taurusgoddess
@taurusgoddess
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I hate Valentines day.
I am working. I hate working on Valentine's day!!!!! As some of you know, I work in an Italian restaurant in Las Vegas in one of the major casinos. We like to call this amatuer day. Imagine, busy as hell. Giving top notch service. Serving the ladies first. Handing out the flowers to the ladies (we give roses to the ladies on V-Day). Dropping the check and saying, "Thank you. Have a Happy Valentines Day." Then retrieving the tip to see a 10% tip!!!!!! It's a total waste of time. Men who think they are showing off by taking their girls out to dinner, buying wine (usually a house red because the only other time they drink wine is out of the box), wooing her, and then leaving the Server a shitty tip because they are cheap bastards. I hate this day!
You'd think if they only go out once a year that they could afford a decent tip!!
Sting them.
"he's too broke to take me f'n out for V day. I don't need a lot, but c'mon! I'm a taurus, we need love & some pampering!"
If you hate Valentine's Day, then what's the problem?
It appears that you always talk out of both sides of your mouth.
Perhaps, if he had the impression that you loved Valentine's Day, he might not be too broke.
My partner and I were going to go to the casino, but, things didn't work out that way. Instead, we'll do the usual .. sit at home and watch TV.
If you hate Valentine's Day, then what's the problem?
It appears that you always talk out of both sides of your mouth.
Perhaps, if he had the impression that you loved Valentine's Day, he might not be too broke.
My partner and I were going to go to the casino, but, things didn't work out that way. Instead, we'll do the usual .. sit at home and watch TV.
No, I do love it, it's just that dissapointment makes me hate it - is that so far off?
I talk both sides out of my mouth? That's encouraging comments. Hope you guys have fun, cuddling on the couch P-A, that's what we decided to do. mmmmmm good red wine, pizza & some luvin!
ps. full body oil massages are free right? Oh, and let's not forget the rest. 😛
I talk both sides out of my mouth? That's encouraging comments. Hope you guys have fun, cuddling on the couch P-A, that's what we decided to do. mmmmmm good red wine, pizza & some luvin!
ps. full body oil massages are free right? Oh, and let's not forget the rest. 😛
"That's encouraging comments."
Yes, I know .. that was the intent, negativity turns negativity into a positive.
For instance: You started off by saying hate and expressing how you feel like he's not doing anything for you or appreciating you .. I tapped into that and made derogatory remark about hate .. this leaves the person to defend their ground that they don't hate, rather, the opposite.
"No, I do love it", "good red wine, pizza & some luvin!", "full body oil massages"
That's much better and actually how you feel.
Have fun ! 🙂
Yes, I know .. that was the intent, negativity turns negativity into a positive.
For instance: You started off by saying hate and expressing how you feel like he's not doing anything for you or appreciating you .. I tapped into that and made derogatory remark about hate .. this leaves the person to defend their ground that they don't hate, rather, the opposite.
"No, I do love it", "good red wine, pizza & some luvin!", "full body oil massages"
That's much better and actually how you feel.
Have fun ! 🙂
oh no....
lol AM!
I am sooooooo tired. The wine & luvin left me little sleep. We were up at 5am, and I just dropped my babe at the airport. I'm gonna miss him! 😢
AM, I never thot about my ven in gem being a factor in me that way. ughhhh, always comes back to haunt me!
I am sooooooo tired. The wine & luvin left me little sleep. We were up at 5am, and I just dropped my babe at the airport. I'm gonna miss him! 😢
AM, I never thot about my ven in gem being a factor in me that way. ughhhh, always comes back to haunt me!
hehe...many were missing in class today...wonder why....
V-Day is so Phoney and Fake to me
My comment is not of a negative one but one of great insight over the years.
Ok V-Day comes 14th of Feb every year. And women look forward to this day to get that special treatment from the one they love, the man they been sleeping with, or just a plain old male friend. But the day after that everything is back to normal.
Your love making goes back to the normallove making cuz he/she is not putting that much effort in it like he did on V-day.
The next time you get flowers it's for what? your birthday, Christmas, not just because.
I think yall get it. I say it's trivial because men break there neck to get their women or female friends a present from some vendor on the corner that is way to expensive and not worth the money. I mean these people are makin a killing selling stuff that you can make at home or buy from the dollar store. It is a RIP OFF
If I have to get flowers once or twice a year then I don't want them. I would be happy if my men showed or told me he loved me once a week then for him to say he loves me once a year, with some flowers that will die in a week depending on how fresh they are, the candy if full of calories, the stuff animal will probably get thrown in the kids room, and that special day will soon be forgotten.
So why? I don't look for nothing I don't expect nothing because it is not worth it to me.
If I have to wait on that one day of the year for my man to say he loves me, give me his undivided attention or shower me with love and affection, I am thinking damn what has he been doing the other 364 days to show me he loves me.
My comment is not of a negative one but one of great insight over the years.
Ok V-Day comes 14th of Feb every year. And women look forward to this day to get that special treatment from the one they love, the man they been sleeping with, or just a plain old male friend. But the day after that everything is back to normal.
Your love making goes back to the normallove making cuz he/she is not putting that much effort in it like he did on V-day.
The next time you get flowers it's for what? your birthday, Christmas, not just because.
I think yall get it. I say it's trivial because men break there neck to get their women or female friends a present from some vendor on the corner that is way to expensive and not worth the money. I mean these people are makin a killing selling stuff that you can make at home or buy from the dollar store. It is a RIP OFF
If I have to get flowers once or twice a year then I don't want them. I would be happy if my men showed or told me he loved me once a week then for him to say he loves me once a year, with some flowers that will die in a week depending on how fresh they are, the candy if full of calories, the stuff animal will probably get thrown in the kids room, and that special day will soon be forgotten.
So why? I don't look for nothing I don't expect nothing because it is not worth it to me.
If I have to wait on that one day of the year for my man to say he loves me, give me his undivided attention or shower me with love and affection, I am thinking damn what has he been doing the other 364 days to show me he loves me.
V-day is the best day ever! Reminds me how I can sell a dozen roses and get a wad of cash for them.
I'm not into Valentine's day at all. My SO and I don't do anything special.
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My man's going to visit home for 5 days tommorow, so because of the trip he's too broke to take me f'n out for V day. I don't need a lot, but c'mon! I'm a taurus, we need love & some pampering!