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Posted by flowingwaterI think Imp is on to something here.Posted by ImpulsvI got the feeling too if he doesn't want to give the number. I don't think she knows.
he has a gf I bet hence he has deep feeling n won't call . n op did u know? Hence the guilt.
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Posted by flowingwaterThanks for all of your great replies. He and I are both married and trapped in loveless marriages. He and his wife were separated when we met and my husband and I were talking about getting a divorce. But then his wife came back and my husband refused to file for a divorce, too.
Honestly, it could be just sex but... The bond between a Taurus and Scorpio is VERY strong so he might have fallen and is not taking it well.
Posted by kalinThat's what he said, too. He said he doesn't want another breakdown, whatever that means. He said he cried right after that when I went home.
He might be confused too. We sometimes can be addicted to sex and not sure if it's love or lust.
Posted by HeartI understand, yet as a Taurus sun I can say we have trust issues. For me, a person needs to be clear on their motives. So if sex early on does equate love it has to be obvious, and the person has to stand by their word. Consistency is key. Not be one way one minute then scare off the next.
As a Scorpio I say ur wrong. Taurus is like flame to the moth. So we are in way sooner than u n ur pace kills us so if I'd care for us speed up the pace a bit instead of torturing us lol
N no we are not playing game n testing u
U just don't get us that we feel vulnerable n are trying to gauge reciprocity of interest. N sex to soon would not change the mystery because u all ready are a mystery for being u our complete opposite Taurus
Posted by flowingwaterThat's true, that is exactly what our problem is. We can't let go of this and can't act on it yet. I'm trapped into his web. I don't even talk to him at work as he takes one look at me and I melt again. Believe me, I am not that type of woman. Never even looked at a naked man's picture since I got married. If circumstances were different i wouldn't even talk to this gut but I thought we were both separating from our spouses and made that mistake. Now I can't get rid of the guilt and he is the same way, too. Yet I can't go back to my loveless life knowing I could have someone like him in my life.
Honestly, it could be just sex but... The bond between a Taurus and Scorpio is VERY strong so he might have fallen and is not taking it well.
Posted by Kodak375Posted by sparklingYou guys were correct, but she hadPosted by HeartI understand, yet as a Taurus sun I can say we have trust issues. For me, a person needs to be clear on their motives. So if sex early on does equate love it has to be obvious, and the person has to stand by their word. Consistency is key. Not be one way one minute then scare off the next.
As a Scorpio I say ur wrong. Taurus is like flame to the moth. So we are in way sooner than u n ur pace kills us so if I'd care for us speed up the pace a bit instead of torturing us lol
N no we are not playing game n testing u
U just don't get us that we feel vulnerable n are trying to gauge reciprocity of interest. N sex to soon would not change the mystery because u all ready are a mystery for being u our complete opposite Taurusclick to expand
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Posted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.

Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand
Posted by Magenta_AzureThanks for clearing this up, I read it on the forum but didn't know what that meant 🙂 I am trying to avoid him as much as I can but that's so hard, I want him to love me and if his wife is as bad as he says, why doesn't call it off?Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand
Posted by exoThanks, I'm really trying. But at the same time I wish there was a way that he would want to be with me.Posted by sparklingsrc="http://url.dxpnet.com?f=https% 3A www% 2Eyoutube% 2Ecom embed Lgs9QUtWc3M" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen>Posted by flowingwaterThanks for all of your great replies. He and I are both married and trapped in loveless marriages. He and his wife were separated when we met and my husband and I were talking about getting a divorce. But then his wife came back and my husband refused to file for a divorce, too.
Honestly, it could be just sex but... The bond between a Taurus and Scorpio is VERY strong so he might have fallen and is not taking it well.
Our spouses are both Pisces. This scorpio guy says he loves his wife and I am only his doll. He says I'm the complete package, his wife is a housewife, not good looking or fit or educated. When we first made out, he said he doesn't want to loose control so he stayed away from me for days. Then as he puts it, he gets hypnotized by my beauty and everything but he is committed and can't leave his family. He has my phone number and I have his but he forbid me from calling him because of his wife.
I know that now that they are back together we shouldn't hang out but he and I saw how it was like to meet your other half and now I can't go back. I feel like someone whose body is getting rid of toxic little by little, obviously I wanted this to work if they were getting a divorced but I don't think he is leaving his wife.click to expand

