Scorpio girl flirting with my boyfriend

So I'm with this Cap since April. One of his best friends is an Scorpio. I get along with most of his friends, but I have never trust this girl completely. Last week I was at my Cap's apartment and this girl arrived, she was all crying because she had
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  • Nataliaaa
    Sun in Scorpio Moon in Pisces
    So I'm with this Cap since April. One of his best friends is an Scorpio.
    I get along with most of his friends, but I have never trust this girl completely.

    Last week I was at my Cap's apartment and this girl arrived, she was all crying because she had a fight with her family and she had nowhere to go. After an hour we were chatting about random stuff and she seemed ok. I went to the kitchen for a minute and when I came out they were hugging in a very weird way.
    I was surprised to see them but said nothing. Like when you totally know when a girl likes your BF.

    Without me wanting it, he and I had this conversation months ago, he clarified me that he had no interest on her whatsoever, but he didn't know if she had any romantic interest on him. So I wasn't worried at all until now. Continuously this girl carries drama, and she lies a lot. So I have reasons to think she made up all that story so she could stay in his apartment for at least a month. And I also do know how territorial we are when we love, lol.

    I really want to avoid any more drama, I'm happy with my relationship, and I also trust him, but it's pretty annoying to see someone flirting with your BF in your face and you can't say anything because he sees her as his friend. So how can I approach him without being super dramatic about it? Or should I do nothing maybe?
  • LadyNeptune
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    So now she's living with him??!! Plant a nanny cam asap.
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  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    nah.... lol... she going in for the kill. No way if i have a girl she's staying at my house period. He's probably in on it too.
  • I haven't read the post but knowing my cousin Scorpio - you lost baby!
    Sorry...
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Oh she's flirting too. You are being naive... if she's opening flirting in front of you and friends...what the heck you think she doing when you aren't around.

  • LadyNeptune
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    Posted by Nataliaaa
    Without me wanting it, he and I had this conversation months ago, he clarified me that he had no interest on her whatsoever, but he didn't know if she had any romantic interest on him.

    So I have reasons to think she made up all that story so she could stay in his apartment for at least a month.


    You've already talked about how this ho is giving you red flags and threatening the security of your relationship. If he moves her in after that conversation he is basically prioritizing a 'friend' over his relationship.

    That should tell you everything you need to know.
  • Ouch.

    I've got nothing.

    A Cap and TWO Scorps?

    It could go either way.

    You are in a catch 22....you have to trust him....or that will make him run to her.

    So....you have to trust him.

    Voice that though, say it out loud and clear as day. "I trust you.".....

    So when she's running around in her panties and bra after a shower....it echoes in his head...lol
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    @Nataliaaa

    I am a man

    As reformed cheater.... as a cheater I would have done it to bone her/replace you....

    as a Man... I'm not crazy enough to do this, you couldn't pay me to do it... does this make sense?

  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    @Ellesbelles

    I'm shocked by this answer from you. I thought you were old school this never would fly.

    I'm new school and this never would fly lmao

    Relationships mean nothing now a days... I love yous happen a dime a dozen. I'd rather have someone I can trust.

    pfft. nobody wants to be single, but like to pretend to be.
  • Nataliaaa
    Sun in Scorpio Moon in Pisces
    Posted by ellesbelles
    Ouch.

    I've got nothing.

    A Cap and TWO Scorps?

    It could go either way.

    You are in a catch 22....you have to trust him....or that will make him run to her.

    So....you have to trust him.

    Voice that though, say it out loud and clear as day. "I trust you.".....

    So when she's running around in her panties and bra after a shower....it echoes in his head...lol


    I know..it's difficult
    Thank you! That seems like a clever move. I always prefer to trust and expect the best in people. And I really want o believe on what he previously said

  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Have your bff/therapist on stand by.... smh

    Somebody show me where the naive girl section is... I want 3 of them.

    @saggurl88 come help me pick a few out!
  • Nataliaaa
    Sun in Scorpio Moon in Pisces
    Posted by hellosaggy
    Have your bff/therapist on stand by.... smh

    Somebody show me where the naive girl section is... I want 3 of them.

    @saggurl88 come help me pick a few out!


    Being naive and innocent is a compliment, thanks!
  • hellosaggy
    Sag Sun, Aries Moon, Scorp Rising, Scorp Venus, Libra Mars, Cap Merc
    34 years old male
    Ok. because obviously you aren't using your head..

    Let's say you moved a man in your apartment that flirted with you in front of him and your friends...

    go ahead... i'll wait.

    #Jesustakethewheel
  • Posted by hellosaggy
    @Ellesbelles

    I'm shocked by this answer from you. I thought you were old school this never would fly.

    I'm new school and this never would fly lmao

    Relationships mean nothing now a days... I love yous happen a dime a dozen. I'd rather have someone I can trust.

    pfft. nobody wants to be single, but like to pretend to be.


    My partner is a Cap and I know how important his friends are.

    Personally, if we didn't live together.....I don't feel it's my place to tell him which friend he can help by giving them temporary shelter and which he can't based on gender.

    I would simply have to trust him.

    I would hope that if she did have a hidden agenda he would be gentlemen enough to turn her down while putting a foot in her ass on her way out the door.

    At the end of the day, it's his choice.

    Just like if I were in the same position, it would be my choice.

    If they lived together it would be a mutual decision....but they don't.
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