?
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lol

it'd be nice to know his placements, OP and yours.

maybe you connect in other ways, aspects/ his dominant signs. yours.
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I know right ? Scorpios I feel they are intuitive , if you want to "understand" them you need to read between the lines , or just Idk just observe how they act or something .

It does not have to be straightforward . Just look at the actions ...

I feel that Gemini are really up in the air sometimes and I don't feel like you are that much detail oriented . If it's not clear to you and you need to ask him " what does it mean " when it's really obvious , you might spend a lot of time wondering in this relationship 😆

I agree with everyone when they say that you are the confusing one ^^. What is your mercury sign and his by the way ?