i feel cursed

i was told some time ago that its sad i was born under the worse sign and too add to my bad luck i had red hair,people are always telling me i should be outgoing.do any other scorpios feel pressure to be somthing they are not by people who who mistake our personalitys as being antisocial.I just dont have it in me to dance around the room flirt with every man i see.

Dear OP,

Whoever told you this, is crazy, and don't buy into it!! You are special just the way you are! Redheads are rare, well unless you go to Ireland and then they are pretty common, but here you are a rarity! That should make you feel original and unique! What I am trying to say is, instead of being down on yourself for being different consider yourself very lucky!

People who are born under the sign of Scorpio, especailly ones with red hair, don't have to dance around the room to get attention. It will come to you all on it's own!

I have a niece who is a Scorp and a redhead and she is the light of my life. She is 10 years old and is quite and into reading and writing poetry. I also have two other nieces and a nephew who are Aries, and Leo's they were always wanting all the attention and guess who was the one who got it the most...my sweet little Scorpio! I spoiled that one the most. I loved them all very much and wish I could be with them everyday, but deep down inside she is my favorite.

Glory,

What a great name to go with the red hair!!

My dad's brother, who is a Scorp too, has always told me since I was a little girl, because I am the only dark one in the family, that no matter where I was in the world he would be able to recognize me because I was so beautiful! That has stayed with me and little things like that you remember.

I am sorry why someone would say such things to you, but I wouldn't pay it any mind. There is beauty in everything!

Be proud of your red hair!

Look at Angie Everheart (sp?), Andie Macdowell, Julia Roberts...they are all pretty and red-haired. I would love to have been born a redhead; it's such an interesting and unusual look, it actually really neat I think! : )

That should say, "it's actually really neat I think!"

thank you for the feedback on my rude friends comment,its for her own safty we dont talk any more.

well i don't think you are cursed, but why are some of you so mean? Think about things before you say it.

Twinkee,

What are you talking about— Come on now—? You really want to say what you just did?! You are suppose to be in love, how about spreading some around to all of us who are not that fortunate!

Most Scorps they say are redheads. So, shake what ya mama gave you and be proud! Let that crowning glory shine.

Please everyone pay no mind to the twinkee eater. She's full of cream and hot air. She never has anything nice or insightful to say, so don't even respond.

I like Twinkee! She's alright! Doesn't bother me at all! At least she is consistent! HAH

As a Scorpio female I've also felt the pressure of 'working a room' while my friends...Libras and Cancers float around. I think we stand out on our own. We have this mysterious presence that is above any massive flirtation any day. Regarding your red hair...what a beautiful combination!

Thanks for the comment 152! People i just like to speak my opinion I am a very nice person. You can ask scorpio woman. We are not supposed to be friends in the zodiac, but we get along fine.

twinkee77

"People i just like to speak my opinion I am a very nice person"

Twink,

You go right ahead! Do ya thang!!LOL I will listen to what ever you have to say. I might not agree with it and we can argue, but that never means I don't like you as a person because I do, very much! Anybody that would consisitly hold on to their opinions, when all others around them are attacking them, in my book, deserves respect!!! You got it! Just be alittle more careful of hurting peoples feelings in the process. Then again, I think sometimes we are a little spineless on a anonymous message board, and we need to get real, including myself! Depends on what days of the month it is!!