Posted by sparklingAlthough we didn't have sex, I know exactly what you're dealing with. Same damn thing happened to me this last year. I'm talking EXACTLY, from the dream job to the significant others, to the never even the least bit interested in someone other than mine.Posted by flowingwaterThat's true, that is exactly what our problem is. We can't let go of this and can't act on it yet. I'm trapped into his web. I don't even talk to him at work as he takes one look at me and I melt again. Believe me, I am not that type of woman. Never even looked at a naked man's picture since I got married. If circumstances were different i wouldn't even talk to this gut but I thought we were both separating from our spouses and made that mistake. Now I can't get rid of the guilt and he is the same way, too. Yet I can't go back to my loveless life knowing I could have someone like him in my life.
Honestly, it could be just sex but... The bond between a Taurus and Scorpio is VERY strong so he might have fallen and is not taking it well.click to expand

Posted by sparklingBecause he's a piece of shit user. A man of integrity would never let his dick out of his pants until he is completely separated and divorced. There really is no way to know how this will play out considering you are both participating until crappy behavior. I would encourage you to do that Taurus thing and keep you feelings out of this. Also, moving forward I would encourage you to keep your pants on and not screw him. I think you need to take some time out and think about what you've just done. You both are legally married.Posted by Magenta_AzureThanks for clearing this up, I read it on the forum but didn't know what that meant 🙂 I am trying to avoid him as much as I can but that's so hard, I want him to love me and if his wife is as bad as he says, why doesn't call it off?Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand

Posted by sultrykittyWhat you described is my life right now, 12 hours a day working one inch away from each other, but I can't go back to my loveless life knowing therevare people out there who I could be happy with. Do scorpios leave their pisces wives for taurus?Posted by sparklingAlthough we didn't have sex, I know exactly what you're dealing with. Same damn thing happened to me this last year. I'm talking EXACTLY, from the dream job to the significant others, to the never even the least bit interested in someone other than mine.Posted by flowingwaterThat's true, that is exactly what our problem is. We can't let go of this and can't act on it yet. I'm trapped into his web. I don't even talk to him at work as he takes one look at me and I melt again. Believe me, I am not that type of woman. Never even looked at a naked man's picture since I got married. If circumstances were different i wouldn't even talk to this gut but I thought we were both separating from our spouses and made that mistake. Now I can't get rid of the guilt and he is the same way, too. Yet I can't go back to my loveless life knowing I could have someone like him in my life.
Honestly, it could be just sex but... The bond between a Taurus and Scorpio is VERY strong so he might have fallen and is not taking it well.
I left my job 2 months ago. And my SO and I are doing much better. Who knows what will happen in the future, but having that distraction 12 hours a day every day wasn't helping anything.
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Posted by Magenta_AzureBelieve me I refused all and every request, and then had a weak moment. I will not let that happen again but can't stop thinking and praying that he will one day be minePosted by sparklingBecause he's a piece of shit user. A man of integrity would never let his dick out of his pants until he is completely separated and divorced. There really is no way to know how this will play out considering you are both participating until crappy behavior. I would encourage you to do that Taurus thing and keep you feelings out of this. Also, moving forward I would encourage you to keep your pants on and not screw him. I think you need to take some time out and think about what you've just done. You both are legally married.Posted by Magenta_AzureThanks for clearing this up, I read it on the forum but didn't know what that meant 🙂 I am trying to avoid him as much as I can but that's so hard, I want him to love me and if his wife is as bad as he says, why doesn't call it off?Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand

