I have LDR issues with scorpio

Hi I went away to school for 2 years -grad school and she left as well(med school).). We were together 3 years through college now she's lost her romantic feelings and wants us to be friends we split up about a year ago, it was just too much. We are both 27 now

I want us to be together or at least date as we are both unsure of where we want to be. I know she's been with two other guys, she told me, but I want to marry her.

She's a scorpio too (nov 20) I just don't know how to read her and I know her very much. I think she feels I won't commit as she's been with other guys?

Do you all have any advice?

Find another girl.

Um.... almost same situation...

I get what you are saying about still loving her or having feelings....

Tell her and see what happens (I did)

But it's messy and probably just move on and let her process.

I can't say either way man.

I've been with other girls, its her I want. I don't want to say lets get married until we see how we are after getting back together. I have the woman she was in my heart.



I'm not scared to be alone. I don't want to lose her or be friend-zoned until I know we would never work.

well the name of this thread should be "Will my ex girlfriend come back" there is no issue she split.

The question is can she get her feelings back? I don't know. I personally feel if there was no animosity it could happen. you guys were together before so its not like she doesn't like you. Distance and lonliness killed relationship... women are weird with the feelings. most say they can't because they don't consciously think about something in the past unless forced too. I'd say be her friend and remind her why you were together. it sucks to be a "friend" but start off friendly and mix a little flirting in. I wouldn't accept a straight buddy type friendship.

Can you/her get past the fact that you've boned other people.... ehhhh. maybe, its not like you guys were your first and only partners.

If she's single or not. This was my issue, she's with another guy, even though we still have a connection, she won't just up and leave him for you. Even if she likes/loves you.

Posted by Unwording
Based on your OP, it sounds more like you don't want to be alone.

sounds like it.



if i were her, i wouldnt want to be with a man who just wanted to be with me cause he's alone. and lonely.

Posted by ScorpSag
I've been with other girls, its her I want.

I don't want to say lets get married until we see how we are after getting back together. I have the woman she was in my heart.



I'm not scared to be alone. I don't want to lose her or be friend-zoned until I know we would never work.

if so, you wouldnt be here talking about it. you'd "DO" It. make it happen.



your hesitation sounds like you are UNSURE about it. I agree with Elly.

edit - personally i'd sneer at that, secretly. I would be thinking Gross...

How can I say I want to be with her, if we haven't spent time together in two years. I know where I want to go with this if we still have what I remember we had.