Posted by sparklingGood luck. I hope you made his loose-dick ass wear a condom. You dont want any other reasons to regret screwing him.Posted by Magenta_AzureBelieve me I refused all and every request, and then had a weak moment. I will not let that happen again but can't stop thinking and praying that he will one day be minePosted by sparklingBecause he's a piece of shit user. A man of integrity would never let his dick out of his pants until he is completely separated and divorced. There really is no way to know how this will play out considering you are both participating until crappy behavior. I would encourage you to do that Taurus thing and keep you feelings out of this. Also, moving forward I would encourage you to keep your pants on and not screw him. I think you need to take some time out and think about what you've just done. You both are legally married.Posted by Magenta_AzureThanks for clearing this up, I read it on the forum but didn't know what that meant 🙂 I am trying to avoid him as much as I can but that's so hard, I want him to love me and if his wife is as bad as he says, why doesn't call it off?Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand
Posted by Magenta_AzureThe guilt I feel right now along with the deep feeling is enough to kill me.Posted by sparklingGood luck. I hope you made his loose-dick ass wear a condom. You dont want any other reasons to regret screwing him.Posted by Magenta_AzureBelieve me I refused all and every request, and then had a weak moment. I will not let that happen again but can't stop thinking and praying that he will one day be minePosted by sparklingBecause he's a piece of shit user. A man of integrity would never let his dick out of his pants until he is completely separated and divorced. There really is no way to know how this will play out considering you are both participating until crappy behavior. I would encourage you to do that Taurus thing and keep you feelings out of this. Also, moving forward I would encourage you to keep your pants on and not screw him. I think you need to take some time out and think about what you've just done. You both are legally married.Posted by Magenta_AzureThanks for clearing this up, I read it on the forum but didn't know what that meant 🙂 I am trying to avoid him as much as I can but that's so hard, I want him to love me and if his wife is as bad as he says, why doesn't call it off?Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand

Posted by sparklingHave mercy jesus.Posted by Magenta_AzureThe guilt I feel right now along with the deep feeling is enough to kill me.Posted by sparklingGood luck. I hope you made his loose-dick ass wear a condom. You dont want any other reasons to regret screwing him.Posted by Magenta_AzureBelieve me I refused all and every request, and then had a weak moment. I will not let that happen again but can't stop thinking and praying that he will one day be minePosted by sparklingBecause he's a piece of shit user. A man of integrity would never let his dick out of his pants until he is completely separated and divorced. There really is no way to know how this will play out considering you are both participating until crappy behavior. I would encourage you to do that Taurus thing and keep you feelings out of this. Also, moving forward I would encourage you to keep your pants on and not screw him. I think you need to take some time out and think about what you've just done. You both are legally married.Posted by Magenta_AzureThanks for clearing this up, I read it on the forum but didn't know what that meant 🙂 I am trying to avoid him as much as I can but that's so hard, I want him to love me and if his wife is as bad as he says, why doesn't call it off?Posted by sparklingA list of people that you vehemently dislike and plan to avoid. It was unrelated to your topic. SorryPosted by Magenta_AzureNot sure what butter list means, sorry I'm new 🙂
Scorpio men are officially on my shit list. I'm taking Aquas off.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvYou're right but it is so awkward at work right now. I'm one of those people who don't even talk or make eye contact with him unless it's work related. But he wants to send IMs via the company's messenger and I refuse to go online for a while now and that has been killing him. I tell him to text or call if he wants to be friends and he says no.
Ok just make sure it does t occur n do things right. Meaning let things finalize for u n him. But seems he is staying so don't wonder if he love u or not. His actions spoke n u just move on. Lick ur wounds , huge lesson Learned.
Don't waste time on underline reason he chose but focus on fact he chose his wife. Make it easier for I to move on.

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Shit... I'm still dealing with one. I need to cut him off.
Posted by ImpulsvI'm sorry that you had to go through this. Was he a scorpio? If jot do you know of an scorpio who pulled and pushed and finally went for the one he loved?
Men do leave their wives even before things get started. At least Real men do. My ex husband did knew it was done most likely because he felt something for another n did me the favor to set me free. Then he got with her n married her. U see no push n pull hot and cold. Very decisive.
I was fine because I too was in a loveless marriage.
Posted by ImpulsvThanks for your great reply. I keep reading it and try to think of ways to do this. I completely shut him down at work, feeling so sad that I can't even look at him but at the same time, I feel I love him and want him.
Ok just make sure it does t occur n do things right. Meaning let things finalize for u n him. But seems he is staying so don't wonder if he love u or not. His actions spoke n u just move on. Lick ur wounds , huge lesson Learned.
Don't waste time on underline reason he chose but focus on fact he chose his wife. Make it easier for I to move on.
Posted by ImpulsvRacking my brain, this is exactly what I am doing right now. I'll try to do better, but as you may know, Taurus is all or nothing. If I can't be comfortable enough to talk to him, I ice him out and not even talk to him all day long and that's bad, too....
No he was a Leo
I'm a Scorpio but fell
Hard for a Taurus n know what ur going through regarding this attraction.
Thus u have to focus on what is at hand " he chose another"
No sense in racking ur brain why , if he still loves , will he leave
What matters is now n he's chose another. It will make it easier to move on if u think this way.
How do I know because a Taurus chose another.
N all the reason make no difference fact is he's with another. So let it go. If he return then rack ur brain then as to what to do but remain present at the moment u don't have to deal with it


Posted by sparklingHe has his reasons, just like you have yours for not leaving. Just like I had when I decided to try to make tings work with my man, and the scorp in my story decided to go back to his ex girlfriend. Shit happens in life, we make our choices and live with them. You're acting like a desperate teenage girl when you should be acting like a mature married woman.
Whatever I read here sounds right: https://ocolshit.wordpress.com/2012/12/28/the-dark-side-of-scorpio-men/
He is not attractive, he is popular among older ladies, I cant figure out why he tries so hard to stay in his unhappy marriage. He doesn't want to call or email me either.
Posted by sultrykittyGood advice, thanks much. I'll start right awayPosted by sparklingHe has his reasons, just like you have yours for not leaving. Just like I had when I decided to try to make tings work with my man, and the scorp in my story decided to go back to his ex girlfriend. Shit happens in life, we make our choices and live with them. You're acting like a desperate teenage girl when you should be acting like a mature married woman.
Whatever I read here sounds right: https://ocolshit.wordpress.com/2012/12/28/the-dark-side-of-scorpio-men/
He is not attractive, he is popular among older ladies, I cant figure out why he tries so hard to stay in his unhappy marriage. He doesn't want to call or email me either.
Be the bigger person in this and step back. Waaay back.click to expand

Posted by sparklingBecause he doesn't want to get caught by his WIFE.. he's lying about shit to get into your pants. The fact that you both are married and did this, and it's with someone you work with ... i just can't....Posted by ImpulsvYou're right but it is so awkward at work right now. I'm one of those people who don't even talk or make eye contact with him unless it's work related. But he wants to send IMs via the company's messenger and I refuse to go online for a while now and that has been killing him. I tell him to text or call if he wants to be friends and he says no.
Ok just make sure it does t occur n do things right. Meaning let things finalize for u n him. But seems he is staying so don't wonder if he love u or not. His actions spoke n u just move on. Lick ur wounds , huge lesson Learned.
Don't waste time on underline reason he chose but focus on fact he chose his wife. Make it easier for I to move on.click to expand
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I have a scorpio male co-worker and he has been really interested in me. Was approaching me with sexual comments and requests since I started working there. so I obviously refused all of his requests. Then he admitted that he was joking but we made out two times and had sex once. After each time he would get all freaked out and cold for days saying he has deep feelings for me but he can't be with me. He never texts or calls me but I always see him staring at me from across the room, trying to chat with me via messenger at work and just tries to get people together for lunch so we can hang out. He said he is very unstable emotionally and he can't stop thinking about me. I'm way out of his league and he says his heart drops when I enter the room. He acts all goofy and silly around me.
After we had sex and both felt so bad, we tried to act more professional and pretend nothing ever happened. I see that he likes to be around me but at the same time he leaves the office sooner trying to avoid being alone with me. I love him so deeply, but he won't agree to email or call me, how can I attract him so he falls in love with me?
Thanks,
I'm a Taurus...